Ever heard one of your pals saying they don't have time for a full time relationship? This is our world. People are so absorbed by working to an extent of not having time to feed the soul. But funny enough many career-minded individuals still want physical relationships… you know, those steamy sexual encounters that have no drama and frustrations that come with relationships. It has become a syndrome now. Most young men and women alike don’t want commitment.
The problem is some of us get into these CFAs (Convenient Fucking Arrangements) only to get attached to someone who made it clear from the did ‘sex’ that that is all they want. So what are you supposed to do then? Sit and pray to the gods that he will fall in love eventually?
Nothing against the ladies but it so happens that most women, after months of having a CFA with a dude end up getting attached. And when the dude refuses to commit, then they feel betrayed. These CFAs aren’t healthy coz when the dude doesn’t feel that connection, then you end up seeing yourself as just a ‘sperm pit’.
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The best advice is that if its sex you want, then better have it once and ruuuuuuuunnnnnnnn!!!!!!! When hunger strikes again, go hunting for a different dude. That way, you will be assured of no attachment forming. Am I encouraging promiscuity? It all depends on how we look at it. But hey am just trying to be realistic here.
Wonder what name we can come up with for it besides commitmentphobia. Amuse me people.
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