My ethnicity is | White/Mixed/Other |
Height | 5'10" (178 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Friends/Long-term |
Body type | Few extra pounds |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | Alcabo, Woman, 45 |
Location | Jacksonville, Florida, USA |
Looking for a | Man, aged 36 - 45, Black/Pacific Islander/Latino... |
My ethnicity is | White/Mixed/Other |
Height | 5'10" (178 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Friends/Long-term |
Body type | Few extra pounds |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
I enjoy the out doors and nature. I would love to get out in it more often. Some say I am intimidating but I have a class about me that is rarely seen these days so I think some men just get it confused. I have dogs that are very close to me and are a big part of who I am. I love to laugh and be playful. I can be aggressive but also subservient when needed. I enjoy making people laugh and being silly for no reason. I dont think you have to have a reason to be happy in life. I would love to feel safe and secure with the man in my life and be able to just be me in all my faults and glories. I have a kind heart but tough exterior. Once you are able to get past it, its all butter. I am educated but not the smartest in the world. I expect the man in my life to have an education as well. I consider myself multi-cultural and open to try new things. I love the different things of the world, it makes life exciting.
I am looking for
Strong in mind, body, and spirit, respectful, funny, caring, affectionate, educated, driven and goal oriented, if he has kids already that's OK, love and respect for animals, understanding about my views on life and open to share his with me, open minded, eager to try new things, secure in his own life and manhood, able to be a bit "old school" with modern flare, able to hold me up when I need to be weak and willing to let me be strong for him when he needs to be weak. Not into any who insists on being a douche, jerk, player, playboy, liar, or cheater. I understand that no one is perfect, we all have faults and is able to accept mine as I his, so long as they arent done on purpose to hurt each other. Tell me when I am wrong and ALSO when I am right, as I him . Share in life the adventures that lay ahead yet secure and honest enough to have individual lives too.
I prefer him to be taller than I. (I am 5'10) Just makes me feel secure and safe...:) Nothing like being able to stand and look up to my mans eyes and tippey toe to kiss him. :)
SORRY GUYS!!!!!!! Just putting this out there to avoid awkward moments, hurt feelings, or rejection.
I am attracted to intelligent, educated, career oriented, DARKER SKINNED MEN (Or mixed) who are taller than I and closer to my age or older . (I have had my share of dating or being with much younger men and its not for me anymore)
I dont care if you dont like that so please stay out of my inbox with your hate, everyone has their preferences .
If you are a "player", "thug", "gansta", "hood", or any of the derivatives, I am not interested .
I am looking for a man who is educated who speaks American English (refer to previous sentence), has his own place and vehicle, a job where hes working on advancing in and has goals to progress in life . One who has respect for all living beings and enjoys animals of all kinds . One who can hold me up when I need to be weak and lets me be strong on my own . One who is interested in knowing everything about me by asking questions or listening when I have something to say and will share things openly with me . Who doesnt mind showing his affection every time he can no matter where we are or who is around us . Proud that I chose him to be with and he me . Who can tolerate my flaws and help me be a better version of myself as I do the same for him . One who will let me pamper him and who desires to do the same to me . One who can be creative in showing his affections and love for me and who lets me do the same for him and appreciates my efforts in making sure he smiles everyday .
If you have pics of you flying your middle finger, no pic or only one pic of yourself, have nothing written in your profile for me to read about you, or if you have expectations of just "hooking up" for sex, please pass me by .
I am not comfortable giving out my phone number to anyone until I have spoken to you enough . Please dont pressure me into giving you my number or me having yours . I am a bit old fashioned in this sense .