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A serendipitous discovery...she is everything I wanted but never expected it. When I saw here photos, I had an impulse to message her. We talked shortly after on New Years Eve and had a great conversation but I remember thinking how much younger she sounded on the phone. In retrospect, I'm so glad I didnt let that deter me from pursuing her. Coincidently, I was traveling to see a friend about 1... read more

Elijah74, Age 38, Pennsylvania

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Living in the present moment...
Nickname:  gentlesoul40
Location:  United States, Georgia, Marietta
Age:  42
I am a:  Woman
Looking for a:  Man, aged 37 - 50
Relationship seeking:  Long Term Relationship, Friends
Eye color:  Brown
Hair color:  Dark Brown
Height:  5'2"-5'6" (157cm-169cm)
Body Type:  Average
My ethnicity is:  Black / Non-African descent
Religion:  Spiritual, but not religious
Education:  Bachelors degree
Smoking behavior:  Hate smoking
Drinking behavior:  Drink Socially
Relationship Status:  Never Married
Have children:  Yes, living at home
Want children:  Undecided
Languages:  English
Occupation:  Other
When it comes to relocation:  I would relocate within my city
Starsign:  Libra
My Personality
Ideally I'd live in a: 
House in the suburbs, Property in the country, Cabin in the mountains, Beach house
My fashion sense is: 
Dress according to the occasion, Sporty, jogging shoes and trackies
My sense of humor is: 
Sarcastic - Dennis Miller is a cream puff compared to me, Light-hearted - I like cheerful, gentle fun
When I go to parties: 
I'm in the background but enjoying myself, I go with the flow
On a day off, I enjoy: 
A cultural outing such as museum or gallery, Curling up with a good book, Lunch with a friend, Spending time with the family, Pursuing a hobby, Watching TV or a movie
I attend religious services: 
Find Out Later
When it comes to work: 
Find Out Later
Who Am I?
How would you describe yourself?: 
I honestly don't think internet dating was intended to be so complicated. I think people make it more complex than it needs to be. It seems very few people here are sincere in their action which may or may not work in their favor. There are profiles that contain "conditions" but are looking for unconditional love... Hmmm how does that actually work... Lol. Seriously at the end of the day what is it about that person that really matters to you. I am not one to judge people but your action or lack of them speaks volumes. I am the type of woman who will tell a person what they need to hear and not what they want to hear. So that means I will challenge my mate just as I hope he would do for me.

I am not impressed with one's social status since that has little to do with the person you are inside. I have witnessed the dishonest, rude and coward side of the opposite sex and while it has taught me valuable lessons, I am more than ready to witness the other side because I know in my heart that there is one..:) I am best described by my friends and family so if you really wanna know me you will have to ask them... Lol


Peace and many Blessing to all of you searching..
What Am I Looking For?
I am looking for: 
Finding true love requires a person to be vulnerable to some degree, if a person is unwilling to do that... Well good luck. Being in love takes your breath away, while being loveless makes it difficult to breathe. Love can give us strength. It also makes us weak in the knees. In order to experience the full spectrum of love, we must be available to receive; willing to lose; committed to stay; and open to know the truth about ourselves and love. We must live authentically; develop slowly; change radically and, under all circumstances, we must be non-judgmental about the lessons and opportunities to heal and grow that love may offer.

"Love isn't finding a perfect person. It's seeing an imperfect person perfectly"

"To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment."
~Ralph Waldo Emerson~...
Looking for ethnicity: 
Asian, White / European descent, Latino / Hispanic