My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 5'7"-5'11" |
Status | Divorced |
Seeking | Long-term/Friends |
Body type | Average build |
Have children | Children not at home |
Smoking | Do not smoke, but OK if you do |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | Benevolent2, Man, 61 |
Location | Durham, North Carolina, USA |
Looking for a | Woman, aged 35 - 55, Any Ethnicity |
My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 5'7"-5'11" |
Status | Divorced |
Seeking | Long-term/Friends |
Body type | Average build |
Have children | Children not at home |
Smoking | Do not smoke, but OK if you do |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
A man of passion and romance and of open and meaningful communication, once who does not stand for the needy and the emotionally immature, willing to explore what life has to offer in the new century, with a good friend who is not bitter and willing to share and be willing to make the major step in wanting a better friendship that causes them to look past themselves and their own fears and doubts. To willing to accept love and concern with having to have the other be so demanding, to share the last time and only heart of someone who just want u to be calm relaxed and over the pain.. A nd just be there willing be accpeted.
I am looking for
My hobbies are those that will do nothing more but make me a man who knows the value of communication, a man who knows that there is more to life than beer and t. V. Hobbies that capture the essence of man, building homes, road trips, cooking, dancing learning local history, gardening and music. Man passions in life are high and ice cream and music and of course the pursuit of a woman who I can understand and is free within her own skin and will want to know more about me and not label me as just another black man. I have spent a life being apart from yet never forgetting where I came from and who I am.
To enjoy the company of those who may one day be customers in my own diner, to write that screen play, the learn that one cord on my guitar that bring the song all together, to share my life, thoughts, fears, dreams, to share them with someone who I can call my friend with out hesitation or doubt as to their motive in being my friend, my uniqueness comes from wanting to be a complete renaissance man, well rounded in music poetry, art politics and of course romance, for to me there is no greater joy to know that the person who you are sharing the moment with is the same person who feels like you do and wants nothing more than to be with you whether you have 60 million dollars or 60 cents. It is the depth of character, the passion in their soul, the desire to be closer to the divine that makes me search for that one person who makes this time on the earth just that much easier to take, we all have a past and we are not perfect, its just finding that one person who can put up with your imperfections. Communication is key to any friend ship and being emotionally available to some one is just a important as being honest, being cold, and stubborn and reserved serves no ones best interest Would it be so wrong, in that once in a life time that we should not be so afraid to let some like us for we really are with out lying to them because we hate ourselves just that much?. People who are you friends are your friends because they want to be, not because they have to be. I want to bring back holding hands, whispers in the dark, surprise lunches while she is at work, calls for no reason other than to let her know she is wanted. Do I go to church every Sunday.. No.. I do I read my bible every night.. Compassion without strings... And commitment with excuses... I live my life as the French thinker Voltaire once stated" to live your life with the most good and the least INTENDED evil."Ladies think about it.. If you are trying to make everyone happy and please all those you know.. What do you really believe in and what is it that you want do for you. Ask your self this, What are you do RIGHT NOW that is making YOUR LIFE better?