My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 6'0" (183 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Long-term/Dating |
Body type | Few extra pounds |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Never drink |
Nickname | 2411hunter, Man, 62 |
Location | Washington, District of Columbia, USA |
Looking for a | Woman, aged 40 - 60, White (Exclusive) |
My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 6'0" (183 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Long-term/Dating |
Body type | Few extra pounds |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Never drink |
How would you describe yourself?
Now I could say a lot and say nothing about me as a human being, but hopefully my basic profile information can answer those initial questions you may have. PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE READ THIS PROFILE CAREFULLY to see if this works for you. I do not want any misunderstandings between us on how I present myself as a person, what I'm about and how I live. So take the time to consider everything I say here, thanks.
So with that said, I can say that I'm no more than just a SBM "beach bum" (in spirit because I still have to pay bills) who deep down enjoys life to the fullest and appreciates each day given to live. However, as AL Green once said, " I'm so tired of being alone..." (I'm just saying it w/o the hot grits, OUCH!) lol. ALL THIS COMING FROM A GUY BORN AND RAISED IN NJ (on the NJ Shore in the heart of Bruce Springsteen country, so it must be the water, lol)! Bottom line, with having done numerous things in my life (salesman, news writer, printer, etc.), I have most importantly always been (and still remain) James (which is my first name). Nothing more, nothing less!!!
What I'm good at is having ALWAYS had a curious nature about the universe, the world, and more importantly myself (attempting to identify my relationship among all of three of them) who is constantly seeking knowledge, I'm really good at looking at THE BIG PICTURE and seeing all the individual parts (most importantly MINE!). Learning to understand how each one works within it, I find at times these parts may (in some instances) not work well together. However, I will ALWAYS accept responsibility for my part and will bust my ass to make everything work well together. Now at times I can be also sarcastic and brutally honest while attempting to do this, but I know that what I say is not meant to be cruel, it helps me to "KEEP IT REAL!" with not only with others, but more importantly, with myself.
Currently, what I'm doing is working for the US government (while attempting to complete educational goals that I had put to the side because of living like a "beach bum"). I moved back to DC (in 2013) because I wanted to step back in time to a place that I fell in love with long ago, but NEVER appreciated it.
I am looking for
What I want more than anything is BALANCE! So, what I would like is to meet a woman that I can have a good conversation (and most importantly laugh) with while enjoying the simple things in life. I'm looking for someone "who puts steam in a man's stride"!!:) I just want to meet somebody out there that has a good head on her shoulders & is comfortable w/herself at all times! Now being a Sagittarius, my personality is laid back for the most part, until it's time to go to work. There, I do my best to handle my business. In fact, at times, I tend to be a workaholic who does what needs to be done constantly to maintain a good life (while forgetting what's important at times; typical man, lol) unless someone reminds me to "stop and smell the roses". More important than this, though, I like a woman who has her own life going in one direction (not all over the place) and is willing to work everyday to achieve her life goals (with or without me) because again, I tend to do the same at times (with or without her)! Also, I want a woman that I can learn from (and that she can learn from me as well). Finally, when I see her for the first time, as well as when I take MY LAST BREATH (in life), I know deep within me that she was the right choice!!
I'd just like to add... If there is someone else in the picture and you do not share children with him, KEEP WALKIN'!!! I'm getting tired of the drama that comes with ancient history, thank you very much.