Swirling by Christelyn Karazin

The art of attraction isn't just about colour or creed, it's about chemistry and a whole bunch of other things. Swirling author Christelyn Karazon discusses.

QOTW: Do You Think You Feel Entitled to More Than What You Get?

Posted by Christelyn, 18 Sep 17

Multiple kids, but wants a hot single guy.

Overweight with man boobs, but wants a Playboy model.

Never finished college, wants someone who makes eleventy figures.

Your perfect partner could be online right now...

What are you looking for?

Has a face only a mother could love, wants the model.

The list goes on and on, and I’ve heard and seen it all.

Christelyn Karazin is the co-author of Swirling: How to Date, Mate and Relate, Mixing Race, Culture and Creed. She also operates the popular blog, Beyond Black & White, and operate the first forum dedicated to black women interested and/or involved in interracial relationships.

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  1.   Paganinifan says:
    Posted: 19 Sep 17

    Ok, a couple of things: 1) Overweight women have more confidence than overweight men thanks to the liberal "fat acceptance" crap which , by the way, ONLY applies to acceptance of women who are fat. The idea is the men will not turn down vagina no matter what it's surrounded by (fat, wrinkles, hair that looks like the amazon jungle). But overweight men are not as accepted and therefore not as confident. 2) The women with kids who want men to accept their little premade families are the same women who turned their heads at men who've procreated back when those women were NOT yet single moms. So women tend to be hypocrites on that topic. 3) I've seen many beautiful women with guys who are frumpy, dumpy, nerdy, thug, biker, tattoos all over their bodies and even faces, short and tall, etc. Physical attraction is a personal taste, one which I never seem to ever fit into and I don't think I'm bad looking. Yes, I want the motherless, slender, adult height female. And I'll wait for her because I know she's out there.

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    • blackbelle01 says:
      Posted: 20 Nov 17

      Paganinifan- Do you think you will ever get the type of woman that you want. You feel like you are not bad looking but some women might not find you attractive at all. Also the women that you are interested in that meet your criteria may not be interested in you at all. Physical attraction is a personal taste, one which I never seem to ever fit into and I don't think I'm bad looking. Yes, I want the motherless, slender, adult height female. And I'll wait for her because I know she's out there.

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