We always talk about Black women and how they can’t date White men. Well, there are those women that only date White men. I remember a pal of mine telling me once that she will never get married to Black man. And even as kids, when playing make believe, she was always married to a White guy.
The reason for women like her who only date white men may be very similar to the reasons why most Black women only date Black men … attraction. Some also feel that Black men treat them better than any other man ever could, and they feel that they’d rather have what they know instead of experimenting with what they don’t know.
Some Black women are just not physically attracted to Black men. And as much as parents usually like hooking us up with people of our own race, well it reaches a time when you have to be honest with yourself. Imagine my pal for example: As a child, her first crush was Adam Sandler, then as she got older, she fell in love with Mel Gibson. This doesn’t mean that Black men aren’t handsome – they are just not her type.
Some also feel that White men (not ALL but many) find black women to be remarkable in every sense of the word; hence Black women tend to gravitate towards those affections. Much as her husband treats her better than any man ever had, one lady admits that she has been with some White men that disgusted her with their behaviors. But she says that generally, older White men and very mature on a broader level than with Black men on many levels.
Some are just wildly turned on by the differences … skin color, hair, being raised in different cultures, music, foods … the list is endless. Its all about the desire for the mysterious and unknown. And for some, its just pure love because there are those that forget that we are ‘black’ and ‘white’ and just coincidentally happened to fall in love with a White guys.
One thing we all have to remember is that not every White man is a Black woman’s dream. It all depends on the individual … good and bad comes in all colors.
With that said, the generic phrase – ‘It should be about love and not color’ – is cute. But in this case, not entirely truthful. Its not only about love. Much as love gets cultivated eventually, there is physical attraction and a declaration to date only one race. Racist or preference?
I have been dating educated blackwomen over the past couple of years and I now find myself in a relationship. Other than a few of her racist relitives we share something very beautiful.
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Hi, Arcadia73
Congrats on your marriage. Thank you for your encouragement!
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What attracts me to a woman is not her color but her quality. And I try to display the same quality as a person. Am I attracted to women of color? Yes, all colors. Considering my raising some would consider it to be a pecadillo I do not. I grew up in Miami so I was submerged in a melting pot of cultures. My family actually objected that, while living in Japan, I dated a Japanese woman. When I was young and living in Manhatten I lived with a lovely black woman for almost 2 years. She was strong, intelligent, classy and very much her own person. Or so I thought. I had proposed to her and she accepted. One month later she broke up with me because her family objected to her marrying a white man.
My own family, who I can only describe as “every Jeff Foxworthy joke you ever heard” threatened me with everything from physical violence to death. You see I grew up in a racist family. I never understood racism and I pray I never understand it. Eventually I married a Jewish girl and was disowned by my family. I could care less what they thought. Still dont! My own son is turning 28 and he has never met my family. Considering how he was referred to by them I refused to subject him to that backwards racist mentality. He’s grown into a fine man.
I am mutt, I can prove it…my nose is cold! I am a mix of English, Irish, German and Mohawk indian. I have been married twice and divorced twice. I continue to date women of color and white women. Some accuse me of liking black women for the sexual taboo. This is the furthest thing from the truth. I’ve found that black women are more active and open to new ideas yes. And many know what they want from a man. Their minds are more curious about things and many possess an intellect they show only when comfortable enough to do so. This shows a vulnerability and a highly defined sense of self I’ve seldom found in other women. I admire that!
I joke around with people when I tell them i’m from Miami, but still so southern I’m related to myself. I am capable of poking fun at myself. At this point in my life I am starting over once more. 50 was not an age at which I expected to be alone again. But Defecation Occurs and here I am getting ready to dive back into the pool. This time around I will take more time to examine and reflect on things. I am encouraged to see that others are finding love. Do I hope to find it? Of course! Who doesnt? Will I find it with a woman of color? Who knows! The more important part to me is will she find it with me and will I be worthy enough to have earned it!
MADcHATTER
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ok i dont see why so much hate is directed to black women that choose to date outside their race. why is it such a double standard? Not all white men just want sex……..or a black girl that looks white. I am DARK SKINNEd and beautiful. I have dated exclusively outside my race because that is what i like. i have always had crushed on non black men since childhood. The guy i am currently dating loves taking me out in public and showing me off, thinks i am absolutely gorgeous. he is not afraid to be seen with me at all. When i first starting dating interracial i actually listen to this BS that most blacks had to say about …white men are ashamed of interracial relationships with black women? or they will never have a serious one with one. Its all BS. Yes, there are men that use women for sex but they are both black and white. With all the single black mothers, you mean to tell me white men are considered as a threat of using black women for sex? Sorry but seems like black men use black women more than whtie men. Anyways, back to my point….i believed so much what BS that the black community threw at me about not being attractive to white men and etc. I ended up coming out and asking my partner. Most white men who are open to dating interracially could care less how dark or light you are as long as you are in shape, keep yourself looking good, smart,cute and sweet. All the men i dated had no problem holding my hand while walking down the street or kissing me in public, regardless if people were watching or not. Most of the time, it was my own insecurities that made it such an issue, when they really didn’t care and only wanted to be with me.
