Approaching a woman ‘s body is very tricky. And whenever approaching a woman, you gotta work your tongue to the fullest potential… I mean conversationally… haha gotcha!!! 
You gotta caress her sensitive spots without appearing like an opportunist. Well lemme spell out the spots for you.
A woman’s hair is one of these spots. Keep it general though. Comment on its shine. Ladies, you know we love that a lot. However stay away from giving her hairstyle tips coz if it backfires then you’ll be in deep sh**.
When you go a little lower… her breasts that is, avoid potentially offensive phrases like “Damn you got udders᾿… or terms like hooters, knockers etc. We women fall in love with what we hear so create your own flattery vocabulary.
When tonguing the lips, talk of the size, shape and color. And be specific to features that are unique… and add a lil reference to some celeb who has sexy lips. We love that don’t we?
And when working my booty please don’t call it a backside or rear. It sounds too old fashioned. Call it something like tush. Its sexier hon. Convince her you love it… adore it… claim it and most important, that you pay attention to it.
As for the stomach, even if she looks like a sumo wrestler, tell her you love her softer angles and curves… and watch it so you don’t sound sarcastic. 
Women are too sensitive when it comes to their pots and love handles. So if you work your tongue right, then you make her an active participant in seduction and not just a passive recipient of flattery.
And for those legs reaching the neck, say they are in good shape. You will lose lots of credibility of tell her you love ‘em and she doesn’t.
And with all that said, good luck dudes. And ladies, enjoy the flattery. Don’t make the dude dig much deeper with the tongue. Have one flattery day peeps.
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Ria, Ria, Ria…for once, I have absolutely NOTHING to say! LOL!
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I just knew this was going to be steamy and then comes the shot of cold water. Tongue and body instantly drew my attention and then……nothing. We as men are not totally dumb. We know we should communicate with our lady. It’s just that some of us choose not to. I enjoy communication, but not everyone does.
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kev, trust me, there are some that need direction
Some of us wish we could give men who are bad in bed a training manual. I hear it all the time…great guy…bad in bed. Then you get the rotten guys…good in bed. Give me the ones who are good guys/bad in bed…at least you can try to teach them how to make love to you.
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Oh yeah…that baby licking a PIG’S SNOUT…TOTALLY GROSS!
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That is gross who would let there kid do that.
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Besides the pic being gross, this was a very good article.
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Yeah Ria, you got me with that title.
You tease!!!!
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With all previous experience, it was clear that I may NOT get some new piece of sex instruction here. As a general note there is on this site a tendency to stay painfully clear of even remotely erotic subjects. Why is that? I know you will all get angry, but I met plenty of non-whites in my life and I noticed this wish to appear CORRECT at all times, which in this instance is somewhat of an impediment…
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C’est what John M. Voss?????
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Work is nothing but kissing is plesent
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Don’t think I’d let my child kiss a pig like that.
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I know one thing in my 43 years of living and having sex, I have never had an orgasm while I was penetrated, so going down town is a must. I would like to experience the penetration orgasm, but if I never do, my man has got to know how to work his tongue on my body. Ya feel me.
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I second that emotion, LoveTha,
Ria, wrong pic for a subject relating to women and their pleasure that I feel is too ignored.
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Heyyy that pic with the pig and the baby has been circulating around the net in a joke email “how to avoid swine flu”! I wonder where that pic originated from?
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Good Evening to All:
–And.. thank you Ria, for addressing
such a much-needed discussion topic.!
For various reasons I am refusing to
be long on this topic; although I would
really love to lavish in it for a while!
I could address it from a purely clinical point
of reference and it would be interesting and very
informative… a lot of helpful positive information.
OHHHhhhh .. how I wish I had time to really go
into allll the virtues of this topic. But….
Let’s just have fun with it from biblical justification.
I realize not everyone is going to “get this”
from a purely biblical perspective; ….not do I
(for any reason) desire to get “religious”.
Non-the-less,.. for those who might be wondering
about the “rightness” of some aspects of this
subject, I would be happy to address it clearly.
—But not here. ( Copy my “Wise Choice”)
and feel free to write me. Ask anything you want,
concerning it; but prepare for very frank answers.
First let me say that if a person cares to study
the Song of Solomon in the (OLD) KJV -not the new,
you will find that Solomon was a “Tongue-Master”!!
Yup.!! ..That’s right! And he gives SOoooohh much
guidance to any man willing to cypher the poetry,
on (EXACTLY HOW) to use his tongue…Oooooh Yesss!
Nothing is missed… from the head to the toes
and all the beauty in between. His tongue has to
taste and describe the flavor of EVERY “thing”.
He licks her scalp and locks of her temples..
(pssst–she was BLACK !!). Chapter 1, verse 5.
.. later on, you find him licking her eye sockets.
Next, he is inhaling the air from her nostrils…
–he has to taste even the air she breathes!!
Then you find his tongue tasting the roof of her
mouth.. and describing the sensation and flavor.
From there,.. he continues to her neck…….
…and then… you get it.! It’s a great read!!
Try not to miss a single word and nuance as you
research this passage. It’s as erotic as it gets!
Oh… you didn’t know the book was an erotic love
story??? Oh,..that’s right;– your pastor never
explained it (that way)!! What a shame!! tsk,tsk.
Now,..if you ask ME,…I’ll give you the low-down.
I don’t pull punches and I don’t “play” church.!!
Truth is Truth and reality is what it is.!!!
I don’t wanna spoil it for ya,… but please don’t
miss the reference to the “valley” and the “lily”!
—Gee-Whizz, Guys..!! What looks like a “lily” ?
What looks …JUST LIKE a variegated “lily” on a
woman? No really… think about it!! Hmmmm????
—Bet you just went to the head of the class!!
