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When you shouldn't (and should) want your ex back

Posted by Matthew, 18 Nov 14

Its good to let bygones be bygones, right? There probably is a great reason why he ended up as your ex. That's the advice most people would give.

But what if this ex of yours is someone you loved a lot? What if this ex of yours is someone you considered to be the love your life - someone you would give anything to have them back into your life? Well, the big question is: Should you even consider having them back? Are your reasons for wanting your ex back "good ones" or just "wrong"?

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What do you think? Are there - if ever - right reasons to have your ex back or should we just let bygones be bygones?

Matthew Hussey is a renowned dating expert and author. His latest dating book Get The Guy is a New York Times bestseller. He's the go-to relationship expert for Rachael Ray, Katie Couric, Ryan Seacrest, Meredith Vieira and many others. And he's a relationship columnist for Cosmopolitan magazine and the resident love expert for "The Today Show." Here he shares his proven strategies to get a man to do anything you want, from tirelessly pursuing you to treating you like a goddess to committing to you for life.

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2 responses to "When you shouldn't (and should) want your ex back"

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  1.   Purbeauty says:
    Posted: 18 Sep 15

    Nice, love it!!!

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  2.   erberry says:
    Posted: 25 Jul 15

    I would let bygone be bygone, especially to a guy who hurt and left me callously . No matter how much i did loved him, i dont need him in my life anymore, he certainly will dump me later.

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