My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 5'8" (173 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Long-term |
Body type | Few extra pounds |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | An_0411, Woman, 37 |
Location | San Jose, California, USA |
Looking for a | Man, aged 30 - 45, White (Exclusive) |
My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 5'8" (173 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Long-term |
Body type | Few extra pounds |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
I believe in creating a balance - between work and play, giving and receiving, optimism and realism. I believe in honesty and a genuine nature. I believe in standing up for myself, speaking my mind, and being open to admitting when I am wrong.
I believe in being kind, I believe in love, and I believe in humanity. I believe that the world is more good than bad, and I love the quote that says "Life isn't about finding yourself, life is about creating yourself." I try to enjoy every day, acknowledging that the experiences of today are going to contribute to the person I will be tomorrow. I try to make decisions that will always lead to a better tomorrow.
All throughout the day I can find something to laugh about, life is much too short to be so serious all of the time! I get really excited about the smallest things. I'm not shy, but if we've just met, you may think I am. I'm not the type of person that sensors myself, and I love surrounding myself with people who value the openness and honesty that stems from that type of philosophy.
I think people are interesting. I think our differences are what really bring us together; I don't want everyone around me to be a reflection of me, which is in part what brought me to this site.
I am college educated, and am lucky enough to have landed myself a career that I genuinely enjoy. I'm looking for a partner and a friend, in the same person. While friends are sometimes the fortunate result of love that didn't spark or didn't last, I am not on this site solely to make friends.
I am looking for
I'm not a serial dater and unlike my usual 20-something counterparts, I am not looking to casually date, but rather for a loving, long term relationship. I used to be strictly looking for people in my immediate area, but I'm learning that you never really know where the people you are ultimately going to click with on a deeper level will reside, and with that I'm open to something long distance initially, if there's ultimately a willingness to relocate.
I really value articulate communication, kindness, and a humble nature.
It's truly impossible to sum up everything I'm looking for on paper, but hopefully this gives you an idea of what initially draws my attention. If you think we'd get along, feel free to say hi!