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Is Black Media Responsible for Manipulating Us with #BlackLove Since 2010, my critics–many of them in so-called “black media–have argued that a site like Beyond Black & White don’t need to exist. If black women want to interracially date and marry, th...

Are Millennial Women Absolutely Deluding Themselves About Dating. I’ve recently made a commitment to myself to read more. In an effort to have some accountability in that department, I bought a subscription to the New York Times weekend edition. I absolutely MUST ...

Meet 38-Year-Old Woman Who Has Never Had a Date! 38 year old woman who has never been on a date, kissed or had a boyfriend asks: "Can someone that lacks so much experience in dating and relationships find it at this advance age?!"

The Reason African Women Find it EASIER Than AA Women to Swirl Is there anything African women know about IR relationships that we African American women don’t know? Do they have any tips they should be sharing with us? Let's find out...

QOTW: Texting Vs. Face to Face Contact…Which is Better? Got this note from a real cutie…I’m going to put his photo up here. Poor Bambi tho…deer looking like, “Why?! WHYYYYY??????” Not even gonna lie…love when the youngsters hit me up like this....

QOTW: Can an 'Atheist' Date Black Women? An Atheist who is open to all religions wants to know how he can approach the subject of religion when dating; given that black women tend to be some of the more religious individuals throughout the c...

Why Rachel Lindsay and Newsweek Show That "Swirling" Is STILL Relevant I wrote Swirling: How to Date, Mate and Relate, Mixing Race, Culture and Creed back in 2012. Upon it's publishing date, it was met with excitement, a celebration of how far we’ve come, and unfortun...

Watch: Raise Your Hand If You're Tired of Black Men Telling the World Who Black Women DON'T Like. First, it was Chris Rock. Now it’s Steve Harvey. Both of these comedians freely claim to know with absolute certainty who black women want to date. Steve Harvey thinks neither white women or black...

QOTW Video: "Can You Help White Men Ask More Black Women Out?" The note: Hi Christelyn, I was wondering if you could do a video to help get more white men to ask black women out? You see, unlike black men and white women, there is a disconnect between black wome...

QOTW: My Daughter's Father Doesn't Want Her to Like Non-Black Boys I received this note from a fan… Hi Christelyn! I need some advice…So I have a 6-year-old daughter & we live in a majority white community. I love it. Anyway, a little white boy has a crush...