Stop hating on black women who date interracially and get lives of your own. Just because a black woman dates a non black men doesn’t mean she hates herself. I love my chocolate skin, round booty, and toned body. i love my full lips……….and so does my babe. he loves every part of me. Thats all that matters!
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by the way, my babe and i are engaged to be married next summer. he is not ugly or a low income loser contrary to stereotypes. he is 6 ft 1 , average weight, dark hair, dark eyes. a real cutie. he is a physical therapist and already hasw a goregous 4 year old biracial daughter named cheyenne. i am very happy to have her as my future step daughter. I say this not to piss anyone off, but as encouragement for other interracial couples like us who have to read posts like this which are BS. Love is colorblind. Dont listen to the bias and untrue remarks in this post. The main reason why black woman/white man relationships are rare is because of the ” i want a strong black man mentality from black women” , fear, and the fact that very little interaction between white men/black women socially. My babe was afraid to approach me when we first met, but look at us now. lol May 2011 baby!!!!
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Congrats, Tonya….may you be blessed with many year of joy and wonder.
Dang it…even as cynical as I might be about the instituion of marriage…I still am a hopeless romantic….go figure….LOL
Peace and Blessings
tatted2death
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And double dang it…I missed my “sister in weirdness”, Arcadia…..
Glad you see you are still around…..
Peace
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I feel sorry for the older generation… I am very glad I did not grow up in your time.
Multiracials are the future of America, and you monoracials fade away more each day. You will not be missed. This is OUR time. WE are the American Race.
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@8:45a.m.
Comment by mecca77 on 21 April 2010:
well racial relationship are not cut and dry. most whitemen in america are still with the double standard attitude i agree that we do h ave to look outside of our own culture to find what we want. everyone just because they are black is not cut from the same cloth. lord knows i dated all kinds of whitemales. all are not my cup of tea. majority are not comfortable with i think i take her to meet mom.
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It would be nice if you could expound on some of the reasons you believe this to be so.
Thank you.
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I have never weighed in on a blog before ,but I like this forum and felt compelled to do so. I have read a lot of dialog referencing white men in regards to black females. Well here is a little insight on a white gentleman opinion who thinks black women are gorgeous. We all want quality in a perspective mate. lets not forget no matter what color you are there has to be a physical attraction first. I grew up in a majority Caucasian culture and right out of puberty, I always had a strong attraction toward black women. My hearts desire was to have a black female as a mate but seemed to settle for white women. Much had to do with geographic and to shy to approach those who caught my eye. After my divorce I decide that I wasn’t going to settle for less than what I wanted. Some of those may not like this but for me the attraction was color and features of a black woman first. I further find the contrast beautiful and sexy. My experience with black females is that they are confident and have stronger personalities I don’t feel empty or a void in the company of a black woman like I did with a white female. Not to turn this into a sexual post but, I have to mention from my experience with a black women, sex is more passionate, intense and not to say erotic. In fact and forgive me saying this but after my first romantic interlude with a black woman I could not walk for an hour, that’s how intense it was
I feel interracial dating is by far more acceptable in society that to read or hear about but, that is my opinion and based where I live. It has been rare from my area to see a black woman and white man together which is pleasing to the eye ( In fact jealous and wanted to approach him and ask where he met her).
I feel many white men are attracted to black woman seeking a relationship and perhaps visa versa. For those who do we need to figure out how to burn both ends of that candle. Perhaps blogs like this will be a aid. The pool of black women who are seeking a white man for a relationship is small due to are population. Thank God for the Internet because I found my black diamond in the ruff
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What of the white men here who have the nerve to be on an INTERRACIAL DATING SITE and yet send out messages telling me that I need to ‘go back to black men’? I received one such message from Geoff302 (yes I put his name out there…I want women here to KNOW who and what he is).
He tried to chastize me…a woman with a doctorate because I want a similar man. How dare I??? As he put it…white doctors, lawyers and business owner’s want a 20 year old piece of black arm candy…and that I need to ‘give it up and go back to the black men’.
Tell me….how do the women here deal with this nonsense?
Of all the places to encounter idiocy…this was NOT the place I expected to find it.
