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No frogs! Lemme just have the prince instead.

Posted by Ria, 05 Mar

“Men are like parking spaces᾿ they say. But how are they when I know many hot, single women with no potential (or suitable) ‘parking space’ in sight? Why are the cards stack vehemently against us?

They say a person stumbles across love when they're not looking. (Where do they get this stuff? :roll: ) News flash: I wasn’t looking when some dude the other day asked me if I was interested in some CFA (Convenient BEEEEEP! Arrangement.) No woman ‘looks’ to be told she has some fine a** and whether she wants it tapped.

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And in my not looking, the above are the things I stumble across. Is this what I should look forward to in all of my ‘not looking’? – GOD!!! I hope NOT!!! Well, I think I need to start looking so as not to be bothered by these freakish encounters.

So this old adage says we need to kiss many frogs before finding the prince! But if these freakish propositions are what you get for not looking, then who can manage to get past the lame first impression in order to kiss that frog? How then will I get to kissing my prince?

So I need to ask this very pondering question: Are single women selectively single, or have they just run out of options?

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  1.   EnglishLP says:
    Posted: 05 Feb 09

    WARNING: THE MAN I MET WAS NOT THE SAME AS HIS PICTURE! Ladies, I met what I thought could be a Prince but never mind being a Frog he was a Toad !!! 'will12' was georgeous looking on the site and charming on emails and telephone calls but when I met him he was nothing like his photo and NOT the same man. So Ladies how do we protect ourselves against this type of cheat ? I look forward to your comments. English LP

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  2.   SnazzyBella says:
    Posted: 17 Nov 08

    Again, I say DON'T kiss frogs. Your prince might walk by and see u kissing that frog. Said prince could puke in his mouth and keep walking. I certainly notice the froggettes kissing the prince. I quietly puke, cover myself in GermX and slip right on by.

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  3.   salsera77 says:
    Posted: 05 Oct 08

    Use your intuition. When your intuition tells you that this frog is not a match and you tell him "It's not a match".... then he proceeds to spew racial stereotypes at you.... well that's how you know what a frog smells like looks like, thinks like, acts like and what he wallows around in. Actually that dude gives frogs a bad name. Yuck!!!!

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  4.   nesha86 says:
    Posted: 13 Apr 08

    I am selectively single and I think the reason that so many women are is because they want to be sure they've found the right man before they give up the single life. No one wants to jump into anything without being sure they're making the right decision.

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  5.   lovely2see says:
    Posted: 01 Apr 08

    It would make life a whole lot easier to just cut to the chase but I'm sure there's some philosophical reason that would effect the balance of nature if life were that simple.

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  6.   cocokisses says:
    Posted: 20 Mar 08

    Look ladies,if he kisses like a freaking frog, you should be outta there! By the way, how do y'all know what a frog kiss feels like anyway??? EEEWWWW!!!!!

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  7.   HereIamBaby says:
    Posted: 12 Mar 08

    PLEASE NO MORE FROGS!

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  8.   outpass35 says:
    Posted: 11 Mar 08

    I agree with Jeff love should have no boundary, I had my dad say that years ago when I first got married He mad the comment what do you see in this guy it not the fact that he was white he did not think he look good at all, but to me none of that matter to me he was my prince and that all that had matter. My dad said to me you have a heart of gold to look past what a person look like, where they come from, and how much money they have because my ex husband had none of the above and he was just beautiful in my eyes. It was when he started making over himself is when I started looking lie a frog Princess.

