Comments on: Women mood swings

By: alexander121

alexander121 — Mon, 14 Jun 2010 04:14:19 +0000

Well said Fkoi, all creatures have mood swings. We are ruled by forces of nature. The gravity from the Sun and Moon affect all life. Anyone who reads astrology know about the cycles of mood, thought, and physical well being. I have not looked at astroloy too closely, but most people at least know about “our signs”. Women may show more sensitivity to the cycles, many men just do not want to admit they are not in complete controll of themselves.

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By: fkoi

fkoi — Fri, 23 Apr 2010 18:01:46 +0000

Women are not the only ones with strange mood swings as I’m sure any woman can attest. The joke would have worked just as well with a woman as the protagonist.

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By: Leon

Leon — Wed, 25 Jul 2007 08:30:41 +0000

Your point is well taken if she really had hair under her arms, But she doesn’t … I’m not naive, that I would say
such if she did. .. That’s what made it a joke, It wasn’t true. It really was a tease.

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By: hiimsteph

hiimsteph — Tue, 10 Jul 2007 06:00:59 +0000

Moods are apart of our natural human being existence. Sometimes they can be underplayed or exaggerrated, it all depends.

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By: Leon

Leon — Mon, 02 Jul 2007 01:29:43 +0000

Your point is well taken Barbara, But we can’t blame everything on PMS. .. She had to end our friendship, Because it was me or her husband. And it wasn’t an easy thing for her to do. So the joke gave her the out that she needed. .. While James may not have
seen any harm in the movie. But if we’re really honest
about it. No man like the idea of his wife setting in a dark movie with another man. … You Think?

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By: Leon

Leon — Mon, 02 Jul 2007 00:56:13 +0000

Sir Knight, thanks for your input, But you may have read in my blog, more than what was there. I realize the sensitivities with women and their appearances. But this was a different situation. This young lady and I was very tight, And we have often kid and tease each other
Hind sight is twenty twenty, In looking back, There was some signs of discontent long before this incident. But
I’m afraid I was looking out the wrong window. Like I James said, The hair under her arm joke, Was used as a
means of escape to let our friendship go. It may have met with some opposition at home, And she wrestled with what to do. The joke served the purpose that she needed to let our friendship go. It could have been done a better way. But I don’t cry over spilled milk. .. I get a rag, wipe it up and pour myself another glass.
It’s been seven months now, Since our parting of the ways. I’ve tried to explain my regret, But she don’t want
me to explain or apologize. Read my originals again. You may have missed some vital points. Again Thanks!

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By: SirKnight

SirKnight — Sun, 01 Jul 2007 22:59:31 +0000

Oh by the way, this Lady was married, and she needed to fill obligations, and committments, so when she said she was too busy, it could just well have been that, friend, to friend basis, I feel if her husband was uncomfortable with the movie outing she would have came out and said that, because look at the fact, she stated her mind about the joke…right?

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By: SirKnight

SirKnight — Sun, 01 Jul 2007 22:44:42 +0000

well..#1..it was a simple mistake, that led to a bigger situation with the joke about hair under her arms, of which obviously she didn’t have that.
Women are highly conscious towards their appearance, I’d like to say most of them are. some take remarks, or critizism well, others don’t accept it well, or at all.
Sensitive areas pertain to their hair, facial features, age, and most definitely weight, these are areas where the slightest wrong expression can create a social complication, and trying to make things right afterwards could be like trying to diffuse a live bomb!

If you’re not sure on what to say to correct the mistake, the absolute recourse is to back off of what was said, and work towards speaking upon subjects that will keep her mind off of it, and if she questions you again, then you have the opportunity to apologize, and hope for redemption, note: It better be a good manner of apology, the Lady is totally on gaurd for whatever response is given, in layman’s terms, don’t think she’s just simply forgotten about it, or she wouldn’t be asking.

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By: Barbara

Barbara — Sun, 01 Jul 2007 22:07:03 +0000

Love your comment James! One can blame mood swings on PMS, MENOPAUSE or whatever. Sometimes it can be an adverse reaction to meds or B12 deficiency…so when you’re feeling fatigued and experiencing mood swings it may be time to see your doctor. As a woman who is very even tempered and optomistic it was shocking to discover how pernicious anemia and the side effects from meds altered my life. Thankfully the anemia is treatable and once off the meds I’m a whole new woman. Just another perspective on moods.

Barbara

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By: Leon

Leon — Fri, 22 Jun 2007 11:13:11 +0000

Thanks James, .. Thanks for being frank with me. I figured as much, But when you’re involved emotionally
You can not always see thing objectably .. It’s good to seek a different perspective. As I look back on the friendship, Even though we didn’t cross the physical line, We may had cross the emotional line. It’s called an Emotional Affair. As I look back on the friendship, To end it was a blessing in disquise. We were headed for destruction, Big Time! … I took a 8 month leave of absense from the gym to clear my perspective and equillibium. I know this woman cared a great deal for
me, But she was face with fact that our friendship was beginning to affect her marriage. We both may have been in denial. I will always have much love for her, It’s the way she made me feel, When I was in her company.
I’ve never experience that type of exceptance from anyone of a different race. Thank You very much for your quick response … eNjOy!

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