How to talk to men online
So he's really cute and he sent you a flirt now....
Here's your chance to not be shy! Even if you can't do this in real life, use this as an opportunity to stretch your comfort zones and let your hair down a little. Let yourself go! But don't do anything you don't want to do! You have to be able to respect yourself in the morning.
Even if you know where you want to go -- go slow! If you rush through the courtship stages, not only do you cheat yourself of the romance and the thrill of the chase, but it may be very difficult to gain the sense of romance once you have gone too far. It is better to go slow than to fall too soon, too fast. Going all the way on your first or second date may cause your cyber-relationship to crash and burn.
Your perfect partner could be online right now...
What are you looking for?
Most men are very tactile. They want you to connect the dots and show them what is going on. They need to have a visual, which is why they often ask what are you wearing, what your vital statistics are and even your bra size! Many women, on the other hand, want to be seduced with words and descriptions of sensations. With a man you have to describe something you are doing, something he can see or visually imagine. To type "I am running my hand through your hair" appeals to all three of his senses (sight, sound, touch).
You may be wondering about taking it to the next level of reality. Assuming that you are both single and available, you may be curious to speak on the phone or even meet in person. WARNING: Are you willing to let go of a fantasy in order to have a real life experience? If the answer is yes, and you are willing to accept any possible outcome, then you know what you need to do next. Call him! If it goes well, get on an airplane, catch a bus, ride that train!!! But be honest with yourself. Ensure you are ready, willing and able to face the fact that the person you have been imagining and created in your mind is different from the living, breathing, real man you are likely to meet.
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