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From the moment that Charles and I started talking I felt his warmth and compassion. We met soon after and I was so instantly attracted to him that I could barely concentrate on his ever-too-sexy deep voice! The only thing more attractive than his physical being was his heart. I'm afraid to say "love at first site" at this point but I can definitely see spending the rest of our lives together. ... read more

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Looking for Soul Connection (locals only pls)
Nickname:  shanghai1
Location:  United States, California, Oakland
Age:  46
I am a:  Woman
Looking for a:  Man, aged 39 - 50
Relationship seeking:  Long Term Relationship
Eye color:  Brown
Hair color:  Black
Height:  5'2"-5'6" (157cm-169cm)
Body Type:  Slim/Slender
My ethnicity is:  Asian, Mixed / Multi
Religion:  Spiritual, but not religious
Education:  Graduate degree
Smoking behavior:  Smoke occasionally
Drinking behavior:  Drink Socially
Relationship Status:  Divorced
Have children:  No
Want children:  Undecided
Languages:  English
Occupation:  Self-employed
When it comes to relocation:  Find out later
Starsign:  Aries
My Personality
Ideally I'd live in a: 
In the city, Property in the country, Cabin in the mountains, Beach house, Stilt house in the jungle, An adobe home in the desert
My fashion sense is: 
Jeans and Tshirt all the time, Dress according to the occasion, Sporty, jogging shoes and trackies
My sense of humor is: 
Witty - I have a razor-sharp tongue, Sarcastic - Dennis Miller is a cream puff compared to me, Light-hearted - I like cheerful, gentle fun
When I go to parties: 
I'm in the background but enjoying myself, I go with the flow
On a day off, I enjoy: 
Something athletic or energetic, A cultural outing such as museum or gallery, Napping, Lunch with a friend, Pursuing a hobby, Watching TV or a movie
I attend religious services: 
Rarely
When it comes to work: 
I keep a standard 40-hour work week
Who Am I?
How would you describe yourself?: 
(Seeking to date local Bay Area based man.)

My motto is: Try everything at least once. And for the most part, I would say, I try to live my life that way. I have enjoyed traveling and photographing in Latin America, Asia and Africa, and these experiences have given me a somewhat global view of the world. I have marveled at the beauty of cultures and the warmth of people around the world, as well as witnessing their hardships and poverty. Besides traveling, I love music, movies, dance, photography, art & cultural exhibits, pamperings and hanging out with good friends. I love listening to reggae, R&B, soul, world, old school, funk and jazz music.

I graduated a year ago with a Masters of Journalism degree, focusing on TV/Documentary production. I would love to produce international stories from the developing world, Asia and Africa, to help give voice to those in need of representation. (Traveling in those parts of the world inspired me to go back to school.) These days I focus on working locally as both a videographer and video journalist. Hoping to get back out into other parts of the world with camera in hand soon.
What Am I Looking For?
I am looking for: 
I'd love to meet a man with the same ideals as myself, a real gentleman, someone who is physically fit, intelligent, aware, who can hold his own, has sense of humor, even a wisp of sarcasm, is adventurous, preferably with understanding of other cultures, not an elitist, someone with compassion and understanding - a strong man to complement, challenge and back me.

(Seeking to date local Bay Area based man.)
Looking for ethnicity: 
Asian, Black / African descent, Black / Non-African descent, White / European descent, Indian, Islander, Latino / Hispanic, Mixed / Multi, Native American, Other, All ethnicities