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TLC's Chilli Says Black Women Should Swirl. Why Do We STILL Need Permission?
TLC’s Chilli is making the black media headlines because she stepped out of formation to tell black women they need to step out of racial prison and date out. The idea that Chilli made this announcement is overshadowed by the fact that she even has to make it.
Despite all the challenges, most black women are still so resistant to trying something new. It’s news because Chilli said the emperor has no clothes and folks are losing their minds.
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bobwire_04 says:Posted: 25 Aug 18Chilli's right on the mark ! As a white guy that dates (only) blk women I've noticed how much blk women are amazed that they're treated so much better when they cross over to dating white guys. They realize their life iss no longer a dead end street.
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KananiLove says:Posted: 26 Aug 18Your statement is extremely biased. A black woman's life is never a dead end street no matter who they date. You really need to get over yourself.
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ruok07 says:Posted: 28 Aug 18
Thanks for putting that ignorant racist in his place.
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