My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 5'8" (173 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Friends/Long-term |
Body type | Average build |
Have children | Children at home |
Smoking | Smoke occasionally |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | Brit661, Woman, 36 |
Location | Bakersfield, California, USA |
Looking for a | Man, aged 25 - 40, Any Ethnicity |
My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 5'8" (173 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Friends/Long-term |
Body type | Average build |
Have children | Children at home |
Smoking | Smoke occasionally |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
Do not ask me what I am looking for within 2 minutes of messaging me. I am not "looking" for anything. I'm more concerned with whether or not we can hold a conversation between us before we concern ourselves with settling down. Get to know me. Challenge me. Excite me. Can't tell you how many people are worried about if the other person is ready to commit before they even know 10 random facts about them. Are we able to even be friends first? If you're not someone I'd hang with as just a friend then you'd never be someone I could settle down with. I let things happen as they should. I'm more concerned with seeing if I can even hang with someone for an hour and not be bored and if we have compatibility. Maybe it leads to friendship. Maybe to nothing. Maybe to intimacy. Maybe to a relationship. When you seek, you tend to overthink and overplay things and also leave yourself vulnerable for much more disappointment.
So if you ask me what I'm looking for, I'm going to respond "Waldo" and then charge you $19.95 and tell you to read my profile
If you're holding a liquor bottle in every picture and you're NOT a Rapper shooting a rap video, you are an alcoholic.
If all your pictures are screen shots of a picture, and/or beyond blurry, I will just assume your name is Bob. Bob likes to lure children n with candy and collects moths in his basement
Once I stood outside for 24 hours straight. Every time a stranger asked me what I was doing, I replied, "being outstanding."
People will wait in line for hours to days for iPhones, Jordan's, & Black Friday deals but won't wait an hour to vote on Election Day.
If you've made assumptions and judgements based on my "look," chances are pretty strong you're wrong, but that's ok.
Never judge a book by its cover. Unless it's an erotic novel, then it's probably a safe bet.
I like to eat at distinguished & fancy restaurants like Olive Garden & BJ's ????
I am a woman of many mistakes and wrong doings. I haven't always made the right choice or traveled the correct path. However, I am a woman who knows my strengths and weaknesses, but has no boundaries. I seek to succeed and pave the path to my future. I am very successful within my career, and have a bright future. I'm attracted to he who seeks to excel, achieve greatness and knows who he is within.
I am looking for
I'm looking for someone honest humble independent with a great personality and sense of humor.