Is sex really natural?
Here is something to think about: why is it that the most fascinating subject known to mankind is the most difficult for a couple to talk about?
Most people believe that sex is natural… some say it’s as natural as breathing hence they see no need to discuss it. Why should you bother discussing it… after all, anything as natural as sex should just occur spontaneously, without any planning or discussions.
Well, the above notion is quite true to some point… as long as everything functions as it should. So what will happen when you and your better half encounter some malfunction?
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Most couples fall into the trap of believing that your partner should be sensitive enough to meet all your sexual desires without having to be guided. So how is one supposed know what you like or want? Unless you tell me your partner has a PhD in mind reading. :lol:
There was a time a lady friend of mine told me that she does not see why she should tell her husband what makes her tick in bed. “We’ve been married for 12 f**king years. If he does not know by now, then he never will᾿. She also said she fears that once she tells him, then things won’t be the same. “I want him to do it because he loves me᾿.
So what’s love got to do with leaving her husband in the dark regarding her sexual preferences because of her belief in his mind reading prowess? And definitely if her husband fails to read her mind correctly he will be labeled unloving, selfish and inconsiderate.
Is this really fair? Most people don’t sense the need to talk about sex, or are uncomfortable or feel that talking about sex isn’t romantic. I think if you want to have superior sex, then you are going to have to make known your sexual desires. Talk with each other about your desires. Or would you rather sentence yourself to years of bad sex because you think sex is natural?
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