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"Made It Official"

Well we started talking around the beginning of March and then from there we talked everyday sending message back and forth. I actually had to ask for his number, I text him and we spoke and text every day. After a month we decided to meet in New York City. We had a ball, we made it official.

minounou, Age 23, New York

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Something and someone real, by design.
Nickname:  phidelep7
Location:  United States, North Carolina, Charlotte
Age:  35
I am a:  Man
Looking for a:  Woman, aged 21 - 45
Relationship seeking:  Long Term Relationship
Eye color:  Brown
Hair color:  Black
Height:  5'7"-5'11" (170cm-180cm)
Body Type:  Slim/Slender
My ethnicity is:  Black / Non-African descent
Religion:  Spiritual, but not religious
Education:  Some college
Smoking behavior:  Do not smoke, but ok if you do
Drinking behavior:  Drink Socially
Relationship Status:  Single
Have children:  No
Want children:  Find Out Later
Languages:  English
Occupation:  Marketing/ Advertising
When it comes to relocation:  I would relocate anywhere in the world
Starsign:  Taurus
My Personality
Ideally I'd live in a: 
House in the suburbs
My fashion sense is: 
Dress according to the occasion
My sense of humor is: 
Obscure
When I go to parties: 
I'm in the background but enjoying myself
On a day off, I enjoy: 
Pursuing a hobby, Find Out Later
I attend religious services: 
Once a week
When it comes to work: 
I keep a standard 40-hour work week
Who Am I?
How would you describe yourself?: 
Hello ladies, if you're reading this, I'd like to first and foremost thank-you for taking the time to check me out I'm a 34 yr. Old single black male, that resides in and is a native of, the Charlotte, NC area. I have never been married and have no children. I stand about 5' 8", and have a slim yet toned physique, to put it short, I'm NOT a big guy lol. If you like a man with some physical size, I'm probably not your guy, but what I lack in physical stature I make up for in personality. I have curly, black hair, brown eyes and for the most part, don't think I'm too hard on the eyes I'm a creative soul by nature, and tend to exhibit an abstract and carefree spirit. I'm a professional by day (I'm a Web/Graphic Designer), and have my own car, place to stay, and financial means. I enjoy music of many different genres, creative design and reading when I can. When lonely is the only company in my life (which is often), there is nothing I like to do better than go to a good movie at the theater (I love the movies), and get lost in a world of depiction far from my own. I also like to shoot pool, go to comedy shows, and anything else that looks promising of wholesome fun I'm versatile by nature, so willing to try some new things.
What Am I Looking For?
I am looking for: 
I'm looking for a good-hearted and good spirited woman. Someone that knows the extents of her character inside and out, and can teach someone who she is. Someone that loves herself, and knows how to love. I want a woman that has an understanding of what it really means to be in and grow a relationship, the balanced effort that it takes for both parties. I like a woman who is witty, kinda 'dinky' (I think cute clumsy women are sexy lol), intelligent, warm-natured, humorous, can be aggressive and feisty when there's a need to be, sexy, honest, loyal, respectful and above all, just knows how to be herself, and a woman. I'm not looking for some model, because I know the outside is not where the real beauty lies in someone, it's inside where the spirit dwells (I don't mind petite or thick women). I'm at a point in my life where I want to settle down with someone and start a family in due time, and with that, I prefer to date and do this with someone that has no children already (though I would possibly have relations with a special woman with children). If you are interested and you like what you've seen and read, I'd love to hear from you! Stay sweet.
Looking for ethnicity: 
Asian, White / European descent, Indian, Islander, Latino / Hispanic, Mixed / Multi, Native American, Other