"The Game"

Why Do Men Only See Me As a Hookup? Do you find that men only ever seem to chase you for sex? I’ve had hundreds of women ask me what to do when guys just see them as a sexual object, and the answer is twofold: (a) Cut off the wrong ...

If you're so happy swirling, why do you write about black men? I had the honor of having one of my blogs reposted on Lipstick Alley, a gossip site that largely caters to black women. It even was a trending topic for a day. It spawned hundreds of responses and eve...

Stop Ignoring His Red Flags and Get the Respect You Deserve Falling in “like” with someone can happen in a flash. On the heels of a thoughtful gesture. After a witty joke that sends you into belly laughs. When he looks at you with flirtatious energy tha...

Why challenging your beliefs helps inoculate you against manipulators Be honest with yourself. Do you hold beliefs that even under some little light of scrutiny will start to wither? Do you want to know the tactics that car dealers or clergymen use to lure people to com...

[VIDEO]This Counter-Intuitive Text Reveals His True Intentions for You I was recently coaching a woman who was frustrated with the texts she was getting from a guy who she’d met on a dating app.

The Thing You Must Do When You Meet Someone You Like Have you ever met a guy you really liked and spent weeks terrified you were going to blow it? You’d analyze with your friends every text he sent. You’d worry when he’d go silent for several ho...

Do Men Need To See Other Men Desire Their Partner? Or Is That Just a Woman Thing? This is one interesting email from one of our readers... How important is it for your husband to see you being desired or checked out by other men? Does this influence how attractive HE thinks you are...

You Won't Believe What White Men are Saying About Marry Black Women We once had a video where we discussed 6 reasons White Men and Black Women marriages last the longest. Now a lot of folks might not agree but there are statistics supporting all this. Black women and ...

What to do to re-calibrate your purpose when faced with obstacles We all have goals in life that give our lives true meaning - a purpose. These are the things that inspire us. Unfortunately, there are times when you face tough hurdles as you pursue your dreamy purpo...

How to put a stop to our most unhealthy comparisons Even when things are going great in our lives, it's human nature to gauge how well we are doing in comparison to others. So why do we do this and what purpose do these comparisons serve? Is it even h...