You Don't Have to Be Einstein to Understand This Connection

Posted by Leticia, 30 Aug 12

“Online dating does work, and I’m living proof of that,” says Nandi, who used our site to meet a man she’s mad for. “For some people, it doesn’t take long to find that certain someone. For others, it takes quite awhile. The main thing is, don’t ever give up. The longer it takes, the more rewarding it’ll be when you find that special person.”

Dustin, Nandi’s new beau, advises singles to “keep your head up and keep looking. Just because you don’t find someone right away doesn’t mean you won’t! Your perfect person is out there.”

Nandi joined our site with the sense that this could be big for her. She explains... “I was more confident than most because some of my family members have found their loved ones on dating sites.”

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A newcomer to the online personals scene, Nandi was excited by the possibilities as she explored our site. “It was my first experience! I thought it would be fun. Plus, it’s easier to narrow down what you’re looking for.”

Dustin, however, was wrestling with significant doubts about dating online. “I was not confident,” he admits. “I was losing hope. I wanted to try online dating because there were no good women in my area I would want to date. I figured online dating was my best option.”

Unfortunately, Dustin’s initial forays into the online dating pool were unsuccessful. “I had used several sites before, with no luck.” Still, something convinced him to roll the dice on us. “I was giving online sites one last try before cutting my losses,” he says of his decision to sign up.

Nandi and Dustin joined at about the same time. It was only a couple of weeks before their paths crossed. Nandi wrote in her profile that she was interested in quantum astronomy and quantum physics. So “Dustin86” sent “Seaflower912” (Nandi) an email complimenting her on her intelligence. He didn’t expect to receive anything in return. But Nandi wrote back. “We began talking every day,” she says.

Sometimes people seem great on the surface, but the more you get to know them, the more you know there’s no match to be made. In Dustin’s case, Nandi passed each successive test with flying colors. “My first impression of her when I saw her profile was ‘Wow! She’s smart, and pretty!’ That impression solidified and I knew I was hooked. This girl was everything I was looking for: intelligent, sweet, charming, beautiful. The whole package.”

After close to two months of emailing and calling one another every day, Dustin and Nandi were ready to road test this relationship in the making. “I thought I knew as much about her as I possibly could without meeting in person,” says Dustin. So he decided to take this courtship to the next level.

For their first date, they went bowling and had dinner afterwards. Nandi shares her impressions. “My first thought was how tall he was, which I loved, and how handsome and well dressed. He was a gentleman. He was also very independent and mature for his age.”

Dustin was intoxicated by Nandi’s feminine grace. “My first thought was how pretty she was, and how much I liked her hair,” he says. “But I was surprised she was so quiet, when we had talked about so much on the phone and over email.”

Nandi may have been a bit shy in their first meeting, but Dustin’s gregarious personality filled the silences. “I was surprised at how outspoken and lively he was, although I shouldn’t have been because he’d seemed that way over the phone.”

As the end of the date drew near, neither party wanted to walk away. “We both had a wonderful evening and wanted to see each other again,” says Nandi. “The fact that I didn’t want to part ways after our first date was a reassurance for me.” Dustin was thoroughly convinced, as well. “I knew I wanted to go out again!”

Their relationship progressed steadily from there. Nandi came to find that the guy in her life was even more impressive than advertised. “Many things didn’t come across in his profile that I know now and really appreciate. He’s extremely caring and protective. He’s also very driven, which is good motivation for me!”

Dustin didn’t corner the market on ambition, though. “I really like how passionate Nandi is,” he says. “In everything she does, she tries to accomplish it to the best of her ability. Whether it’s writing a new song, or cooking a meal….”

We usually ask couples if their partner is exactly the person they always hoped to find, or a surprise match. Of Dustin, Nandi says “his personality was different than my ‘type,’ but better than what I’d hoped for. But we are very similar when it comes to intelligence, creativity, and physical activity.”

Dustin didn’t have a type in the traditional sense, but he did set priorities before embarking on his search for love. “I had actually written up a list of all the attributes I was looking for in a partner. Nandi has every attribute!”

Nandi is still blissed out by her good fortune. “I never really thought having someone in my life could make me want to experience more, or even make me happier. But I’m happier now than ever, and it’s a great feeling.”

Dustin and Nandi are helping each other to grow and mature. Their mutual and individual goals seem much more attainable with a supportive partner in their corner. Dustin is well aware of the impact his sweetheart has made on his life. “Since I met Nandi, I am a lot happier and more motivated to push myself. I want to succeed and accomplish a lot, not only for myself but to make her proud.”

For singles seeking the advice of someone who made our site work for them, Nandi has this to say. “You have to know exactly what you want when you begin. You can’t accept every Flirt or message you get from people, because it’s a waste of your time and theirs if you know they’re not what you’re looking for. Use that time searching for the one you want!”

Dustin has also thought about suggestions to share with our membership. “There are a lot of people who you may think you could like but, without definite guidelines, you can get lost in all the profiles. Don’t settle for someone you will not be truly happy with.”

230 responses to "You Don't Have to Be Einstein to Understand This Connection"

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  1.   Smartsheelz says:
    Posted: 2 days ago

    Congratulations!!! I wish you all the best that life has to offer.

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  2.   zaza31 says:
    Posted: 5 days ago

    Oh gosh when is my time coming I'm tired of this lonely life my partner pls come am waitin for you now lol happy for you guys : )

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  3.   Alvelenche says:
    Posted: 6 days ago

    I wish u guys good luck Hope to get mine too

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  4.   G.Laura says:
    Posted: 23 Nov

    This couple has made my day brighter. Its lovely to fall in love with the right person and yes not all that are on this website have your similar views and intentions. Congrats and be blessed.