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And by the way….I cannot ‘go back’ to black men…because I have NEVER gone to them in the first place. I have ALWAYS dated white men exclusively. Never dated a black man…never wanted to…and still do not. They are not my preference. And each of us is entitled to our preferences.
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(Ginger ale spilling out my nose)
HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA
“Whew” I am sorry ChocPricess. (Tearing up).
The funny part about her comment. She is more offended by being perceived “as dating black men before” than the comment “said to her”.
Jesus Christ, I tell people all the time. The more educated a black woman is, the more “emotionally unstable” she can become. Just imagine when she gets her PhD. The hair weave is even out of control. No wonder, she wants to be with white men so bad. Black men are not messing with a black woman that is “cuckoo”.
It reminds of the white girl in Haiti that got raped. She had a doctorate and I guess thought she would go on a mission to “save” black people. Anyway, long story short, she gets raped. Then, blames the WHITE MAN for the black man raping her.
I am starting to believe what white men are saying. These American women are a “mess”. The self hatred of these sellout black women are even “more amusing”.
Good day.
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@ Laurelton
You are the typical idiot that I should have thought would not be here.
I have never wanted black men…and education has naught to do with ‘emotional stability’. But then again only an uneducated moron would harbor such thoughts. I already have a PhD dear…that is what having a ‘doctorate’ means.
It is not self hatred to have a preference…but it is INSECURITY on the part of black men like you…who are threatened if a black woman does not want you.
And since you lack perceptiveness….the ENTIRETY of the commentary. And YES….I am offended by it being PRESUMED that I belong to or should be ‘relegated’ black men simply because we share a skin color. I ‘belong’ to no man.
Apparently you are not intelligent enough to grasp this….typical really.
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Oh yea,
WHEN THE TOMORROW COMES FOR SELLOUT BLACK WOMEN “THE HALLE BERRY STORY”. (CURRENTLY OUT)
(SHAMELESS PLUG)
mrlaureltonqueens.blogspot.com
Oh yea, look for my upcoming Blog Albums on sellout black women.
OH YEA, THATS RIGHT, I AM DOING ME ( COMING SOON)
THIS IS WHAT I WILL DO UNTIL .. ITS OVER (COMING SOON)
WE HAVE BEEN EVERYWHERE AND “BACK” BUT.. IT MIGHT BE OVER (COMING SOON)
I AM LIVING LIFE RIGHT NOW (BONUS)FT LONDON CHARLES
(Leaving the stage)
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(Listening to Choc)
A doctorate is not the same as a “PhD”. (Sigh)
(Rolling my eyes and half listening)
You just got mad that a white man dismissed you. NOW, you are trying to take your anger out on black men. How about direct that anger at the white man that told you go back to “black men”.
The only thing I grasp is woman that desperately needs validation. You just automatically believe that your education distances you from skin color.
Because if it DID. You wouldn’t have been upset that a white man told you go back to black men.
Obviously, you are more educated than me. You got the doctorate/PhD.
I am sorry if the white man relegated you “to black men”. LOL
Maybe. change your weave and the white man will “value” your education more.
Good day
(Loosening my tie up)
I spanked a Harvard Graduate feminist and now a supposed “PhD” professor that hates being black.
I am gone for now.
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LOL
You are truly a moron.
Noun 1. Ph.D. – a DOCTORATE usually based on at least 3 years graduate study and a dissertation; the highest degree awarded graduate study…
HMMMMMM. Ph.D. is a DOCTORATE! Imagine that! Oh let me be more specific for you so you will not be confused….it is a type of doctorate. So your attempt to be a smartass is moot.
Gee….did you think there was some sort of degree that came AFTER holding a doctorate (which is a terminal degree…if you even know what that means). Oh I know….perhaps you mistakenly thought that I held a Juris Doctorate or a DLitt…maybe a DBA or a DPT?? Hmmmm…doubtful….since you probably do not know that those are either.
Perhaps you should go spank your monkey…because that is the only thing you will be ‘spanking’ around here.
I am not taking my anger out of black men you moron…show me where I stated anything about black men in general….other than the fact that I am not obligated to them…or you.
By the way…I never found ‘black’ men attractive…even before my degree was earned. Perhaps in grade-school I just magically KNEW I would hold a DOCTORATE? LOL
Typical insecure, unintelligent black man…threatened when a black woman who does not know him nor would ever want to does NOT want him! Pathetic.
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Dear Choc
That is quite interesting you said a “doctorate” is a PhD.
Doctoral degrees are prestigious, hard-earned accomplishments that usually denote the highest point of learning for a chosen field of study. A Ph.D. is a type of doctoral degree. However, there are some specific differences between a Ph.D. and other doctoral degrees.