Hint-hint..: it’s not her tonsils. But close…
–(just gotta go down about 24-inches farther)!
You’ll get there..!! And when you do… Oh BOY!!!
But this guy-Solomon,… GETS DRUNK on the “dew”
of it. His head is in a cloud.. inebriated on
love-juice… his NOSE is FULL of it!!!
Anybody know what he’s talkin’ about?? Anybody
ever “been-there / done-that” ??? Hallelujah!!!
Let’s have Choich!!!! C’mon, Choir..!! Sing it!!
Y’all know it’s true!! Why dance around this thing
and act so holy and innocent? It’s in the BOOK.!!
God INTENDED for us men to enjoy it!! PERIOD.
…er…uh.. well..at any other time than “that”.!
Now… I won’t get into your (business) but if you
have been missing out on “speaking in tongue”…
… then your girlfriend/wife ought to slap you
SILLY,… until you get some sense in your head;
.. and “GO DOWN” on your knees to her and REPENT!!
When she gets mad at you,… just give her a good
old-fashioned “tongue-lashing” from head-to-toe;
and I bet the argument will end in a FLASH.!!!
Oh.. before I go… (can’t resist this)…
note in the (OLD) KJV that her guy is “white and
ruddy” (chapter 5, verse 10).. read on….
…he has a belly that is “white like ivory”….
Oh, my GOSH…!!! Bury the BOOK!!! It almost
sounds like it’s talking about INTERRACIAL DATING.
“Dating”..you say??? Well,… yeah;…
I mean,… she calls him by every name you can
think of at one point or another…. it’s a date.
You’re welcome to spin it differently. The (NEW)
KJV certainly did…. can’t stand to let truth
stand for itself, I guess. –Gotta clean it up.!!
But… while we’re here,… may as well go to the
last chapter (8) and notice that (SHE) wants to…
…Oh,… go home!!! Yer’ not ready for this!!!
…go down and check out the NUTS….and taste the
VINE…!!! HMMMMMmmmmm!!! Guys,… whut’s she
talkin’ about??? —Anybody get that one???
So,…..don’t tell me it’s WRONG to enjoy the
BLESSING OF GOD that can ONLY be experienced by
the TONGUE.!!! IT’s IN THE BOOK.!!!
Okay,… granted … it won’t “preach” on Sunday.!
But it’s true anyhow and you-all know it.!!!
Don’t get me started or I’ll go off on you!!!
I get so tired of “clinically clean” religion
that takes away from the value of PURE TRUTH.
I can show you stuff like this from cover-to-cover.
Oh,.. I know you’ll never buy into this one,…
but how ’bout:…wellllll…. I dunn-NOooohh…
can you stand another one? It’s touchy…..
“Death and LIFE are in the POWER of the TONGUE:…
and they that LOVE it will EAT the FRUIT thereof”!
—-Okay;… I can hear the wheels turning..!!
You think I’ve “LOST” it this time!! “Gone over
the edge”… Duhn went krazy on ya. Think so??
—BET me!! Put ya DOLLAH on the TABLE..!!!
That was Proverbs Chapter 18, verse 21.
Now read the verse JUST preceding that!
Then go to the one FOLLOWING it!!!
Come on and get the CONTEXT,.. before you tell me
I’m wrong. Fair enough? Look and SEE what it’s
talking about,… then it’ll make more sense.
I know you can take UNIVERSAL TRUTH and turn it in
any direction and it will still produce TRUTH.
So if I turn it toward INTERRACIAL RELATIONSHIP…
Can you REALLY tell me I’m that far off the mark??
Read all three verses to-geth-er… then get the
message. INCLUDING verse 22.!
“Whoso findeth a wife finteth a (good thing) and
obtaineth FAVOUR of the LORD.! I-iiii-I don’t
know about YOU,.. but I’M ready for FAVOUR!!!
1. What you say is what you EAT.
2. You can EAT the FRUIT of the thing you LOVE.
3. It’s gotta be talking about a WOMAN’s BODY.
Well… I said I wouldn’t dwell on this subject
for long…. but it’s gotta be told;… for some
who still aren’t sure it’s okay to TONGUE-NURTURE.
I’d be happy to address this… from the clinical
and psychological perspectives as well….
Not just the wonderful taste of female skin…
…..not just the wonderful way it feels to the
tongue and the fantastic flavor of the chemistry
release….. the explosion of unequaled ecstasy..
…We COULD talk about the kind of brain-hormones
it releases it releases in the man.. AND in the
WOMAN… how it promotes health and stabilizes…
… how it sends information the the BONES… that
cause them to become refreshed….. possibly even
less likely to break…it’s affect on metabolism..
…. but in the end,… it’s just plain FUN, to
lick a woman from head to toe… and in between
every crevice of her wonderful body, Large or small.
A woman’s flesh is God’s gift to man. Lick-it,
like-it and LIVE with it!! There is no taste in
the world that can match the flavor of a woman!
Well….
That’s my take.
I love you…!
Wise Choice.
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The book of Life / thank you Wise Choice for presenting the Possitive side .
Too many / Dwell on the Rules .
It is time to Enjoy the Lessons learned from constant reading and Fresh Interpretations of The Book of Life . Amen
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Wow, Wise Choice that was the just the best most comprehensive honest response yet. I’m going to get my good book now. You said a mouth full.
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OMG!!!! I love the LORD and all the teachings that he has set forth for us. I truly believe in enjoying a man’s body from head to toe. I love having a man “feast on me.” Multiple highs if he knows how to give a good tongue lashing! The picture is cute, but i don’t know if i would have used that one……….lol
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FYI GUYS- some of us dont like our hair touched
BIG NO NO
NEVER TOUCH MY HAIR…
No tugging, pulling, or running your fingers through it
Its not a turn on for me.
Pick something else
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