Comments on: Relocating for love http://www.interracialdatingcentral.com/fyooz/relocating-for-love/ The community that fuses fun and romance Wed, 08 Feb 2012 06:59:05 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1.3 By: fkoi http://www.interracialdatingcentral.com/fyooz/relocating-for-love/comment-page-1/#comment-28325 fkoi Fri, 02 Apr 2010 18:02:13 +0000 /fyooz/relocating-for-love.htm#comment-28325 Right SWF68, forever is a long piece of time. However, as Davy Crockett said, "Be always sure you’re right—then go ahead!” Then, accept the consequences (which can be rewards) of your decision. Who knows? You might find, as Morninflower did, that the changes overall are worth the risk. Right SWF68, forever is a long piece of time. However, as Davy Crockett said, “Be always sure you’re right—then go ahead!” Then, accept the consequences (which can be rewards) of your decision. Who knows? You might find, as Morninflower did, that the changes overall are worth the risk.

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]]> By: blahblahblah726 http://www.interracialdatingcentral.com/fyooz/relocating-for-love/comment-page-1/#comment-28324 blahblahblah726 Thu, 03 Dec 2009 10:24:31 +0000 /fyooz/relocating-for-love.htm#comment-28324 people move for jobs all the time. why not for love too? people move for jobs all the time. why not for love too?

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]]> By: pretty http://www.interracialdatingcentral.com/fyooz/relocating-for-love/comment-page-1/#comment-28323 pretty Fri, 23 Oct 2009 12:47:07 +0000 /fyooz/relocating-for-love.htm#comment-28323 Kindly link me up with a white man.i am black myself but i ve never been happy with black men and may never be Kindly link me up with a white man.i am black myself but i ve never been happy with black men and may never be

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]]> By: fire321 http://www.interracialdatingcentral.com/fyooz/relocating-for-love/comment-page-1/#comment-28322 fire321 Sun, 26 Jul 2009 22:20:45 +0000 /fyooz/relocating-for-love.htm#comment-28322 I have mixed feelings about this because I'm a firm believer in "you need to spend a fair amount of time together to really KNOW who you're dealing with". If you think about it, there are a lot of people online that swears there aren't any quality men/women in or near where they live. If that is the case, what makes one believe that they will find it in someone from another state/country? I seems kind of surreal in my opinion....an epidemic...hehe Don't get me wrong, I've made online friendships with several people and it's fine and dandy but that does not mean that I know these people beyond chatting or phone calls. The reality of it is, people can be who and what they want online but you will never really know that person until you can spend time with them and see them outside of the 'net or over the phone. I personally won't uproot my life for someone in another city (let alone state) because my decisions will also effect my children. I have mixed feelings about this because I’m a firm believer in “you need to spend a fair amount of time together to really KNOW who you’re dealing with”.

If you think about it, there are a lot of people online that swears there aren’t any quality men/women in or near where they live. If that is the case, what makes one believe that they will find it in someone from another state/country? I seems kind of surreal in my opinion….an epidemic…hehe

Don’t get me wrong, I’ve made online friendships with several people and it’s fine and dandy but that does not mean that I know these people beyond chatting or phone calls. The reality of it is, people can be who and what they want online but you will never really know that person until you can spend time with them and see them outside of the ‘net or over the phone.

I personally won’t uproot my life for someone in another city (let alone state) because my decisions will also effect my children.

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]]> By: Dating Love http://www.interracialdatingcentral.com/fyooz/relocating-for-love/comment-page-1/#comment-28321 Dating Love Fri, 05 Jun 2009 13:11:03 +0000 /fyooz/relocating-for-love.htm#comment-28321 Hi! Nice. Waiting for more:)) Hi! Nice. Waiting for more:))

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]]> By: Jacob Smith http://www.interracialdatingcentral.com/fyooz/relocating-for-love/comment-page-1/#comment-28320 Jacob Smith Tue, 19 May 2009 03:57:20 +0000 /fyooz/relocating-for-love.htm#comment-28320 Sometimes it is unfortunate that why people we want to love, choose not to love us back. I strongly believe that we all have a match in this word but need to wait until we can get a serious relationship with us and will last. When one attempt to a relationship fails, it simply meant to be. If you are affected with the pain because of the relationship, always remember you can recover it. This could be easily dealt with if only our emotions are not evolved when we start to feel strongly for someone but more often than not ,the heart rules strongly over our head. Sometimes it is unfortunate that why people we want to love, choose not to love us back. I strongly believe that we all have a match in this word but need to wait until we can get a serious relationship with us and will last. When one attempt to a relationship fails, it simply meant to be. If you are affected with the pain because of the relationship, always remember you can recover it. This could be easily dealt with if only our emotions are not evolved when we start to feel strongly for someone but more often than not ,the heart rules strongly over our head.

