Comments on: Interracial Dating – White woman’s perspective

By: juan

juan — Thu, 29 Jul 2010 15:53:16 +0000

I am a guy, with Spanish and African roots (2 generations back). I personally think white women are overrated and get far too much credit for what they are. Blond hair? Big deal. White skin? heh… science has shown that people with white skin have more errors in their genes. Slap in the face to all the so called sexy white women. White women are done, it’s black women’s turn to shine.

It’s time the world realizes black women are growing, and that they’re not as stupid as every inbred white woman out there thinks. I think White women are evil down to the fucking bones, whereas black women aren’t. Black women will stay sexy and smart for years, whereas white women age faster and become inept to insecurities. I meet black women everyday that will look me in the eye and hold a conversation. I meet white women that I can tell are only thinking “alright, another catch, how do I get this one”.

Besides, black women are rough and they don’t take shit from nobody,

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By: Eddie

Eddie — Thu, 29 Jul 2010 05:20:03 +0000

this comment is for dark skinned woman dont think that light skinned women get more play then dark skinned women. ive seen some dark skin women that look ten times better than light skinned womenand vice versa .all you women are beautiful. i like both flavors vanilla and chocolate. bottom line its what type of person you are thats all, and if someone tells you i prefer white women ignore them there just idiots

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By: Eddie

Eddie — Thu, 29 Jul 2010 05:07:03 +0000

this comment is for lamo you should raise your kids to the best of your abilty and if he dosent do anything for those kids hes not there father alot of people think that just because u give birth to a child or u plant the seed that means he/she is your child thats bull .a person has to take care of that child and earn his or her title . from what i read it seems to me like your the mother and the father. dont give up. raise your kids to be the best they can be so when they grow up theyll know what a good mother/slash father they have and if you ever meet someone else that is a good man, he will be the father of your children.Oh and one more thing black woman white woman its the same.what makes us different is how were raised and how we naturally are. do the world a favor and burn the race card cus its 2010 we have see have to think outside of the box if martin luther king were here we probably wouldnt be living like this.ask someone that u believe is a different race and ask them if they have 10 toes 10 fingers a heart lungs kidneys etc. were all same . god bless u and god bless your children

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By: Eddie

Eddie — Thu, 29 Jul 2010 04:52:38 +0000

if you ask me white black yellow its all the same thing personality is what makes people different not skin color race dosent exist its a social construct dating a so called black woamn or black guy or dating a white guy or woman dosent make a difference its different personalities everything in this country is about race,race this race that were all from the same planet we are human beings thats it. you guys should look up race in the wikipedia and learn something. culture is really the only thing different that we have and thats because we live in different regions of the world where certain crops grow in one area and in other places theres different foods different customs but we are all homo saipiens when i here people say interracial dating marriage it really pisses me off sorry this is y im writing this because people can be so ignorant 2010 and we still havent figured out that were the same. we have to look a little different if we all looked the same life would be boring we have beautiful dark skinned women and beautiful light skinned women we have the same organ we reproduce with each other so why do we keep dividing ourselves into groups and catagories we need another martin luther king to show people the way im sorry i know this is off the topic but i just had to let that out i hate the way the world and by the world i especially mean the United states they are mostly responsible for dividing people into different races and i really hate it we all came from the same source, struck from the same mold i f you guys think that what im saying is wrong let me know but write down a list of similarities and differences that people have and see if im wrong i how is it that people who arent even related have the same blood type and when someone needs an organ donation someone who was an organ donor who ever that person is saves that other strangers life think about that.Regardless of what so called “race” They are