Some professional doctoral degrees are not an end-all for practicing a particular profession.
For instance, to practice law, a certificate to practice a certain type of law, such as immigration law or corporate law, is needed in addition to the J.D. Additionally, doctors can earn certifications to specialize their practice. A doctor specializing in heart surgery, for instance, needs further specialization beyond an M.D.
When deciding which higher degree is right for you, remember that if it is a professional doctorate, you might have to study for further certifications.
A Ph.D. is the highest academic degree available no matter the subject, although those with a Ph.D. can achieve professional growth through research accomplishments and teaching success.
There is a little bit of difference here, it is a “type” of doctorate. You never said, what you have your doctorate in. What is the name of the school you got your doctorate from? Since you like bragging about it.
You write like you are from the “mean streets” of New York. It is hard for me to believe you even have a doctorate.
I know you do not have a doctorate in English. It is quite apparent by your responses. Basically, you should be correcting me and not the other way around.
Let me get back to your statement, this is from you’re “own words”.
“Comment by ChocPrncess on 5 May 2010:
What of the white men here who have the nerve to be on an INTERRACIAL DATING SITE and yet send out messages telling me that I need to ‘go back to black men’? I received one such message from Geoff302 (yes I put his name out there…I want women here to KNOW who and what he is).
He tried to chastize me…a woman with a doctorate because I want a similar man. How dare I??? As he put it…white doctors, lawyers and business owner’s want a 20 year old piece of black arm candy…and that I need to ‘give it up and go back to the black men’.
Tell me….how do the women here deal with this nonsense?
Of all the places to encounter idiocy…this was NOT the place I expected to find it.”
You made an interesting, poorly, written tirade against white men on this board. They must assume ” you are highly educated”. Your delusions are almost as bad as you’re hair weave.
She also said this………
“Comment by ChocPrncess on 5 May 2010:
And by the way….I cannot ‘go back’ to black men…because I have NEVER gone to them in the first place. I have ALWAYS dated white men exclusively. Never dated a black man…never wanted to…and still do not. They are not my preference. And each of us is entitled to our preferences.”
She mentions I am insecure. She goes on an interracial board to broadcast that she has never been with a black man. AFTER, she was dismissed by a white man that told her “go back to black men”. It is this type of ego and narcissism that get black women used and abused by white men.
She managed to “put down black men” and lash out at white men all at the same time. She reminds me of my niece that ‘tantrums” when she does not get her way.
I got news for you. Black men don’t want you too! You bad wig wearing Koala bear. It seems like “white men” don’t want you unless you are using your doctorate to make them “some money”. These pathetic sellout black women “reading off their resume” like they at a job interview. The white man STILL dismissed you. LOL
You have a nice day.
Oh yea, if you were so smart you wouldn’t be whining and complaining about a white man “dismissing” you to black men. LOL
Loser.
(Baiting you with my hand, respond back)
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LOL
More insecure ramblings from a black man. Glad they do not want me as you claim. Relieved in fact. The very idea calls for a CELEBRATION!!!
If interracial dating is so HORRID…then why are YOU here…you incompetent, vapid, limp excuse for a male?
I write as if I am from the ‘mean streets’? That is laughable. If you consider being suburban born and raised with a private education the mean streets…then so be it. Again…the jealousy that you flaccid black men project if pathetic.
As for where I earned my degree…that is not your business. I earned it, I am published fully, original research, Library of Congress record, etc. etc. What do you have dear? Probably barely escaped from high school or got your GED whist incarcerated. Do tell me why I should bother to list my certifications for area of specialization for you? You are naught but a beast at a keyboard who would barely be able to grasp what I wrote.
I did rather enjoy your cut and paste from Wikipedia….how learned of you! LOL My how you are demonstrating your vast knowledge. It can cut and paste! How charming! Do you dance and play the accordion as well while you hold out your little tin cup to collect coins from the passerby?
By the way a Ph.D. is NOT the highest degree available in ANY subject. It is the highest degree available in CERTAIN subjects. It is the highest degree one can earn in many English speaking countries…not across all countries. However a Doctorate or Doctor or Doctoral degree is the terminal degree….and a Ph.D. is a TYPE of doctorate. And yes…in MY field, the Ph.D. is the TERMINAL degree.
There is no Ph.D. in Juridicial Science…the doctorate there is designated as a J.S.D. or the S.J.D. You have a Doctor of Education. That is an E.D. NOT a Ph.D. yet it is the terminal degree in that field. Next time learn to READ AND COMPREHEND what you post my little ignorant beast.
