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It is a long held spiritual axiom that if I am upset, I need to look at myself. I’m not but I still do.

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I have been doing alot of soul searching lately,i need to find out if i am attracted to white women for the wrong reasons,also find out if i am holding something agaist black women,that is very unfair.

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I never do anything wrong. You are right. My questions seem to be inflammatory to those who think “they know me”. You said this comment……

“Since you don’t know me personally, it seems a little premature, and irresponsible of you to assume that I dance around a subject.. If and when I have something to say, I say it.. I say what I mean and I mean what I say! True some people here has expressed their fondness of me, and I to them.”

So what makes you think you know me? I never said I knew you personally. You made comments as to insinuate that I make “hate” comments. People that know me personally know I am guy with a sense of humor. I think you got on the bandwagon and assumed things about me.

Anything I talk about, I tend to back them up. If I call a woman derogatory name I maybe sarcastic or I actually feel that what she is. There are whores in the black community. There are nappy headed black women in the black community that bash black men.

I don’t have that need or desire to please people like you. You said that you have ‘friends”. That does not mean you can around and assume things about people you don’t agree with.

I don’t tell you your evil or anything like that. If you are going to preach to people. Practice what you preach with EVERYBODY.

I treat people with dignity and respect. But do not insult my intelligence. I got voice my opinion the Scoff and Sara story. That is my right just like other did. Where does it say I have to be respectful about it.

That is just bullshit talk to limit my speech because you do not “personally” like me. I may not like half the people here but I never tell them “talk in this manner”. I could do that but you know that is being fake.

I hate your guts but let me be polite about it. Give me a break. For the record, I don’t hate anybody. I like debating an issue. Everybody else gets into the petty stuff like “have manners please”.

What your marriage has to do with this topic anyway?

We have a difference of opinion in scripture too. Jesus showed his wrath in the bible by kicking out gamblers out of his “father’s house”. There is this perception that Jesus turned the other cheek on “everything”. For example, he never said don’t kill Mary for being an adulteress. He said “those without sin cast the first stone”.

I comprehend very well Mrs Godiva. Get off your high horse.

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What I said to 85kguy is a matter of public record, that being said, anyone and everyone can go back and read what I have already written… Your perception of what I was saying to him, is a matter of your reading comprehension skills.. As far as I am concerned, the verbal exchange between him and I was last week, it’s over, he has moved on and so have I, and I have no ill will toward’s him, he is still my brother and it’s a brand new day..

I am not the FIRST to tell you about your inappropiate comments, and I’m sure that I won’t be the last, of course it’s all a lie because you NEVER do anything wrong.. You have always behaved in a most honorable, noble and gentlemen like manner..

As far as scoff/sarah account of their life, is fake or not, that is a matter of opinion, and you know what they say about opinion’s?

Fire321 comments to scoff/sarah was what she wanted to say and how she felt, as it should be.. The reason why she was not maligned by other’s was because she was not mean spirited or disrespectful, that’s the difference and the example of how to be honest, without being disrespectful..

I approach this site and the people on it in the exact manner as I do in my personal life.. Which means that I try and treat people in the same manner in which I want to be treated, no more, no less… I was taught to have manners, and respect for people.. I may not agree with everything that people say, but I have no right to treat them badly just because they have a difference of opinion.

Since you don’t know me personally, it seems a little premature, and irresponsible of you to assume that I dance around a subject.. If and when I have something to say, I say it.. I say what I mean and I mean what I say! True some people here has expressed their fondness of me, and I to them.
From where I’m sitting being liked is NOT a bad thing!! For those who like me, that’s fine and for those who don’t, well that’s fine to.. My way of interracting with people is, my way, the way that I am accustomed to and so far it has worked well for my life…. The reason why I take great strides to treating people with dignity and respect is for this main reason, which is ‘I know without any doubt, that one day I am going to be held accountable for every word that comes out of my mouth, and for every deed’.. Also I think it’s more productive to be pro active instead of being reactive.

