My ethnicity is | White |
Height | 5'6" (168 cm) |
Status | Divorced |
Seeking | Friends/Long-term |
Body type | Few extra pounds |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | 1funfemale, Woman, 51 |
Location | East Lansing, Michigan, USA |
Looking for a | Man, aged 41 - 52, Black/Mixed |
My ethnicity is | White |
Height | 5'6" (168 cm) |
Status | Divorced |
Seeking | Friends/Long-term |
Body type | Few extra pounds |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
Let's just say that I am a kind, single 47 year old educated woman with no children. I'm here on this website because I am a very open minded woman that finds beauty in the swirling of cultures.
I appreciate honesty (sometimes I'm too honest for my own good of course with no ill intentions), like people with strength of character, find intelligence attractive, and enjoy a person with a good sense of humor. I'm a compassionate worldly person, who loves to learn new things. Are you a worldly person? Do you like to learn new things?
Board and card games are really the only kind of games that I really enjoy playing, as I don't like to play games with people or their feelings. I do enjoy a good Cards Against Humanity game! I believe that you can tell a lot about a person by the way that they treat their family and also by the way that they treat animals. To me, attractiveness is much more than physical, it is also intelligence and personality. If I can't have a good conversation with a person, there is nothing there to sustain a physical relationship. One more thing, I have a strong preference for men that are within 5 -10 years of my age in either direction. Please be between 41 and 52 if you are writing because you are interested in me for a relationship.
Don't mistake kindness and compassion for weakness, as it a very strong person with a deep sense of character and self-respect to be strong enough to share part of their soul with humanity.
In my day to day life I enjoy gardening, walks, hiking, the beach (prefer the ocean), my 2 cats, time with friends, movies, MSU ice hockey, and more. A suggestion for a first date with me is to get dirty in the garden with me in the summer or to go to an ice hockey game in the winter. :) I love little adventures in life, traveling, and love learning about other countries, people from those countries and their languages. I'm a sucker for a beautiful sunset over a body of water. I share my soul with humanity by volunteering and giving back to my community through the community garden program, the Great Lakes folk festival, help at the food bank, donating about 70% of my garden harvests to people that need food and in other ways. Karma...you get what you give in life.
So who are you? Have you taken the time to reflect on who you are as a person? Do you know yourself well? Do you like yourself? Guess you could also say that I am a deep person. Are you a deep person too? What are you about? Do you give back to the community and/or the world? Are you grateful, compassionate, kind, and caring? Have you filled out your profile, is it fairly empty or blank? How can you expect me to want to respond to your message if you aren't willing to tell me about yourself and utilizing all that this website allows you. Please if you decide to write me, send me more than a one-liner type of message, I really appreciate a man that takes time to try to get to know me and gives me questions to reply to so we can get a conversation started. If you have questions about whether I might want to try something, just ask, as I believe the only dumb question is the one you don't ask.
Have a wonderful day!
I am looking for
I am looking for a man that is open minded, honest, loving, and compassionate. The man that catches my eye or maybe I should say my brain, will be able to hold a conversation with me about many different topics. He is able to communicate about his beliefs, his feelings and his life. They say the brain is the largest sex organ, so you must know how to communicate or there will be absolutely nothing to sustain a long term relationship. The man I'm looking for is attractive to me because of his intelligence, the way he expresses himself and then lastly for his physical looks. I firmly believe that the body is just a vessel that carries the soul, therefore the body may change over the years. I'm looking for the man that has it together and has a beautiful soul. (Beauty is more than skin deep in my opinion.)
I am not looking for a man that shares all of my hobbies, I'm looking for a man that has some of the same interests that I do, but that can also teach me new things in life. In a sustainable relationship I think we need to have some common interests, but also some interests that are separate to keep some spice in the relationship.
You must be a non-smoker of cigarettes and marijuana, as well as have no illegal drugs in your life. If you are a light to moderate drinker of alcohol that is fine, as I also enjoy a glass of wine on occasion. I have always loved kids, so I'm not adverse to dating someone with children.
The man I am looking for is educated, gives back to the community (such as volunteers or gives to charity), curious, enjoys playing board and/or card games, is interested in traveling, is knowledgeable about the world, and is a critical thinker. So do you have a huge capacity for love? Do you enjoy sharing your love with someone special?