Man, Aged 41 in USA, Maryland, Silver Spring
Looking for a: Woman, Aged 21 - 49, Any Ethnicity

"Lets start with friends and see what happens."

  • My ethnicity isBlack/Mixed
  • Height5'7"-5'11"
  • StatusDivorced
  • SeekingFriends/Penpal
  • Body typeAthletic build
  • Have childrenChildren at home
  • SmokingHate smoking
  • DrinkingDrink socially
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"I Adore Him"

I'm from Southern Illinois, he's from Chicago. We met for,dinner and have been meeting 1/2 way every weekend building a strong relationship going on 5 months now. I adore him.: ) read more

Illinois, United States

How would you describe yourself?

Thanks for your touch on to this profile. I know that God will have people come in and out of our life to teach us love us or show us things in our life that will help us grow as a person. This to me is a gift from God. That said please Lord help me not to be hard headed when it comes to new ideas about life and where I fit in it. Now take time to see where you fit and start to move that way. By Jay(allmostperfect4u)

More about me, I am looking for someone special/Ms/ RIGHT, but she has to be "Down To Earth" know how to enjoy life. Theres a time to be serious/professional & a time to relax, laugh, joke & have a good time. Relationships have good & bad times, got to know how to roll with the punches when bad times hit & not run away.
Wise man told me obstacles build character!!

I am looking for...

Qualities :

Beauty/Loving/Affectionate2-Intelligent3-Honest/faithful4-Sense of Humor5-Understanding
What`s your biggest complaint about dating?
No goals in life & LIARS.
A good thing to know about me is:
I love to laugh, work hard and very Romantic & crave Affection (not necessarily Sex)

It is funny, Today I told a friend that I wish I had more old school friends. He said what is that?? I said a friend that really had your back in good and bad times. He said that will be your wife when you find her. Take time out to think back in the day about a good friend you had, where is that person???

God thank you for all of the rain in my life. All though I could not understand it at the time you would always send me a dry day to help me understand why we need the rain of life. I have learned a lot from start to now. If one of the drops of rain may come this way, know that you have shown me hows to deal with it.

Just a little something from me to you

Oh ladies most of you ask why a man would not let go of a relationship?

Its that men tend to look back on the first part of the relationship and that is the best part. That is the part when all is new and you can`t do no wrong. Jsut to see her made your day. ( That is why)

So now lets look at a womens side.

A women only looks back at the last few months. The few that made her crazy. The time when he should have open the car door for you or hold the door but he did not. I know a lot of you ladies ask why would he ask so much about my last relationship well I love to let others talk and then learn from what us mendo wrong and one day I hope to be not perfect but only a few steps away. For Me when it is over it is over. Just had to add my 2 cents
Aways learning from others!!!

God Has Kept Me Here For a Reason
Repeat after me: God has kept me here for a reason. I survived because He has a plan for me. All my bad relationships, the addictions, the consequences, the bad credit, the repossessions, the death of my loved ones, the back stabbing from my friends, the negative thoughts, or the lack of support; I made it because I am blessed!
I release and let go of all past hurts, misunderstandings and grudges because I am abundantly blessed! I recognize them as the illusions they are, and sent from the enemy to kill my spirit, steal my joy, and destroy my faith;
For God is all there is. All else is a lie!

Now give yourself a hug, wipe your tears away and walk in victory!!! I love you, but more appropriately God loves you BEST! Be blessed and know that you are at one with THE SPIRIT OF THE LIVING GOD! And may the Lord keep watch between you and me when we are away from each other. Genesis 31:49. Amen!
Now since you are a true child of God, you know that with every blessing, a blessing is required! So be a blessing to another, by passing this on. IF YOU DO IT RIGHT NOW, GOD WILL BLESS IT RIGHT NOW!!

Be Blessed "The Will of GOD will never take you where the GRACE of GOD will not protect you."
Peace and love from Jay.

About Him

  • StarsignLibra
  • Want childrenUndecided about wanting children
  • Eye colorBrown
  • Hair colorBlack
  • ReligionChristian
  • OccupationExecutive
  • EducationBachelors degree
  • LanguagesSpanish
  • RelocationI'm not prepared to relocate
  • Ideally I'd live in aHouse in the suburbs/Property in the country/Beach house
  • My fashion sense isJeans and Tshirt all the time/Dress according to the occasion/Love designer wear
  • My sense of humor isWitty - I have a razor-sharp tongue/Light-hearted - I like cheerful, gentle fun
  • When I go to partiesI go with the flow
  • On a day off, I enjoySomething athletic or energetic/A cultural outing such as museum or gallery/Lunch with a friend/Pursuing a hobby
  • I attend religious servicesOnce a month
  • When it comes to workI always put in overtime


Message Flirt Favorite IM

"I Adore Him"

I'm from Southern Illinois, he's from Chicago. We met for,dinner and have been meeting 1/2 way every weekend building a strong relationship going on 5 months now. I adore him.: ) read more

Illinois, United States