Swirling and all that comes with it

Posted by Jordan, 25 Aug 13

"Swirling". That's what she dubbed interracial relationships. And some people usually have it rough because of the negative pressure they receive from family and friends.

Well, if you are in an interracial relationship or looking to be in one, Christelyn D. Karazin is the right person to give you the dish on this hot topic because: Firstly, she has been in an interracial marriage with a white guy for over 11 years (still is) and together they have four kids. Secondly, she is the co-author of "Swirling: How to Date, Mate and Relate, Mixing Race, Culture and Creed," and last but not least: she runs a very popular interracial relationships blog called Beyond Black & White

In this episode she talks about:

Your perfect partner could be online right now...

What are you looking for?

  • Overcoming preconceived notions about the dating preferences of women outside your racial and/or ethnic group
  • How to reference racial differences without sounding like a douchebag
  • Dealing with external pressure about interracial relationships
  • Understanding cultural difference when flirting and making overtures
  • Top ten turn-offs that men new to interracial dating do
  • Why you need to understand and recognize body language cues, in order to date interracially with success
  • Why being a "people pleaser" can kill your chances with women of color
  • How to become more culturally aware and why this could save your relationship

She has done it! You can do it. Listen to the advice she dishes out about having successful interracial relationships... based on her own success.

Jordan Harbinger is a Wall Street lawyer turned Social Dynamics expert and coach. He is the co-founder of The Art of Charm, a dating and relationships coaching company. If you're interested in The Art of Charm residential programs, apply for a strategy call with a coach. You can also interact with Jordan on Facebook or Twitter.

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  1.   lovingstar says:
    Posted: 12 Oct 13

    I actually bought this book for my kindle. I haven't gotten around to reading it just yet but I am definitely looking forward it, I just need to make the time. In any case, I'll let you guys know of my comments after I've read it.

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