Ghetto girls, men who are imprisioned, people that are blind, bound to a wheel chair, the poor, the sick, the elderly, are ALL my brothers and sisters. Most people that live in the ghetto, do not want to be there, however because of their economic situation, they can only afford to live in the ghetto. I am blessed to never had to live in the ghetto, or live in one now, but I can not and will not look down on the one’s who haven’t had the opportunities and means as I have. Just because a young woman, ghetto girls as you say, has not had a positive or nurturing influence on their life in order to act like a lady, yes they still are my sisters.. The only thing that I can do for them is pray for them, and if and when I get the opportunity to make a difference in their lives, I will do so, because, once again, I am going to be held accountable for my deeds one day.!!

Lastly, my official title is “WIDOWED”! Technically I am single, not because I’m desperate, not because I’m incapable of having a loving healthy relationship, it’s becasue “to death do us apart”! This was not my will, but the will of GOD!
When God Blessed me with him, HE can an will do it again if he so desires. I just have to ask, believe, wait with patience, grace and dignity, and all the while, act in a manner that is pleasing to HIM, this includes treating people in the way HE wants me to treat them.. If I’m not grateful, and thankful for what and who I have in my life at this moment, He will not Bless me to go the next level…

godiva

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It went from Klan member, to I spread “hate”. Now they are calling for the blog authorities over my “words”. You really can just shut off your computer if you don’t like the difference of opinion on this board. Let me address godiva. You basically told 85k guy that you want to believe a fake story so please don’t comment.

You can sugarcoat it and that is fine. We all know you avoid confrontation because you want to “please” everyone. You mention I make vile comments and imply I am all these bad things. Stop dancing around things and say what you really feel.

I have the right to say the novel is “fishy”. 85k guy said way more than me on the subject concerning the time period and “when” this happened. You hardly said anything. You sort of cowardly in a way. I don’t mind people going against me. You jump on the bandwagon to make yourself look good.

Where was all this tough talk with 85k guy?

As for the nappy headed slut comment. Yea I will call the Hofstra rape liar a nappy headed whore! That is how I feel. I will call you a slut when you let men run a train on you. You got me mixed up with Bill Cosby. I don’t have to be politically correct. You act like they are no sluts in the black community. These same middle class black women will be the first to say “go be with a hood rat”. But got the nerve to reprimand me. Ask a white guy if he dates a black ghetto girl? I wonder if Godiva calls ghetto black girls her sisters too. Stop lying to the public and my fans on my blog.

If you feel your family members are those comments. Then that is how you feel. I point out particular nappy headed women. I say who they are period. I called Tatt a loose booty by NAME. I called Justin Volpe’s black fiancee by name a dumb naive slut. Look for that blog post The Justin Volpe Story lol(Plug). Anyway, back to where I was.

I am listening to responses to topics. I will say how I feel about Scoff and Sara. All I said to them is I don’t believe you was giggle over milkshakes when Bull Conner sicked the dogs on Negros. It was a sarcastic comment. Many people have said things about them. Since I am the loudest you want to come out like I am the bad guy. Where was you when “fire” said “can you post this somewhere else”. You didn’t say shit Godiva. Stop telling people how to be or what to say.

You even tried to tell 85k guy how to feel and what to say. You don’t run this board. Sellout black women think they run this board. White men are rarely speaking on this because you are all overbearing women. God forbid they get into a relationship with you.

I don’t have a problem with Scoff and Sara. They explained the time period and what went on during the 1960s in Alabama. I am perfectly fine with the explanation now.

People name call all the time. They call me a cyber bully and etc. You see me crying and complaining to a moderator. Get to the topic, if you don’t like what is said. You got the freedom to turn off your computer too.

If I don’t like a show or something. I turn the channel.

Stop implying what “Real Men are”. If you knew what “REAL MEN” were you wouldn’t be single and desperate looking for a handout from white men.

Let’s get to the real deal. I am tired of playing games with these women. They want me out the picture because desperation is setting in. Who calls for moderators for words they don’t like? Go to a interracial seminar and stand in line for a white man. Just be productive with your lives.

