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Do You Prefer Dating White Men Who Have ONLY Ever Dated Black Women?

Posted by Christelyn, 05 Apr

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We’re working on a new series, The Pros and Cons: Dating White Men, for later release. In the meantime, we’ll be releasing little snippets of interviews to throw up for discussion. Meet Johnny, a 30-something white guy who lives in Cleveland, Ohio who exclusively dates black women, and always has. He’s the co-founder of HWIC Films, an urban film production company. He’s unapologetic about his preferences.

Do you prefer to date white men who EXCLUSIVELY date black women?

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Christelyn Karazin is the co-author of Swirling: How to Date, Mate and Relate, Mixing Race, Culture and Creed. She also operates the popular blog, Beyond Black & White, and operate the first forum dedicated to black women interested and/or involved in interracial relationships.

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  1.   Brunsugah says:
    Posted: 11 Nov 18

    I prefer to date someone who has dated interracially before -it's easier, especially if he has come from a group of friends who have different backgrounds. Sometimes it just gets tiresome explaining stuff to men who have had not dated black girls before.

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  2.   bonitalovely says:
    Posted: 09 Nov 18

    I prefer to date white men who have dated black women before. This is the first time I've heard a white man express how I feel. My attraction to white men is natural. My first crush at 4 was white lol. I've never understood it, but I'm glad I'm not alone.

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  3.   bonitalovely says:
    Posted: 09 Nov 18

    I prefer to date white men who have dated black women before. This is the first time I've heard a white man express how I feel. My attraction to white men is natural. My first crush at 4 was white lol. I've never understood it, but I'm glad I'm not alone.

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  4.   nawen says:
    Posted: 10 Aug 18

    Yes exactly because they already learnt how black ladies do behave so any thing she does it couldn't be new to him.Am also interested in white man because I have ever been with a white BF.

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  5.   nbjgytr says:
    Posted: 19 May 18

    It doesn't matter, the one who ever dated only black or some one who is trying something new for the firs time. it only depends on the way you communicate. so i go for both.

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  6.   FmaleLedRshp says:
    Posted: 20 Oct 17

    It's perhaps easier to connect with someone who has always dated BW, but it would be great if he had dated interracially in general and has even dated one or two WW.

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  7.   NewAgeSexy says:
    Posted: 20 Sep 17

    I have dated both types. The first white male I dated made sure I felt safe and comfortable no matter where we went together. He ONLY dates black women and was more comfortable with our differences, the negative issues that we face in the media and he was comfortable mixing and mingling with other blacks. He would not hesitate to try something new. The other white guy had never dated a black women. He seemed less comfortable when we first started dating, but he eventually embraced our differences. We dated for awhile. He was a fun guy and I enjoyed being with him. But I knew he was not long term. Being compatible should not feel like hard job.

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  8.   DC- says:
    Posted: 17 Sep 17

    I would date a White man who has never dated a Black woman. His personality and attitude will eventually show if we're compatible.

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  9.   Irmani says:
    Posted: 05 May 17

    Hi I recently became interested in dating white men only,but the problem is I have not been approached by any. I have noticed throughout the years white men bring to the table much more then a black man by far.

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  10.   Berre says:
    Posted: 30 Apr 17

    Yes can you find mi one who is serious for marriage any white but not moslim

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  11.   blackbelle01 says:
    Posted: 29 Apr 17

    It does not matter to me but a WM that only dates BW is probably as rare as a unicorn lol

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  12.   Julep says:
    Posted: 23 Apr 17

    What does it mean when you see a guy in a recent success story here, but he keeps "talking" to you and has his profile still posted?

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    • Lizhbs says:
      Posted: 21 Sep 17

      One of two things, but sadly, both point to him not being too trustworthy. If he's in a success story, why is he still looking? I learned this the hard way. May want to cut your losses.

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      • FmaleLedRshp says:
        Posted: 20 Oct 17

        Wow, people do this? Question is, is the success story recent? Are they still together? These questions need answering. I'd just ask. It's perhaps an open relationship. But you need answers or just walk away.

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  13.   Thashko says:
    Posted: 19 Apr 17

    Yes, How do I find one?

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