QOTW: Asian Man Asks, "Why Wouldn't a Black Woman Not Want a Black Man?"

Marriage Isn't for Black Women... REALLY?! {VIDEO} A few days ago I had the misfortune of running across a woe-is-me article called Marriage Isn’t for Black Women, published in Marie Claire of all places.   In summary, this young black woman bears...

6 Reason White Men and Black Women Marriages Last the Longest {VIDEO} We’ve discussed this before, but just in case he hadn’t heard, the longest lasting combo of interracial couples is black women and white men. Compared to white couples, apparently the black men...

Simply Precious: Gabby Sidibe is in love! Trigger Warning Before I begin, I will commence this blog with a trigger warning. We briefly mention Gabby’s weight in this post, but that it is not the focal point of this article. The focus o...

If you're so happy swirling, why do you write about black men? I had the honor of having one of my blogs reposted on Lipstick Alley, a gossip site that largely caters to black women. It even was a trending topic for a day. It spawned hundreds of responses and eve...

New 'Bewitched' Reboot Has an Interracial Component and... I HATE It Coming from ‘the girl who swirls,’ and the co-author of Swirling: How to Date, Match & Relate, Mixing Race, Culture, and Creed, you would think any media representations of interracial couples...

Chicago Professor Writes Book Encouraging Black Women to Marry White Men I’ve gotten about a dozen messages about a new interracial dating book in circulation. Northwestern University professor, Cheryl Judice, author of Interracial Relationships with Black Women and Whit...

Do You Prefer Dating White Men Who Have ONLY Ever Dated Black Women? White men exclusively dating black women We’re working on a new series, The Pros and Cons: Dating White Men, for later release. In the meantime, we’ll be releasing little snippets of interviews t...

Could Interracial Love End Racism? Georgetown law professor, Sheryl Cashin thinks that interracial love is the cure for racism and white supremacy. I know; some of you are rolling your eyes. But think about it for a second. When Unc...

Who Would Sacrifice Their Interracial Relationship for Black Issues? I received a desperate note from a fan on our Facebook fan page, on the heels of the embarrassing Black Love interview with a woman who proclaimed alliance to black people and discouraged other people...

Why Other Black Women are Becoming More Vocally Against Us 'Swirlers' I guess as the head-girl advocating black women expanding their dating options makes me Public Enemy Number One. This has been historically predictable from territorial men, but the vitriol is ramping...