My ethnicity is | White |
Height | 5'2"-5'6" |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Friends |
Body type | Few extra pounds |
Have children | Children at home |
Smoking | Do not smoke, but OK if you do |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | Bjmc, Woman, 58 |
Location | Tyler, Texas, USA |
Looking for a | Man, aged 35 - 55, Any Ethnicity |
My ethnicity is | White |
Height | 5'2"-5'6" |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Friends |
Body type | Few extra pounds |
Have children | Children at home |
Smoking | Do not smoke, but OK if you do |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
I don't really like the usual swapping of sob stories because I'm not very pretty when my mascara runs... But if you must know...
Subject: Why I Am now Divorced
Last week was my birthday and I didn't feel very well waking up on that morning.
I went downstairs for breakfast hoping my husband would be pleasant and say, 'Happy Birthday'' and possibly have a small present for me.
As it turned out, he barely said good morning, let alone ' Happy Birthday.'
I thought... Well, that's marriage for you, but the kids... They will remember.
My kids came bounding down stairs to breakfast and didn't say a word. So when I left for the office I felt pretty low and somewhat despondent.
As I walked into my office, my handsome Boss Rick, said, 'Good Morning, lady, and by the way Happy Birthday!' It felt a little better that at least someone had remembered.
I worked until one o'clock, when Rick knocked on my door and said, 'You know, It's such a beautiful day outside, and it is your Birthday, what do you say we go out to lunch, just you and me.'
I said, 'Thanks, Rick, that's the greatest thing I've heard all day. Let's go!'
We went to lunch. But we didn't go where we normally would go. He chose instead a quiet bistro with a private table. We had two martinis each and I enjoyed the meal tremendously.
On the way back to the office, Rick said, 'You know, It's such a beautiful day... We don't need to go straight back to the office, Do We?'
I responded, 'I guess not. What do you have in mind?' He said, 'Let's drop by my place, it's just around the corner.'
After arriving at his house, Rick turned to me and said, If you don't mind, I'm going to step into the bedroom for just a moment. I'll be right back.'
'Ok.' I nervously replied.
He went into the bedroom and, after a couple of minutes, he came out carrying a huge birthday cake... Followed by my husband, my kids, and dozens of my friends and co-workers, all singing 'Happy Birthday'.
And I just sat there...
On the couch...
Naked.
Lol-I'm just playing-and don't try to picture it either-haha
Be blessed and don't be a stranger-say hi-howyadoin? How else will we meet and become friends?
If I was dating someone and you saw me in a grocery store you'd still say hi-I guess?? So many on here are looking for that 'true love' 'best friend' 'next wife'-those profiles send me running-
Love happens when you're not actively trying to force it. Friends are forever- I'm friends with my ex because we were friends first. When you dis on your ex-you're not someone I would readily trust especially if she is the mother of your children. If there are children... Divorce never ends things- that relationship is forever-graduations, funerals, visitations-etc. If you're not dealing civilly with those things-why would I want to get caught up in your drama? Too many other people in this world need help-widows- foster kids-the homeless-the hungry-these are causes I would prefer to devote my time to. Get a counselor, smoke something, have a drink, pray-whatever it takes but lets don't trade sob stories.
Truth is-my ex is a great guy-I'm just a biatch-lol-seriously-you'll probably really never know-most of you-I'm finding see a pretty face and try to make her into what you want her to be-and that didn't work the first time-lol
Rushed intimacy confuses your thinking and your chance of true friendship. I have never been- nor will I ever be your pick-up girl. There are plenty of them out there and even some on this site-have at it. I reserve that part of my life for those I trust and if we just met-you're not there yet-NEXT
I am looking for
-great conversations -lots of laughs-a few good drinks, dinner on the grill, a game of pool, a cool band, fast cars, gentle horses, some new friends-Much THANKS
New people, new friends and new experiences-I'm open to fun and don't plan to restrict that with jumping into anything serious again-lol,
I thought I'd be able to be a 'real player' but when the opportunity actually presented it's self... I find myself hanging back -not necessarily shy-ok- a little shy-but mostly just not trying to juggle. There's an art to the juggle and I don't have the skills - but I want to keep my options open awhile.
Not that you're waiting on me or anything-lol-just I keep reading guys profiles saying they don't want e-mail or txting buddies. That's not my goal either but if I ran into you daily at the coffee shop and started dating someone else you'd still say hi-yes?