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NOW, you don’t want to say where you got your doctorate from. I have a Bachelor’s in Criminology/Sociology. I am always interested in reading “published” works. My favorite sociologist is Julius Wilson.
Why would I be jealous of you with your bad weave? You came on here whining and complaining about white men dismissing you to “black men”. You went on this pathetic “tirade” about how you were never “touched” by a black man and etc (playing the violin).
Now back to your education, I read everything. I never knocked your education. I simply asked you what you have a doctorate in? As if, that entitles you to a “man” (white man that is).
You “lashed out” about this dating site. I beg the question, why are you here after getting dismissed so crudely by white men? A woman of your stature shouldn’t be treated like this by white men.
I do recall you used some copy and paste for your definitions too. Mrs “a type of doctorate”.
Again, what do you have a doctorate in? Since I am to ignorant to know your accomplishments.
I mean that was the original thing that got you angry at the white guy that dismissed you right?
He didn’t get your resume or read all of it? Is that what happened?
You are so pathetic you put “his name” out there publicly.
I hope Obama is not reading your posts lol.
There is something sad and comical about a distinguished black woman “lashing out” at a white guy telling her “go back to black men, you are not good enough”.
I want you to respond back. You are throwing punched but you are not hitting me with anything substantial.
They all claim these accomplishments but refuse to tell you the school they went too or the “sources’ of their works.
Give me a break. I doubt you even finished your dissertation or thesis.
This reminds me of the Negros in church calling themselves “Doctor this and that”. None of them got proof or a dissertation or thesis.
These are the type of black people that make educated black people “look bad”.
Now if you are telling the truth Choc. I would apologize to you. I take education very seriously.
You have a nice night. Take that wig off summer is coming.
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Right…I am supposed to list my name and personal info on the web for MORONS like you to take and use?
How truly stupid are you?
Yes idiot boy….I finished both my thesis and dissertation. I am rather shocked you even know what they are.
Learn to read…I stated that ONE white man wrote something I found to be rude. That is far from stating that ALL white men here ‘diss’ me as you put it in your charming ghetto parlance.Just like I find YOU to be a rude, manner-less animal….but other black men may not be.
Go back to your black power meeting and stop whining that there are black women out here who do not want you….and who CELEBRATE the fact that you do not want them!
Enough of you…be gone beast! ROFL
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Ohhh…beast boy….your little paws forgot to pound out where you got your supposed degree in criminology/sociology. How quaint yet fitting…the beast has a degree in ‘criminology’….it must have been easy for you to attain since I am sure you are rather well acquainted with the criminal element.
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(Putting my drink down)
She came back for me. (Oh Lord)
Uh, nobody is going to stalk you. ESPECIALLY, with that bad weave.
You finished your thesis and dissertation. Now, is it possible to read it? See, you feel a certain way because you got emotional. You cried like a naked baby in the woods. Now, you feel you have to save face here.
There is no question you are an intelligent woman. However, your level of education is not the sole reason men date a woman. I know it is hard to get your doctorate. I respect your hard work.
Again, you made the comment that the white man dismissed you. I just merely pointed that out and you responded back with all these racial commentary. You have a real problem being black. It is very apparent. I am always around highly educated black women. Some have to be validated by a white men. You happen to be the extreme case. You basically just “outed” a white guy because he said something you “didn’t like. That is really pathetic. It one of the symptoms of bitchassness sellout black women acquire. They want to “control” everything.
Why did the white man’s comment “bother” you so much? You had to come on the board and say “well no black man touched this wig or bad weave”. I am just paraphrasing it for you. What is all that about?
I can never understand why sellout black women feel “black men” want ‘all of them”. I generally don’t get into the name calling and all of that.
If you were so great, you wouldn’t be lashing out at a white man on the internet that dismissed you. You can’t even call him “any racial terms” like you call me. LOL
She was like (Mimicking her voice) wait let me pull up.
“What of the white men here who have the nerve to be on an INTERRACIAL DATING SITE and yet send out messages telling me that I need to ‘go back to black men’? I received one such message from Geoff302 (yes I put his name out there…I want women here to KNOW who and what he is).
He tried to chastize me…a woman with a doctorate because I want a similar man. How dare I??? As he put it…white doctors, lawyers and business owner’s want a 20 year old piece of black arm candy…and that I need to ‘give it up and go back to the black men’.
Tell me….how do the women here deal with this nonsense?
Of all the places to encounter idiocy…this was NOT the place I expected to find it.”
This paragraph is sad and disturbing. She lashes out at “younger women”, I guess she perceives these young girls are taking the precious white men from her.
She goes on about “how do women deal with this nonsense”. UM, some women are doing well here. It is your ASS that is problem.