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]]> By: morninflower http://www.interracialdatingcentral.com/fyooz/relocating-for-love/comment-page-1/#comment-28319 morninflower Thu, 16 Oct 2008 01:14:54 +0000 /fyooz/relocating-for-love.htm#comment-28319 Thanks swf68! :) - I agree with you comments about taking the time to make things work. My ex and I did the long distance thing for a year - and moving felt right and to be honest with you, I would not change anything about the entire experience because in a way, moving changed other aspects of my life especially my education and career :) Thanks swf68! :) – I agree with you comments about taking the time to make things work. My ex and I did the long distance thing for a year – and moving felt right and to be honest with you, I would not change anything about the entire experience because in a way, moving changed other aspects of my life especially my education and career :)

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]]> By: SWF68 http://www.interracialdatingcentral.com/fyooz/relocating-for-love/comment-page-1/#comment-28318 SWF68 Wed, 15 Oct 2008 13:26:44 +0000 /fyooz/relocating-for-love.htm#comment-28318 I have a optimistic outlook... Nothing ventured, Nothing gained. I'm too old to be young & too young to be old. I've given this a great deal of thought. For me, I would do it. However, I wouldn't rush it. I would definately want "us" to take our time getting to know each other, wanting to be together, making plans, setting goals, & learning what it is we both want. I've learned that "forever" can be over tomorrow. There are no guarantees in life. So why not LIVE while we can! "Experience is what you get, when you didn't get what you wanted." But what harm do you do to yourself if you do try? "Morninflower" - you did it! And I applaud you for saying that "things didn't work out". You could have been angry & bitter over it, instead you found the silver lining & stayed anyway... Going into anything with the "I have nothing to lose" attitude usually wins you the day!! I have a optimistic outlook… Nothing ventured, Nothing gained. I’m too old to be young & too young to be old. I’ve given this a great deal of thought. For me, I would do it. However, I wouldn’t rush it. I would definately want “us” to take our time getting to know each other, wanting to be together, making plans, setting goals, & learning what it is we both want.

I’ve learned that “forever” can be over tomorrow. There are no guarantees in life. So why not LIVE while we can!

“Experience is what you get, when you didn’t get what you wanted.” But what harm do you do to yourself if you do try? “Morninflower” – you did it! And I applaud you for saying that “things didn’t work out”. You could have been angry & bitter over it, instead you found the silver lining & stayed anyway… Going into anything with the “I have nothing to lose” attitude usually wins you the day!!

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]]> By: morninflower http://www.interracialdatingcentral.com/fyooz/relocating-for-love/comment-page-1/#comment-28317 morninflower Wed, 15 Oct 2008 03:10:25 +0000 /fyooz/relocating-for-love.htm#comment-28317 Been there done that! - things did not work out..but thank God I chose a great city! :) :)! lol!Would I do it again..? probably not but then again love makes us do strange things :) Been there done that! – things did not work out..but thank God I chose a great city! :) :) ! lol!Would I do it again..? probably not but then again love makes us do strange things :)

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]]> By: Daria22 http://www.interracialdatingcentral.com/fyooz/relocating-for-love/comment-page-1/#comment-28316 Daria22 Wed, 02 Apr 2008 06:44:54 +0000 /fyooz/relocating-for-love.htm#comment-28316 I can't imagine doing it but I'm not dead-set against it. Love can't conquer all and if I'm going to be unhappy as a result, I'd hope that my partner would weigh that heavily. You can't have a good relationship if one person is miserable. I can’t imagine doing it but I’m not dead-set against it. Love can’t conquer all and if I’m going to be unhappy as a result, I’d hope that my partner would weigh that heavily. You can’t have a good relationship if one person is miserable.

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