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From the moment that Charles and I started talking I felt his warmth and compassion. We met soon after and I was so instantly attracted to him that I could barely concentrate on his ever-too-sexy deep voice! The only thing more attractive than his physical being was his heart. I'm afraid to say "love at first site" at this point but I can definitely see spending the rest of our lives together. ... read more

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Nickname:  urmankc1
Location:  United States, Pennsylvania, Philadelphia
Age:  53
I am a:  Man
Looking for a:  Woman, aged 38 - 99
Relationship seeking:  Long Term Relationship, Short Term Relationship, Friends, Pen Pal
Eye color:  Black
Hair color:  Black
Height:  5'7"-5'11" (170cm-180cm)
Body Type:  Athletic
My ethnicity is:  Black / Non-African descent, Latino / Hispanic, Mixed / Multi
Religion:  Spiritual, but not religious
Education:  Graduate degree
Smoking behavior:  Do not smoke, but ok if you do
Drinking behavior:  Drink Socially
Relationship Status:  Single
Have children:  Yes, not living at home
Want children:  Find Out Later
Languages:  Spanish, English, Find out later
Occupation:  Find Out Later
When it comes to relocation:  I would relocate anywhere in the world
Starsign:  Gemini
My Personality
Ideally I'd live in a: 
In the city, House in the suburbs, Property in the country, Cabin in the mountains, Beach house, An adobe home in the desert
My fashion sense is: 
Dress according to the occasion, I hate clothes, Sporty, jogging shoes and trackies
My sense of humor is: 
Witty - I have a razor-sharp tongue, Light-hearted - I like cheerful, gentle fun
When I go to parties: 
I'm in the background but enjoying myself, I go with the flow, I get around
On a day off, I enjoy: 
Something athletic or energetic, A cultural outing such as museum or gallery, Lunch with a friend, Catching up on household chores, Doing absolutely nothing, Pursuing a hobby, Volunteering, Shopping, Watching TV or a movie
I attend religious services: 
Find Out Later
When it comes to work: 
Find Out Later
Who Am I?
How would you describe yourself?: 
I'm fun spirited and love to laugh. Well grounded, but still willing to fly. Confident and very in tuned too and with myself just looking for the same. I have traveled the world and have experienced many things. Life has allowed me such pleasures and I have enjoyed doing most of them. Whether its ice skating, skiing, basketball, tennis, para-sailing, wine or food tasting or fixing dinner for my woman under the evening moon light after she's had a long day at work. These are things I have enjoyed doing and open minded enough to try others. Yes I can cook!!!;-)

I live and work between Philly and DC and like to be around people who are lovers of living life. I possess a strong and active spirit and enjoy a woman who is equally active both physically and mentally, but a glass of wine, a good conversation while enjoying the crackling of the fire place with that special someone is time cherished.
What Am I Looking For?
I am looking for: 
I might not be someone's first choice, but I am a great choice. I may not be rich but I am valuable. I don't pretend to be someone I'm not, because I'm good at being me. I might not be proud of some of the things I've done in the past, but I am proud of who I am today. I may not be perfect but I don't need to be. Take me as I am, or watch me as I walk away!

We do not stop playing because we are old; we grow old because we stop playing. We have so many people walking around who are dead and don't even know it! There are only four secrets to staying young, being happy and achieving success. You have to laugh and find humor every day. You've got to have a dream. When you lose your dreams, you die. There is a huge difference between growing older and growing up. If you are 19 yrs old and lie in bed for one full year and don't do one productive thing, you will turn 20 yrs. Old. If you are 87 yrs. Old and stay in bed for a year and never do anything you will turn 88.

So live, and do what makes you happy; with no regrets.

I'd just like to add...

I have lived long enough to learn that life outcomes are mostly determined by the way in which we want to look at the problem: positive outlooks attract positive outcomes, despite the inevitable bumps along the way.

***Past relationships have taught me that...

*There are no elevators to "Happily Ever After". We have to take the stairs!

*Giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they will love you back. Don't expect love in return; just wait for it to grow in their heart; but, if it doesn't, be content that it grew in yours.

~When someone shows you who they are believe them~
---Maya Angelou

*If it is indeed true that we don't know what we have until we lose it, then it's for certain that we don't know what we have been missing until it arrives.

*I'm not looking, but waiting to be found.

*"Relationships of any kind are not always equal, but must be fair...


"Remember not only to say the right thing in the right place, but far more difficult still, to leave unsaid the wrong thing at the most tempting moment." Benjamin Franklin

"The greatest pleasure I know is to do a good action by stealth, and to have it found out by accident." Charles Lamb
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