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QOTW: Single Mom Asks, "Am I Undateable?" Its been a while since this single mother dated. She has never dated interracially but has been encouraged by family to do so. Problem is: Her online dating profile seems to bear no fruits.

Watch: Raise Your Hand If You're Tired of Black Men Telling the World Who Black Women DON'T Like. First, it was Chris Rock. Now it’s Steve Harvey. Both of these comedians freely claim to know with absolute certainty who black women want to date. Steve Harvey thinks neither white women or black...

Why Rachel Lindsay and Newsweek Show That "Swirling" Is STILL Relevant I wrote Swirling: How to Date, Mate and Relate, Mixing Race, Culture and Creed back in 2012. Upon it's publishing date, it was met with excitement, a celebration of how far we’ve come, and unfortun...

QOTW: Are You Keeping Your Interracial Dating Preferences in the Closet? The question… Hi there, I am a fan of your website, and lurked for over a year before I decided to participate not long ago. I hope you don’t mind, but I wondered if it would be possible to do...

QOTW: Advice on How Two Shy People Can Start Getting Their Swirl On I got two similar letters recently related to shyness. One from a young black woman, the other from a young, white college student. "Dear Christelyn, My name is Aaron Wade and I am a 21 year old coll...

QOTW: White Guy Only Wants Dark, Thin Black Girls. Is He Wrong? Got this note from “Mark”. Hi Christelyn, I’m a big fan of yours and I really enjoy watching your videos, partly because you’re so attractive. I’m a white guy who has never had a girlfriend...

Are Millennial Women Absolutely Deluding Themselves About Dating. I’ve recently made a commitment to myself to read more. In an effort to have some accountability in that department, I bought a subscription to the New York Times weekend edition. I absolutely MUST ...

Video: Why You Keep Striking Out with Black Women Last week I had a conversation with a young white man who has recently directed his romantic interest towards black women he is meeting online. He told me that every single time he arranges for a date...

An Open Letter to Light Skinned "Sisters" Who Bash Dark Girls for Swirling Dear Light-Skinned-Pro-Black-Nothing-Butta-Brotha-For-Me Women, I need to ask you a favor. I’ve noticed lately in social media a lot of posts and videos with light skinned, silky-haired black(ish) ...

Stuff You Should Know About Your Online Dating Profile That You Probably Don't... Before I go into this, I just have to give an FYI…I did the following profile critique to use as an example, so please…don’t send me yours. No offense, but people charge money for this, and my t...