QOTW: Asian Man Asks, "Why Wouldn't a Black Woman Not Want a Black Man?"

QOTW: White Guy Only Wants Dark, Thin Black Girls. Is He Wrong? Got this note from “Mark”. Hi Christelyn, I’m a big fan of yours and I really enjoy watching your videos, partly because you’re so attractive. I’m a white guy who has never had a girlfri...

QOTW: "Are Older Black Women Resistant to Interracial Dating?" White man in his mid 40's has always preferred black women but he is wondering if the common belief that older black women prefer not dating outside their race still holds water.

QOTW: Texting Vs. Face to Face Contact…Which is Better? Got this note from a real cutie…I’m going to put his photo up here. Poor Bambi tho…deer looking like, “Why?! WHYYYYY??????” Not even gonna lie…love when the youngsters hit me up like this....

Why Rachel Lindsay and Newsweek Show That "Swirling" Is STILL Relevant I wrote Swirling: How to Date, Mate and Relate, Mixing Race, Culture and Creed back in 2012. Upon it’s publish date, it was met with excitement, a celebration of how far we’ve come, and unfortunat...

QOTW: Advice on How Two Shy People Can Start Getting Their Swirl On I got two similar letters recently related to shyness. One from a young black woman, the other from a young, white college student. "Dear Christelyn, My name is Aaron Wade and I am a 21 year old c...

QOTW: "My Boyfriend Has Never Witnessed Racism Towards Black People" The Question: "Hello: My name is “T.” I got your email from a your YouTube video: Should Black Women Marry Up. I am a black woman in an interracial relationship. Things seem to be getting pre...

WATCH QOTW: "I am Past the Point of Considering Black Men as Mates." The Question: I’m a 29 year old, single black woman (of caribbean descent). I’ve lived overseas for a few years and I’ll soon be returning home to the UK, where I plan to date with a view towar...

The Reason African Women Find it EASIER Than AA Women to Swirl Is there anything African women know about IR relationships that we African American women don’t know? Do they have any tips they should be sharing with us? Let's find out...

Loving Day Success! Couple Christelyn Interviews In 2013 Marries in 2014! Last year, I attended the Loving Day Flagship Celebration in New York City, and interviewed several couples. One of my favorites were Josh and Melissa, who met at the gym. Josh was immediately smitten...

This Curvy Girl Got Lots of Dates on Interracial Dating Central I just LOVE getting letters like this! The kind that are such inspiration to many. Well, ‘QueenEkuba', is her handle. She shares her story about her journey on Interracial Dating Central. Have a rea...