There is white men right HERE in your face. You worried about what I am saying. That is why sellout black women=fail.

What’s up to all my friends on the board lol.

I AM TIRED OF SPANKING THEM EVERY TIME THEY RESPOND TO ME.

My niece don’t even whine this much.

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In case you don’t know, or can’t remember, what I said to 85kguy, you can, and other’s as well go back and read the EXACT WORDS THAT I WROTE!

Once a person post a comment on here, it’s pretty much a done deal, so there is no need to try and IMPLY to what I said, or anyone else for that matter, including youself.

So for you to sit her and lie about what I said to 85kguy about asking him to allow me to BELIEVE Scoff/Sarah story is a complete falsehood!! I have no reason to believe that they are lying.. My theory about people who lie, that’s between them and GOD!! God does not need me to play monday morning quarterback about anything, icluding people that may or may not be lying!

What I said then, and I will reiterate it once again, ‘whether or not you or anyone else for that matter believes their story is your right to do so. If a person or persons do not want to hear their story, that’s well within their right as well.

However I do not believe then or now that anyone has the right to basically tell them to ‘shut up, or be told know one want’s to hear that S___t, or to be blatantly disrespectful!! There are many IDIOTIC, UNCOUTH, DISRESPECTFUL, MEAN SPIRITED, DEGARDING, AND HUMILIATING COMMENT’S that the MAJORITY, on this site, do not wish to hear, but unfortunately we do.

Just as you have said on many occasion’s, that YOU have the right to speek freely on a public forum, and you do, well his a newsflash, so does everyone else including scoff/sarah have a right to share their story, and according to the free speech rule, they have a right to speak freely, without being persecuted, demeaned, or having some attempt to try and Censor them, such as being told to shut up!

How many people on this site has TRIED to appeal to your HUMANITY, by telling you that you are OFFENSIVE, DEGARDING, AND HUMILIATING with your INFLAMMATORY REMARKS AND NAME CALLING????? Many, women and men has tried to convey that message to you OFTEN!!!! For some reason you refuse to listen or have enough compassion and discipline, to try and begin to accept that your behavior is INNAPROPIATE!! Notice I said ‘your behavior’!

So your points, your statistics, your data is not being debated with you because you can not or will not be civil and it always end up with NAME CALLING!
If people don’t care to discuss the issues that you raise, is because of the way you speak to people!

Control the words, control the dialogue!

What I find so interesting and ironic is this theory of your’s about the reasons you go after black women in your verbal tirades, is because they are putting black men down, but we have witnessed on many occassions, that even the black women who do not or has ever indulged in this style of rhetoric, still receive the same type of treatment. You are denouncing a certain behavior towards black men, and all the while, you are doing the eaxct same thing to black women! I thought bad and immoral behavior was bad regardless of who the perpetrator is..

I have said this before and I will go to my grave saying it, ‘when you call black women nappy headed, sluts, whores and whatever else that has come from your mouth’, it is the EQUIVALENT of calling my mother, my sisters , my family, your family of women these exact same names, remember black women is PLURAL!!! It’s the exact thing when women behave in this manner… Black Men is Plural, so that means you a referring to my Daddy, my late husband, my son, and all the Decent Black Men who do not need to be further insulted with these stereotypes!

I wonder how many REAL MEN would allow you to speak to their wives, their daughter’s, their mother’s in this manner outside of this blog??? They seem to celebrate and explain your behavior here, or at the least look the other way, but I’m wondering how these same men would react if their wife or daughter came home after being verbally attacked??? If it’s not good for home then it sure as hell shouldn’t be here!! I’ve said this before and I will say it again, ‘there is room for improvement in all of us, and that includes yourself’!! Too many people have told you that you are offensive, but either your insecurity, stubborness, or your narcissm will not allow you to even listen and hear what has been said to you over and over again, and since it seems that you wont’ listen, so who in their right mind, would even contemplate having a debate with you??????? In a intelligent and meaningful conversation don’t at some point you have to listen, as well as talk?

godiva

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