I don’t have a doctorate. But momma call girls like you “plum crazy”. Oh her favorite term “dem book smart but got no common sense”. My mother’s “Jamaican accent”. LOL
Right now, I am starting to feel sorry for white guys that have to deal with this.
(Rubbing my chin)
You have a nice night Mrs Doctorate.
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Actually got at a State School in New York SUNY College at Old Westbury.
I got a “free ride” because of my grades. I like sociology and criminology.I also have another degree in Medical Billing. To be honest with you, college wasn’t hard at all. I figure people like yourself spend upwards of close to 100,000 for a Bachelors or Masters. Not saying you ‘did”. I would never take out a loan for that much. I wasn’t raised poor but I am not rich either.
Oh yea, you were raised in the suburbs like “Bill Cosby” right? You have all these accomplishments and lash out because a white man made a single comment. You could have ignored it.
Most doctorates are not exactly making six figures. it depends on what “field you are in”. Overall, they don’t make as much as accountants, lawyers, some engineers.
LOL If it make you feel good to be a “thinker”, be my guest.
I might do a doctorate. My thesis would be on “Why sellout black women fail”?
If I am going to publish, I want to be compensated if possible.
Anyway, that weave is incredible.
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Sorry, wrote that paragraph in a rush.
My GPA was like 3.7. I was on the ‘Dean’s List”. Do not ask me how that happened. LOL
I was encouraged to get my doctorate. I decided five years is too damn long.
Plus,you have pressure to publish and do fundraising.
The only fundraising I would do is to get you a better weave.
Everything else, is too time consuming.
You have a nice night.
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Frankly I do not care if you ‘respect’ my hard work or not. You are misguided if you think I need or want your ‘respect’. I prefer your contempt…as I would never wish to be respected by the likes of you.
You wish to read my dissertation or thesis? Fine. Figure it out, go to your local University library, have them order it…better yet…purchase it. I make money that way. However you are insane if you think I am going to put my information out here for someone like you to be able to contact or find me without my consent. You truly are a whack job. You hide yourself without even a profile picture listed…but you expect ME to put my identifying information here? You are a moron. I have said it before…but it bears repeating.
Do learn to read. In all of your rabid desire to lash out at black women who have a preference for non-black men…you quite obviously see what you wish to see. Honestly take off the blinders.
I did not lash out at younger women you moron….I simply reported HIS comment. Do tell me how that is lashing out at younger women?
YOU started the vitriolic exchange…whith the ‘oh let me rant on about black women who prefer white men and oh let me try to debase them because they want something I do not wish them to’ blah blah blah. YOU were rude therefore I responded in kind. YOU make it racial and venomous. Jamacian…no wonder you are so jealous of people who do not have Brillo pads for hair.
Bill Cosby? Why must you uneducated barely made it out of the ghetto types always run to Bill Cosby as some sort of archetype of an educated suburban born and raised black person? I do not know where or how he grew up…and frankly do not care.
I am a classist. I want a middle/upper class man who shares the same aesthetic I was raised with. So what? Yes I prefer a man just as educated as am I…again….SO WHAT? It is only men who are offended and insecure who care what another person prefers or wants.
You wish it to be that I ‘cried’ here or am trying to save face…get over it. I simply made a comment regarding something I found annoying…it is YOU who feels the need to turn it into some epic exchange. And for now it is amusing so I participate. But you black men who STALK Interracial Dating sites just so you can harass black women who do not want you or men like you are pathetic. Why don’t you do a self study of why you are so insecure Jamaica boy?
I embrace being considered ‘crazy’ by your ill spoken kith and kin. You keep to your wants…I will keep to mine.
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Who cares what degree someone got, a hot one is a hot one and I saw one definitely hot one here in the topic I would fancy if she would at the news paper kiosk.
ChocPrncess, you are a 10!!! Should not take a lot to get a cracker
Isn´t taht the word they use in the states for the whites, hahahaha, no idea how they came ot it, but a like it
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Sorry for the mistake, I write while I work.
Of course meant: I would fancy her even if she would work at the news paper kiosk.
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Ms. ChocPrincess,
You are the best. Keep after Mr. Laurelton Queens. Someday he may get it.
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(Eating pop corn)
Hannes who cares if she got a degree right?
Obviously, she cares because the white guy that dismissed her to black men, made her really upset. These pseudo intellectual black women types always find a way to blame black men for their problems.
She worried about people contacting her and etc about her “little known” published works. Nobody even knows who you are. In your “little world”, you might be “somebody”. On this board, you are just another whiner and complainer.
