My ethnicity is | Black/White |
Height | 5'7"-5'11" |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Long-term |
Body type | Large build |
Have children | Children at home |
Smoking | Smoke occasionally |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | AL1047, Woman, 40 |
Location | Tacoma, Washington, USA |
Looking for a | Man, aged 25 - 40, White/Mixed |
My ethnicity is | Black/White |
Height | 5'7"-5'11" |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Long-term |
Body type | Large build |
Have children | Children at home |
Smoking | Smoke occasionally |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
I'm Ajia. I'm 25, living in Tacoma, WA. I have a baby girl on the way, due April '09. I'm mixed, half white and half black. My life seems to have just begun in the last two years. My favorite color is pink. I am a homebody. I'd rather veg with good movies than troll the club scene. But I still love love love to have fun! I can be crazy and goofy. I'm always real about who I am and what I bring to the table and I value people who can be the same. I still forget which hand is left and which is right. I almost never get my car washed. My favorite movie is Lolita. I believe in fairy tales no matter how hard I try not to. My mother is my best friend and the most important thing to me in the world. I love love love to stay in hotels. It makes me feel anonymous and mysterious. The thing I'm most proud of in my life is graduating high school. It's the only real thing I've ever accomplished and it was really hard for me, emotionally speaking. I really enjoy psychology. The way the human mind works continues to fascinate me on a daily basis. I also love math. I would love to be an artist, but I don't have the talent. Almost everything I have has been given to me. I've only recently started working for things in life. My favorite food is my grandmother's Swedish pancakes. I have odd fears like spiders laying eggs in my cheek, my car blowing up when I start it after just putting gas in it, snakes crawling out of my toilet while I'm going to the bathroom, and the king with the plastic head in those Burger King commercials... Just to name a few. I talk to myself constantly when I'm alone. The cd "Without Condition" by Ginnie Owens can make me feel better no matter what's going on in my life. I love smells that are associated with memories the most. My most prized possession is my great-grandmother's rosary. I love love love to clean my ears. I think people are generally good at heart despite the flaws and evils we've acquired. The Catcher in the Rye by J. D. Salinger is my favorite book. I would love to be a photographer and have my own darkroom. If it wouldn't ravage my hair, I would dye it all blonde. I've always had the feeling I'd die rather young. I've seen "Clueless" more times than any other movie. I don't know how to skate, ice or otherwise. My favorite flower is the Stargazer Lily. I've never broken a bone. I think the right eyes can make anyone sexy. My favorite tv show of all-time is "My So-Called Life." I have a lot of secrets that I've never told anyone, and one that I'm sure I never will. I love infomercials. I'm a hopeless romantic. I've never used a lawn mower. I've been skydiving once. My favorite song is "Motorcycle Drive By" by Third Eye Blind. I am adamantly pro-choice. I hate self-righteous religious zealots. I have four tattoos. I prefer cold weather to hot. I can find common ground with almost anyone. I'm a shop-a-holic. The one thing that I've always wanted to be more than anything is a mother and I can't wait.
I am looking for
I'm looking for love, for a best friend, for someone who gives me as much as I give them. I have a baby on the way, so someone who is interested in being a step-dad and loves children is really important to me. Where I used to date all kinds of losers, my standards have increased dramatically because I refuse to let just anyone in my child's life. I'm over any games. I'm looking for honesty and straight-forwardness. If I'm not interested, I'm going to say so, and I hope you'd do the same. I'm not waiting around for anyone to call me. I have no desire to pretend to be someone I'm not. I want to love and spoil someone as much as I want to be loved and spoiled. I want to meet someone that I plan on spending the rest of my life with.