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THIS (Innocent) Phrase Scares Away Great Guys

Posted by Matthew, 28 Apr 17

I can’t believe how many women still write this on their dating profiles.

Every guy I’ve asked knows what I’m talking about. This toxic phrase scares off a huge amount of men, yet it feels like at least 25% of women seem to do it.

I’ll show you a simple shift that gets a guy to chase you, instead of pushing him away...

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  1.   Paganinifan says:
    Posted: 05 May 17

    Oh, what a bunch of b.s. You decided to use "I don't want someone fresh out of a relationship" as an example of what scares men away? Wow! How about getting into something more REALISTIC? Like how picky women are about how TALL a man is? Women contradict themselves at every turn in the dating world. They want a "real connection". Yeah right! That "real connection" can be had with anyone but they FORCE it to only be with men over 6' tall...much like typical look of the guy in the video who's trying to tell us men what scares us away. LMFAO! This is too much. This is simply entertaining but not in a funny way. And there is nothing wrong with anyone saying they don't want someone fresh out of a relationship. I've been with women who were fresh out of a relationship and they spent every date and days of Our relationship always talking about what their "ex" did or places their ex used to take them. Not exactly a good way for the new couple to make their own memories, don't ya think? So shove this Video advice sideways, pal. And stop kissing women's asses. Women get to pick and choose men based on the man's appearance and economic status while us men get told not to judge women on looks.

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    • NGAG says:
      Posted: 05 Jun 17

      Women also dont judge on looks.

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      • Rigmah says:
        Posted: 09 Jun 17

        Yeah, we judge by more substantial things like , what kind of value they add in our lives, looks are only important if you decide to have kids with him.

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  2.   Paganinifan says:
    Posted: 05 May 17

    You should be telling us men how to "get the girl", never mind them getting the guy. They get guys regardless of what the write in their profiles. Stop being delusional.

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