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TLC's Chilli Says Black Women Should Swirl. Why Do We STILL Need Permission?

Posted by Christelyn, 22 Aug

TLC’s Chilli is making the black media headlines because she stepped out of formation to tell black women they need to step out of racial prison and date out. The idea that Chilli made this announcement is overshadowed by the fact that she even has to make it.

Despite all the challenges, most black women are still so resistant to trying something new. It’s news because Chilli said the emperor has no clothes and folks are losing their minds.

Here’s my take…

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Christelyn Karazin is the co-author of Swirling: How to Date, Mate and Relate, Mixing Race, Culture and Creed. She also operates the popular blog, Beyond Black & White, and operate the first forum dedicated to black women interested and/or involved in interracial relationships.

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4 responses to "TLC's Chilli Says Black Women Should Swirl. Why Do We STILL Need Permission?"

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  1.   Mona67 says:
    Posted: 25 Aug

    I don't need permission, but I do need a date..................................some men move like molasses in December

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  2.   bobwire_04 says:
    Posted: 25 Aug

    Chilli's right on the mark ! As a white guy that dates (only) blk women I've noticed how much blk women are amazed that they're treated so much better when they cross over to dating white guys. They realize their life iss no longer a dead end street.

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    • KananiLove says:
      Posted: 26 Aug

      Your statement is extremely biased. A black woman's life is never a dead end street no matter who they date. You really need to get over yourself.

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