Originally, that was my comment towards you. My profile is on my blog loser. I am not hard to find. You have a doctorate right? I am not registered on this board with this name. I don’t need a profile because sellout black women are a disgrace. (Smiling)
I don’t lash out at black women. I merely question their judgement. You started “outing” a white guy that told you a comment you did not like. You went “on and on” about how you “were raised”. Nobody give a damn about shit. I was raised middle class.
You lash out at younger women. You made a reference to “arm candy”. In relation, to white men wanting younger women. Perhaps, they just don’t want you.
You debase yourself. The guy told you go back to black men. Your response was to “plead” to him that you never had a black man “touch you”. That is sort of like begging for a man. You are implying “look I never been with a black men, please take me”. You sound pathetic and desperate.
I never said your head is a Brillo pad. However, that is not your real hair. If you are so “proud” of your hair (or lack of it). Why you got a weave?
You said this comment……….
“You wish it to be that I ‘cried’ here or am trying to save face…get over it. I simply made a comment regarding something I found annoying…it is YOU who feels the need to turn it into some epic exchange. And for now it is amusing so I participate. But you black men who STALK Interracial Dating sites just so you can harass black women who do not want you or men like you are pathetic. Why don’t you do a self study of why you are so insecure Jamaica boy?”
Oh, it is something you found annoying. I hear you now. It is an epic exchange. Simply, because for all your education the white man still dismissed you. Perhaps, that is the biggest insult. No wonder you are so angry at me. I managed to point it out.
I will harass you again with that bad hair style. You just keep it up!
God, you have doctorate. You continue to write poorly written replies back to me.
Did you get your doctorate from an online program?
You have a nice day.
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omg there is way too much hatred and drama on this site for me lol. interracial dating brings out the evil, bitter side of people i see. lmao
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Let us all spread peace and love. 50 years from now we are all gone. STOP the hate.
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I have had to bend over the knees for black women who enjoy spanking us white guys. I’m not totally sure why, but they get very turned on by spanking our white a**es until they are bright red.
If any of you white guys want to connect with black hotties, make sure you let them know that you are willing to be spanked. Just don’t tell them these things unless you mean it, because you will get spanked and they like to see you in pain.
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Hello every one out there
my name is lee what I would like to say about black women. I was to be Married to the most perfect black lady around she was caring loving and had a heart of gold she was also a pastor lets just say this classy lady was one of a kind and she did not care I lived in a old run down house trailer and did not have nice things or a big nice car she was in love with me it was like god made us to be but then the bad news came she called me and told me she found out she had M.S and it was getting worse she was crying so hard as she was also telling me she did not want to do this to me making hopes we would ever have a normal life when in time she would be in a wheel chair for the rest of her life and she was so young this rip me apart so much I gave up on my self I did not know what to do for her I was feeling pain for her and pain for me knowing I was losing the most caring loving good looking heart of gold black woman . I also want to say this as well what is black what is white what is brown it is just a skin color that is all we all have the same body parts and we all bleed red if we get cut so to me there is no color just a woman who I as a white man loved. no one has the right to judge only god has that right and it is he who made us who we are to day. at one time we all was the same in color before men and women tried to make a tower to get to god and he became mad and then turned all of us into what we are today but this does not mean we are not the same in heart and soul and in body just are skin color Chiang. But if that ever did mater to me about skin color then I say this black or tan or brown skin on a women is sexy to me. Now to end this with this I pray I would find another like the lady I had who is not into money power greed and who would love me for what and who I am as a poor white man with a heart if there is such a woman out there write me with photos .I live in the Elizabethtown KY now one thing I don’t get into women who are of the big size yes they need love to I just not into it thank you
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Lee,
While I value your honesty about your preference to not date full figured or plus size women, but you don’t want to sound like shallow jerk either. I would watch what you say because women are very good at studying a man’s worth by how he speaks and if he’s wanting the supermodel type they will pass you over for someone who’s not stuck on how a woman looks. Focus on a woman’s character than how she looks and you might get somewhere.
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@ Lee,
I get where you are coming from, my man! Just as women on here prefer white men (and they are very specific about this preference!) you prefer a Black woman who is NOT overweight.
This is your preference and no self-deluding twat has the right to alter what you prefer! Perhaps their problem is that they are overweight and feel insecure as a result. Whatever, they have no right to attempt to make you feel guilty over what you prefer when they prefer white men!
Good luck in your search, Lee!
Menelik Charles
London England
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Hypocritical.
Men can have a PREFERENCE…and in fact the men here applaud it…but let a black woman have a preference…and some of the man whine like children!
To utilize the phrasing of the men here “No self-deluding d*ck has the right to try to alter what you prefer!!”
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I used to think inside the box. Love who love you and makes you feel good. Soo many people are alone or in messed up relationships becaues of limitations.
