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Is Your Picture Perfect?

Posted by Leticia, 26 Jul 10

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  1.   Jguitarist says:
    Posted: 21 Apr 11

    the vids at first seamed like a joke... but honestly they are right. the vids are right about the meaning. its like kids learning videos lol..

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  2.   lvdee says:
    Posted: 17 Dec 10

    I really enjoy all these videos and the point they make in a behind the scene way. How many people have you met and wonder where did they get that photo that's online or why show how you looked 20years ago?? Didn't know you then and you don't look that way now so whats the point. Use current photos - we're gonna see what you really look like if we meet anyway --don't need a shock factor LOL

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  3.   Honeymare says:
    Posted: 13 Nov 10

    These videos are cute and FUNNY and gives good advice. Hats off.

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  4.   serenity33 says:
    Posted: 18 Oct 10

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    • Sanguine says:
      Posted: 13 Nov 10

      Adding my 2 cents, lol So really haven't read your comments because they are all HIDDEN. . .wonder why(?) Well, not really that's why I haven't read them. The answers you are generating sort of gives me an idea. I want to ask you a question. . .Suppose you cut out your face in your photo and place in a females leaving everything else as it is. Would you write to her? Would you take her on a date? Funny you mention models. . .must mean you look out for the 'ideal' for yourself but do not choose to return that kind favor by making yourself the ideal. These vidos are for those who are serious about making a connection with another human being. This requires an amount of unselfishness and humility. This requires the inner introspection to make the 'cut.' These skills are required in every endevor of life, from entering the right college or getting the right job. It is refreshing to see that in the videos there is a teacher who is funny and entertaining while getting the lessons across. To demean them only shows one or maybe all of three things: that you are not serious about your search for Ms right, that you are too afraid to try, or that you are too selfish to care about pleasing another person. I see no 'serenity' here at all. . .

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  5.   serenity33 says:
    Posted: 15 Oct 10

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  6.   kissime says:
    Posted: 14 Oct 10

    I'm very attracted to "NERDS" Intellectual stimulation is highly pleasing. Not saying only a "nerd" can stimulate the mind. But there's just something about a nerd that's just captivating to me.

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    • serenity33 says:
      Posted: 15 Oct 10

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  7.   kissime says:
    Posted: 12 Oct 10

    Serenity33 has written. Bydee.. Bydee... Bydee... That's all folks!!!

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  8.   kissime says:
    Posted: 12 Oct 10

    Okay, Serenity33. Study, counseled, and even dated a model means you know them all-because they are all the same. Right?

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    • serenity33 says:
      Posted: 15 Oct 10

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    • serenity33 says:
      Posted: 26 Oct 10

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  9.   kissime says:
    Posted: 09 Oct 10

    serenity33 you would know of everyone's life including model types because? Oh, let me guess, you've counseled them all, right? And according to your expertise I should get counseling because I sometimes wear red lipstick when my day is a little gloomy, right?

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    • serenity33 says:
      Posted: 23 Oct 10

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  10.   JimShorts says:
    Posted: 20 Sep 10

    Who conceives these tongue-in-cheek shows? They tend to be humerous while making a subliminal point.

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    • serenity33 says:
      Posted: 23 Oct 10

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  11.   kissime says:
    Posted: 20 Sep 10

    Serenity33, I think your comments are truly sincere. But you need to lighten up. Do you not notice most of your comments are hidden? We all know beauty is within. But there is nothing wrong with working on the outside as well. There is nothing wrong about being the best you can be. I know some days when my heart aches for whatever reason-- the brightest red lipstick sure place a smile on my face...yes it may be temporary, but I'd much rather do that than indulge in food, drugs & alcohol. I know that getting on the cross trainer @ the gym also helps me breath better and keeps me happy longer. Nothing is wrong with normal pictures. But nothing is wrong about making yourself feel good as long as you're not hurting anyone's feelings. I know you're for the average, so am I. But while you're uplifting the "average" you seem to also be kicking what you may believe are the "model type" I'm sure life is not always peachy for them as well.

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    • serenity33 says:
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  12. Posted: 30 Aug 10

    Funny video!

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    • serenity33 says:
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  13.   serenity33 says:
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  14.   Flawlessme says:
    Posted: 29 Aug 10

    The picture needs to be perfect. Perfect in the sense that it shows how you really look at the same time speak volumes about who you really are inside. If your description says adventurous, then the perfect picture should capture this. Lovely video

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  15. Posted: 29 Aug 10

    The video was a parody, a tongue-in-cheek, comical, humorous take. It has no basis in fact. It was not intended to be anything but funny.

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    • serenity33 says:
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  16.   Jan says:
    Posted: 29 Aug 10

    It is like when one goes for a job interview u put your best foot forward. U don't go in looking untidy as when u just rolled out of bed, while meeting your Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs: Self-actualization, Esteem, Love and Belonging, and more. No? Your best representation is still the true u, u just showing your drive for success.

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  18. Posted: 28 Aug 10

    The video was delightfully funny and tongue-in-cheek!

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  19.   serenity33 says:
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  20. Posted: 27 Aug 10

    I have to comment that this is a terrific series of comical videos on the topic of dating. Truly humorous!

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  21.   serenity33 says:
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