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  5.   Tkmdie says:
    Posted: 21 Nov

    Hope l will find my life partner too.

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  6.   Dzwa says:
    Posted: 14 Nov

    Im really shocked and touched with the story

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  7.   Malbaway says:
    Posted: 11 Nov

    Baby, you look naturally beautiful

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  8.   Joneybabe says:
    Posted: 11 Nov

    The success stories is a relief, healing 's and a complete life restored of a broken heart.

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  9.   taffisky says:
    Posted: 10 Nov

    nice and good to go.

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  10.   Selye says:
    Posted: 10 Nov

    Looks great

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  11.   tevlen says:
    Posted: 06 Nov

    Cool

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  12.   Edwardsn says:
    Posted: 29 Oct

    Very inspiring indeed

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  13.   dCutest says:
    Posted: 29 Oct

    Nice

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  14.   Blacktoto says:
    Posted: 28 Oct

    Oooh my!! Nice couple god protect u

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  15.   kizito5g says:
    Posted: 27 Oct

    Wow this is very in carreging I hope I will find one I have been to money sight but no luck and now I have join here to try my luck am getting old I hope to get someone and I will not give up till I get thank so much . Yours kizzy

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  16.   Cathy20200 says:
    Posted: 23 Oct

    Wao that a nice couple

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  17.   Balvinder says:
    Posted: 18 Oct

    Very nice looking friends Delhi coming

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  18.   yoo31 says:
    Posted: 14 Oct

    thus how love goes Co's no one knows where he might fine true love

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  19.   Ubaidullah says:
    Posted: 08 Oct

    I see very beautiful and naughty girl. I like only Philippine young girl . Plz contact me I am waiting

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  20.   starlee30 says:
    Posted: 08 Oct

    Woooow lovely ly

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  21.   starlee30 says:
    Posted: 08 Oct

    Woooow lively

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  22.   briannabrey says:
    Posted: 07 Oct

    So inspiring. Believe I'll find my soul mate soon.

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  23.   Asounfou says:
    Posted: 30 Sep

    ??? Wish the best ...i wish to found my soul mate ...as well ...all the best

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  24.   manpap says:
    Posted: 28 Sep

    I also (black guy) can't wait to meet my asian girl. So long Manpap

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  25.   saroew says:
    Posted: 23 Sep

    May God bless you guys

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  26.   DANNILO says:
    Posted: 17 Sep

    Oh wow butiful stories n God bless ull..wish my story is next on the line

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  27.   Williamsox says:
    Posted: 11 Sep

    God blessed you too lovers.i wish you guys a happy life

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  28.   gloshem says:
    Posted: 06 Sep

    Wow!, so encouraging, thanks Leticia im sure will also get mine particularly on this site. Im happy for them

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  29.   oluwaSMS says:
    Posted: 03 Sep

    wooooooow!...God bless your relationship while i hope I meet her here too

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  30.   jbhunu says:
    Posted: 01 Sep

    You mean this is realty,uuum let's hope to get one soon!

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  31.   jbhunu says:
    Posted: 01 Sep

    You mean this is realty,uuum let's hope to get one soon!

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  32.   kanu08 says:
    Posted: 25 Aug

    I don't date u

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  33.   oldtrail says:
    Posted: 22 Aug

    Great. Keep it up

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  34.   oldtrail says:
    Posted: 22 Aug

    Good comments for us who are still new. Hope will achieve my goal soon

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  35.   Voodudaddy says:
    Posted: 20 Aug

    Nice article, Letecia! You got some great details out of your subjects! Congrats to the lucky couple!

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  36.   Chuen says:
    Posted: 17 Aug

    Good, I hope mine will work edudon001@gmail am looking forward to that

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  37.   matabel says:
    Posted: 13 Aug

    woooow sounds so amazing I too looking for my soul mate he should be white man

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  38.   nnprs says:
    Posted: 12 Aug

    Good bless you

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  39.   Asiy says:
    Posted: 09 Aug

    That is really insightful, and of course an inspiring one.And to everyone on this site, enjoy and have fun!.Remember to keep the world connected.love you all!!!.

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  40.   Mumbi69 says:
    Posted: 09 Aug

    God bless you Nandi and Dustin

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  41.   kpopfan says:
    Posted: 07 Aug

    Thanks for sharing that. Congrats to Nandi and Dustin

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  42.   kris2675 says:
    Posted: 31 Jul

    Oops encouraging hope to b the next

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  43.   Big-Citie67 says:
    Posted: 26 Jul

    Lucky guys

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  44.   felichibs says:
    Posted: 25 Jul

    my question is,why is it that only Asian or European men marry women from Africa than white women getting married black men,is that black men r not likeable or have no qualities to meet a white woman's need?I leave it up to you to research. good day.

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  45.   kandazi says:
    Posted: 21 Jul

    the best

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  46.   Qu33n3 says:
    Posted: 21 Jul

    I'm just glad to see you all happy maybe onne one the future I would to if I fine my king the right mate for me.

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  47.   Onesimos says:
    Posted: 18 Jul

    Good is is nothing when best is needed congratulations and wish you the best of luck

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  48.   singlepuma says:
    Posted: 15 Jul

    Happy for them am still searching

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  49.   marram says:
    Posted: 14 Jul

    Happy for you guys

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  50.   Nikki65. says:
    Posted: 12 Jul

    Am happy for you guys, may the good Lord bless your union.

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