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THIS (Innocent) Phrase Scares Away Great Guys I can’t believe how many women still write this on their dating profiles. Every guy I’ve asked knows what I’m talking about. This toxic phrase scares off a huge amount of men, yet it feels like...

Watch: Fifty Shades Darker In REAL LIFE... 50 Shades of Grey is a weird story. Christian is a hot, emotionally-damaged billionaire with some crazy ex girlfriends and a craving for sadomasochism. Ana is the young, bookish wallflower with whom h...

CLUTCH Writer Reports On a Black Woman Who Experiences Black Abuse, Then Proceeds to Abuse Her Too I often go to a variety of sites to get news and updates, and CLUTCH has been one of my pit stops for years. But one article that struck me as particular this morning was one written about ESPN writer...

Audio: Protection from Emotional Buttons We all have emotional buttons that set us off for some reason or another. But we don’t have to be at their mercy if we understand where they come from and what they’re trying to tell us. Let’s ...

Audio: Take Pride While considered one of the biblical seven deadly sins, pride — of the right dosage — can be a boon. After all, confidence — unquestionably a quality for which we all strive — relies on pride....

First Love Fantasies and the Myth of Closure [AUDIO] Do your eyes steam over as you fondly remember the first time you fell in love and wonder what the person who made you feel that way is up to these days? Do you fantasize about reconnecting, certain h...

The Top 5 Reasons Why Men Disappear on You [VIDEO] It’s so annoying. You finally decide you like a guy. You tell your friends how excited you are. You even allow yourself to imagine him as “future husband” material. And then suddenly...he start...

WATCH: Try This ONE THING to Increase Your Success In Interracial Dating We talk about travelling through different ecosystems to discover opportunities to meet quality men, but let’s face it–many black women have had little to no contact with non-black men outside of ...

Audio: Emotional Intelligence 2.0 A lot of people put stock in having a high intelligence quotient (IQ) as the fast-pass to a successful, rewarding life. But how many of us know our emotional quotient (EQ)? Emotional Intelligence 2.0...

WATCH QOTW: "I am Past the Point of Considering Black Men as Mates." The Question: I’m a 29 year old, single black woman (of caribbean descent). I’ve lived overseas for a few years and I’ll soon be returning home to the UK, where I plan to date with a view towar...