Spot the crazy red flags from a mile away

Why Rachel Lindsay and Newsweek Show That "Swirling" Is STILL Relevant I wrote Swirling: How to Date, Mate and Relate, Mixing Race, Culture and Creed back in 2012. Upon it’s publish date, it was met with excitement, a celebration of how far we’ve come, and unfortunat...

Could Interracial Love End Racism? Georgetown law professor, Sheryl Cashin thinks that interracial love is the cure for racism and white supremacy. I know; some of you are rolling your eyes. But think about it for a second. When Un...

WATCH: The REAL Secret To Getting Closure (It's not what you think...) Let’s face it, I have a weird job. My friends think so. My mum definitely thinks so. This week, if you’ve ever wanted a behind-the-scenes preview into the actual life of a “dating coach” (God...

The 7 Deadly Sins of Reading the News “Everybody is one extreme experience away from changing their mind on almost anything.” - Alex Kouts We live in a time when information on virtually any topic imaginable is instantly available to...

Watch: "Do I Have to Change to Get the Guy?" On January 1, everyone tells themselves, "I’m going to diet, get in shape, feel more confident, meet a great guy, and learn how to have an amazing relationship." But then we have to actually do it�...

Audio: The Narcissistic Continuum When we’re looking back on a relationship that’s failed — or one that’s about to — it’s easy to label the other person in that relationship as somehow disordered on a psychiatric level. Th...

WATCH: 7 Sneaky Signs He's Flirting With You It’s funny how often women tell me they don’t know when a guy is flirting. Because to us men, we think we’re being so obvious. What seems to women like normal male behavior at a party, a bar, o...

Audio: Take Pride While considered one of the biblical seven deadly sins, pride — of the right dosage — can be a boon. After all, confidence — unquestionably a quality for which we all strive — relies on pride....

Audio: Skill Vs. Talent If something can be learned, it is a skill. If it’s innate, it’s a talent. The reality: most so-called talents are skills in disguise, so stop making excuses that you’re not talented enough to d...

WATCH QOTW: "I am Past the Point of Considering Black Men as Mates." The Question: I’m a 29 year old, single black woman (of caribbean descent). I’ve lived overseas for a few years and I’ll soon be returning home to the UK, where I plan to date with a view towar...