My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 5'9" (175 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Friends/Long-term |
Body type | Slim build |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Smoke occasionally |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | Blktallnsexy, Woman, 39 |
Location | Niagara Falls, New York, USA |
Looking for a | Man, aged 36 - 50, Any Ethnicity |
My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 5'9" (175 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Friends/Long-term |
Body type | Slim build |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Smoke occasionally |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
How can I describe myself in a way that doesn't sound like an advertisement or an autobiography. There's so much about me to be explored and a profile can't even give a sample of who I am. I am not on here to market myself and I don't want to give that impression. I'm from Upstate NY. I've been in Colorado for about a year. I'm a late bloomer when it comes to dating. I didn't start until I was almost 24, and that didn't last long. I'm kind, sweet, devoted, polite, honest, playful, humorous, smart, easy-going, and non-judgmental and there's so much more. I'm strong minded, opinionated and a great debater. I'm talkative and sometimes my conversations have no basis. I'm pretty outgoing, but at first I can be apprehensive and shy. I'm stubborn, but appreciative. I can be spontaneous as well as analytical. I love cooking and not just because I'm can cook, but because I love to eat. Kindness is my gift and curse, and I always have a smile on my face. I'm altruistic; which can sometimes be portrayed as naivety because I often think the best of people. I write to inspire, I smile to show appreciation, I learn to teach and I achieve to share. I prefer a book or a movie over going to bars or clubs. I'm fun to be around, but I'm not really a partier. Depending on the occasion and on the mood I can maybe be talked into it.
I'm talkative and sometimes my conversations have no basis. I'm outgoing but at times can be apprehensive. I love to write, explore and learn EVERYTHING about EVERYTHING. I love the outdoors, I've hiked down a few mountains and drove across a few states. I've lived in many places. I'm a experienced traveler and I can have my bags packed and ready to go in a blink of an eye (maybe a little exaggerated).
I am a true music lover I listen to every type of music there is and I occasionally like to add my own flare to it. So do not be surprised to hear me singing in the shower. Well, more like ruining a song, sometimes my harmony is out a whack. Music is so poetic, inspirational and motivating and I can't survive without it. I'm optimistic and I love every thing about life the good and the bad. I have the ability to see past the pessimism and negativity and discover the hope and appreciation.'Everything has a purpose' and 'Everything happens for a reason'; those are my mottos. I love to explore, travel and discover new things. So with me you'll never be bored or dissatisfied only surprised. I could continue to explain all of my attributes and qualities but I rather you have your own opinion of me. So instead of telling you about me I rather show you!!
I am looking for
My preferences are justly nothing unrealistic. A man who can make me laugh and keep a smile on my face is required. I would like a man who I can trust with my insecurities, doubts, secrets and my heart. I seek someone who will love me for who I am and all that I can be. I'm not looking for a man that invites drama and loves to be entertained by it. I am serious, not into playing games or leading people on, I'm genuine and I'm looking for the same. I'm looking for a guy who is kind, sweet, and respectful and treats his woman with admiration but is not submissive. I'm not looking for hook-ups or intimate encounters so please no solicitations. I respect myself far too much. I want something that has the potential to go further then one, two or three nights together, as friends or possibly more. Being friends first is important to me then other possibilities should just come naturally. I know what I have to offer and I'm not settling for anything less. I know who I am, want I want and most importantly what I deserve.
I'm optimistic, effervescent and full of life. I try to maintain a healthy mentality by steering away from negative people and situations. If you're miserable and looking for someone to control and bring down... Please hit 'next profile', and scroll right past me because I don't want or need drama. I'm a loving, affectionate and sensual hopeless romantic and I'm looking for the same. I have a huge heart and I'm always thinking about the next person. I don't judge nor do I want to be judged. I've only been in one relationship in my life (late bloomer) so patience is a requirement. I'm not in search of an overnight relationship. If you're full of life and like to maintain a healthy and positive attitude, we have a few commonalities. I try to keep my life stress and drama free and I seek the same in a guy. SERIOUS guys inquire only. Good Luck to all of you bachelors, may you all find what you're looking for!
BTW I'm not really a partier or clubber, never have been but I do like to have fun and enjoy myself. So don't worry I'm not boring ;-))
I want to reiterate the fact that I'm not looking for SEX PARTNERS!! One night stands, No thank you!!