My ethnicity is | White |
Height | 5'10" (178 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Friends/Long-term/Dating |
Body type | Athletic build |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Do not smoke, but OK if you do |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | Chaosad386, Man, 43 |
Location | Forest Hills, New York, USA |
Looking for a | Woman, aged 25 - 40, Black/East Indian/Latino... |
My ethnicity is | White |
Height | 5'10" (178 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Friends/Long-term/Dating |
Body type | Athletic build |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Do not smoke, but OK if you do |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
I would describe myself as very laid back, drama-free, sometimes stubborn, intelligent man. I was born and raised outside of the Unites States (Eastern Europe) which gives me a unique perspective on American society but don't get me wrong: I love NYC (can't speak about other parts of the country).
Although physical attraction is very important to me, I'd say mental connection and chemistry is equally important and you have to have both if you want to build something long-term. I welcome sarcasm, open-mindedness, a good sense of humor, appreciation for music...
My attraction for darker-skinned women is not a fetish. It is a preference which started in my early 20's and only grew stronger as years passed by.
I noticed there are a lot of frightened people on this site. I am, of course, referring to the God-fearing people. While I respect everyone's opinions, I prefer to live my life happily so please, if you want me to fear God, do not contact me. I was afraid of the Boogie man when I was a kid and that wasn't fun at all.
I am looking for
I am looking for someone who is ambitious, open-minded, funny and low-stress. I tend to take a very calm and rational approach to problems that come up in life and I feel like high-strung emotions only get in the way of making a good decision.
I tend to be attracted to olive-to-dark skinned women with hourglass shapes (no skinny/flat girls), tall, intelligent and full of confidence.
I consider myself very socially liberal so I'm not sure I would mesh very well with someone who has mostly conservative views.
I am not interested in women who:
1. Say they want a LTR yet they have pictures of them stripping in their bathroom with a cellphone in their hand.
2. Use the phrase "110 percent" instead of "100 percent" or "Ima" and "your" instead of "I'm a" and "you're".
3. Pose with their middle finger up. You're not bad-ass. As a matter of fact, flipping your camera off in your bedroom is the LEAST bad ass thing you can do. Your record is forever tarnished.
4. Use these expressions: "Keep it moving", "Hella sexy".
5. Post pictures of their pet. Neither me nor my pet is interested in dating your dog.
6. Make a duck face in their pictures (lips puckered up, trying to look sexy).
7. Want to be "spoiled". Just be direct and say "I want you to buy me things". You wouldn't want me to say "Do you like pleasing people?" instead of "You're gonna have to have sex with me for that" right?
8. Include self-aggrandizing titles in their profiles such as "Sexy ebony", "As good as it gets", "Beauty and brains" etc.
9. Use cheesy titles for their profiles such as "Bonnie needs her Clyde", "Yin needs her Yang", "Need cream in my coffee", "Dark chocolate looking for white chocolate", "Too blessed to be stressed".
10. Use "n" for "in", "luv" for "love", "nvr" for "never"."Lady in the streetz, freak in the sheetz"?
11. Are confused as to what do they want from this website "Seeking white mail".
12. Queens who are looking for Kings. As far as I know, I'm not of royal blood and I'm pretty sure you aren't either.
PS: don't take everything I said too literally. Just take it as an indication of what my general personality is like but don't think I am THAT strict.