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By: lmao

lmao — Sun, 18 Jul 2010 21:54:24 +0000

lmao..all of you are crazy. at the end of the day there is a reason why people go to another race of people to date. i have 3 children with a black man who loves white women. i take care of our children by myself his white women knows this, he dont support his children and he didnt pay my bills while he was living with me. i paid all the bills. but he was at my house with his white womans car..lolol..she pays all the bills at her house as well but he as told me we can have a beautiful relationship if i could learn to shut up and sit down and be more like his white woman.yes i yell because you didnt bring diapers for your child like you promised.yes i get inyour face because you were suppose to pay the light bill and now your children and i are in the damn dark..so if you white woman doesnt mind moving from place to place and having no utilities that is her. and from my observation most black men who have white women regardless of their economic background the women do things that a black woman wont. i have been with him for seven years and so has she…lololol and she knows i have three children with him which were concieved while he was with her. he calls me from her phone,has video chat with his children from her computer he thinks i dont know but i do.and when her and i did have a convo at her damn choosing she thought i was a liar until i emailed her the damn proof.i love him with all my heart and soul but like i told her he doesnt belong to either of us or anyone else he belongs to himself. he also has a wife he is separated from who gives him money(shes white) and two kids by his ex-wife whom he doesnt take care of either they are 17 and 18yrs old(she is white as well). My point basically is a black man dates a white woman because she puts up with shit that a black woman wont. and black men equates that with love.by the way our children are 4,3,2..i am with him because i love him and he does provide emotional support to his children if nothing else. he encourages me to be the best i can be and tells me im the best mother in the world to his children. HE DOES NOT LIVE WITH ME.. in fact we live in two different states. he moved to the state with his white woman. do i care HELL NO cuz she is the idiot. he cant live with me and not financially provide for his family. he is sexy and terrific in the bedroom but his bad qualities override his good qualities.

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By: eshowoman

eshowoman — Sat, 03 Jul 2010 21:58:22 +0000

“I certainly know that dating outside you race is not a form of merit or social status!!!!”
For many black men it is.

“why should it bother us who black men date?”
I don’t care who they date, if they would shut the hell up. The predominant narrative is “I date white women because black woman are…..insert defamation,put downs, hateration”

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By: Jenna

Jenna — Fri, 02 Jul 2010 01:17:14 +0000

@eshowoman
You misunderstood what I meant,I certainly know that dating outside you race is not a form of merit or social status!!!!
Look bottom line black women are strong, why should it bother us who black men date? Can we only find happiness if our mate is black like us? That is all I am asking.
So there was no need to hurl insults,I am not mad at you.

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By: eshowoman

eshowoman — Thu, 01 Jul 2010 22:11:43 +0000

@Jenna
You understood.
“not too long blacks weren’t even considered worth dating by other races,”
How arrogant and ignorant, as if dating outside of your race is some form of higher civilization. Date who you want but don’t make the fact that black women are increasingly alone a sign of progress!

I was explaining how white women are oblivious of their racially gendered privilege. I does hurt that black men put us down and a greater amount of black men chase after white women with abandon. Black men are on this site in droves getting their white girl on and black women are largely ignored. We go on and find rich, fulfilling lives despite the hate, so don’t feel sorry for us.

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By: Jenna

Jenna — Thu, 01 Jul 2010 11:54:19 +0000

@eshowoman
Please don’t make it sound like all black women, feel dejected and hurt because ‘Some’ black men prefer white women! I too have preferences,I do not grieve or feel hurt at my own race of men when they date or marry outside their race.
I am proud of these turn of events, not too long blacks weren’t even considered worth dating by other races,if that was still the case,I certainly would not have been born. My dad is black but my mom isn’t!
If I have misunderstood your statement however,I stand to be corrected!

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By: eshowoman

eshowoman — Wed, 30 Jun 2010 04:16:27 +0000

It amazing that none of these white women will admit that they are on a pedestal as the ideal of femininity.
They never seem to see the advantage they have or seem oblivious of the hate and put downs that black women have to face everyday. Black men out marry at are rate 2 1/2 times that of black women yet white women don’t even think of the centuries that they have been protected while black women were defiled. I have a question for the white women this blog. If it is just about “love” explain to me how I and my black sisters have become less lovable in the past few decades?

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