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I dont know what it is . but i get alopg better with black woman than I ever so white, all the white girls i see are scatterbrained and nothing when it comes to talk ing or being personable, and its all looks with caucasian woman not brains,
ive given white woman a chance, but all they wanna do is play games,
but black woman are different, they know what it is to have to go without and then when something comes along as a whole theyu appreciate it more than spoiled caucasian ones never was in love im 50 mand still wondering if itll ever happen, im tired of the scaaterbrained caucasian woman that ive been around thewy wont slow down and they dont think what thier doing just run around like a robot not thinking about anything someone get back to me on this , id like to talk to a nice black lady thats down to earth and personable ande ISNT INTO THE SKIN COLOR THING,
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I don’t care about any of this color thing. People should be with who they want to be with. I know I will. I just want a good woman
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I’m in a loving relationship with a wonderful white man for over three years. We love each other and that is what is important. If our relationship upsets anyone, that is their business.
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Date who you want to date…Love who you want to love…Marry who you want to marry…LOVE has no color…I’m a WOMAN who happens to be BLACK in love with a MAN who happens to be WHITE…It is hard at times but we deal with it…This man is good to me and I can care less about the color of his skin…We are all HUMAN and that’s the only race that matters…
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I agree, it shouldn’t be about color, love doesn’t discriminate, love is about loving someone from the heart. Read 1 Corinthians 13 and you will understand what love is. Personally, I have always been attracted to black women. We don’t need all this infighting on here, why can’t we all just get along?
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Comment by ChocPrncess on 22 May 2010:
Hypocritical.
Men can have a PREFERENCE…and in fact the men here applaud it…but let a black woman have a preference…and some of the man whine like children!
To utilize the phrasing of the men here “No self-deluding d*ck has the right to try to alter what you prefer!!”
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I don’t mind you having a PREFERENCE, but when you have to DEGRADE black men in the process of having a preference, then you and I have a PROBLEM.
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I am a black woman and frankly I have little preference, I just love men. My two things are I don’t like yellow skin of a mixed guy i really don’t know why and dark skin guys. But this isn’t about me. I have a cousin and a bestfriend who both prefer white men. Now my bestfriend has the usual excuse which is similar to the black men in my neighbor hood. Attitudes, and a whole bunch of BS that has nothing to do with physical appearance. And my cousin who date white men because the world has her hating herself so much that she’s afraid to have dark skin babies, unfortunately for her our genes are strong and even with the mixed kids in our family they came out more like obama and halley than alicia keys. But I also have a friend who looks like a white girl something like faith evan but lighter and she always dies her hair blond not to look like a white girl but because that the style. Anyway a guy was trying to ask her out, flirted and all everything was cool until he found out she was black it was all bad I just sad its such a shame that racism exist inside our ownselves, but it was funny
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I’m a white male, and as far as I’m concerned, “pussy is pussy.” My spouse is Hispanic. I’ve dated black girls, Asian girls, white girls, Native American girls,Hispanic girls. It’s fun dating a person of another race. It’s also great to copulate with them.
Human is human, after all.
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I don’t know if all or most men think a woman is about nothing more than just “p”, as yorkiedad stated his post.
I can only hope that ANY woman who comes across a man who makes that sort of comment will quickly turn the other way and RUNNNNNNNNNN!!!
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Comment by sadheart777 Lee on 16 May 2010:
“Now to end this with this I pray I would find another like the lady I had who is not into money power greed and who would love me for what and who I am as a poor white man with a heart if there is such a woman out there write me with photos .I live in the Elizabethtown KY now one thing I don’t get into women who are of the big size yes they need love to I just not into it thank you”
There is nothing wrong with a person having a preference of what they want and like, weight etc.
And since you said that, I am sure you will understand if you come across a black woman whose preference is not a “poor white man who lives in a old run down house trailer”
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this guy I kmnow out in calif,
He got married a few month’s ago, but he never talks about his wife, or acts like shes there or talks like hes married to her,
Its always been like some dumb appointment with a client, or business friend,
ive know him for about 16 yrs but , he never act’s like he cares about her,
or even is married to her, Ive never even heard her voice,or talked to her,
he’acts like he’s shamed of her,
or dont want anyone to talk to her out of jelosy or whatwever,
I know one thing if i was married to a nice lady, id be on her like a chicken on a june bug,
Id be kissing her in public and showing her I care about her to people, and hugging her in public,
and even making love to her on the beach in public if they didnt like it tough,
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Im tired of this so called selfish or arrogance attitude, where the hubby dont talk to his wife and love on her, and he dont do anything to help her,
If a guy does this she wont be there very long and she;ll look for someone else,
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