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  9.   Jeff says:
    Posted: 11 Mar 08

    Brings to mind lines from Jackson Brown's song "In the Shape of a Heart", which are... "People speak of love, don't know what their thinking of...wait around for the one who fits just like a glove..." C'mon folks...saintlyness has NOTHING to do with anyone presently on this earth and in a sense we-male and female-are all much part "frog". Show me someone who "doesn't have baggage" as so many ask for and I'll show you someone who has never left their house. Live, even just a little, and you'll have the smiles and the scars to show for it, most of which will never, never, ever go away so long as you live. We are all angels and scoundrels to some extent--as I've heard, every cop is a criminal, and all the sinners, saints, just as head is tails....the dividing line between good and evil-beauty and ugliness-kindness and cruelty- runs through the heart of all of us. Let love into your heart by, in part, being realistic about the nature of human beings, including yourself. How's that for heavy?:) Love comes to those who seek it-Jim Morrison. Jeffrey

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  10.   outpass35 says:
    Posted: 10 Mar 08

    I still say to each it own but I like my Frog prince.

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  11.   fala says:
    Posted: 09 Mar 08

    LOL@HarlemBaby ;-)

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  12.   HereIamBaby says:
    Posted: 08 Mar 08

    Snazzy Bella... Don't let Kermit the Frog hear you say that...that frog rocks! Ask Miss Piggy if you don't believe me... Now that is interracial dating! Southern smiles, Sharon

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  13.   SnazzyBella says:
    Posted: 07 Mar 08

    okay i don't go around kissing frogs, period. I have specific criteria that i don't change because i want a prince. I value myself and act like princess, so when the real princess comes along i am ready

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  14.   zenjester says:
    Posted: 07 Mar 08

    rrribbit... rrrribbit

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  15.   fala says:
    Posted: 07 Mar 08

    AR Blog's got a new look!

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  16.   fala says:
    Posted: 06 Mar 08

    I'm with HarlemBaby - just give me the prince. Frog kisses are pretty gross anyway!

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  17.   outpass35 says:
    Posted: 05 Mar 08

    Sometime people feels that the biggest smiles and the beauty outside counts yes to some I have dated the good looking guy, the guy with money and business all that is well to but then I came to realized all that means more to them then the woman in front of them I prized myself that I am independent not overly but I can stand my own. Most guys now that I meet or see around they will look at a woman body. I have gotten the nice legs and ass comment but there is more to a woman than just apperance like what they have working upstairs a man don't have to have everythig in common with me but something we can talk about. Have something where it would make me not want to work 7 days a weeks for a 12 hour a day. But in my case I would take the frog Prince looks are not gold or written in stone.

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  18.   HereIamBaby says:
    Posted: 05 Mar 08

    I know that there are princes out there...but I am tired of frog lips! LOL I want PRINCE lips! Big juicy ones! Day dreaming again... OH well...back to the drawing board... Southern smiles, Sharon

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  19.   ethereal99 says:
    Posted: 05 Mar 08

    Women are selectively single & waiting for the right connection. I believe they are smart in doing so , rather then getting caught up in a relationship that isn't right. Why waste a lot of time, energy, & emotions unless it feels like the right person for you. Yes, love can grow in time & people can become more appealing as you get to know them. There are a lot of options & we should all try to chat, meet, or somehow connect with several prospective partners if we are serious about meeting "the one". You will probably meet some nice people along the way. Unfortunately, there are idiots & perverts ou there too. Just ignore them! If you get a good vibe from someone, then keep it going & see where it leads.

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  20.   tigerlilies says:
    Posted: 05 Mar 08

    I think the kissing frogs analogy really means that in the dating process, every person you find isn't going to be the one that you want to marry. Too many people get bogged down on the wrong person because they're thinking: 'this could be it'. So, a year later they find out that they person isn't a good fit, but they could've been getting to know other people if they hadn't put all their focus on just one person. You've got to learn to shift through the shit and the only way to do that is by learning about different personalities and which suits you. That aside I think people spend too much time on the trivial stuff: what movie, music, food do you like versus what motivates you, what do you want out of life, how do you spend your money, what does family mean, where do you stand politically. They just hop into a relationship or bed based on crap. The real question is: If he looks like a frog, goes that mean he isn't really a prince? And if he looks like a prince, then your dust of the shit, what if he's really a frog?

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