Comments on: How to turn that predictable date into an unforgettable escapade http://www.interracialdatingcentral.com/fyooz/how-to-turn-that-predictable-date-into-an-unforgettable-escapade/ The community that fuses fun and romance Thu, 09 Feb 2012 23:28:25 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1.3 By: fire321 http://www.interracialdatingcentral.com/fyooz/how-to-turn-that-predictable-date-into-an-unforgettable-escapade/comment-page-1/#comment-29341 fire321 Wed, 29 Jul 2009 05:34:25 +0000 /fyooz/how-to-turn-that-predictable-date-into-an-unforgettable-escapade.htm#comment-29341 I'm all for being creative and not cliche' on a first date but really...it's a first date. I'm assuming there's been some sort of exchange between both parties prior to setting up the first date. It would be different if it was a blind date and you really don't know what the person is like. I’m all for being creative and not cliche’ on a first date but really…it’s a first date. I’m assuming there’s been some sort of exchange between both parties prior to setting up the first date. It would be different if it was a blind date and you really don’t know what the person is like.

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]]> By: godiva61 http://www.interracialdatingcentral.com/fyooz/how-to-turn-that-predictable-date-into-an-unforgettable-escapade/comment-page-1/#comment-29340 godiva61 Fri, 08 May 2009 19:33:31 +0000 /fyooz/how-to-turn-that-predictable-date-into-an-unforgettable-escapade.htm#comment-29340 To Timbo649, You mentioned that lunch and dinner is not a good first date, is breakfast a bad first date as well? Has all your dates made you feel like you were on an interview? I think dates that don't involve a meal is applicable. You can just have fun and laugh while you're bowling or at a baseball game or at an amusement park. However, I do believe that a date involving a meal can be nice as well. I guess it all comes down to what you are really expecting from a date. I'm curious about something that you said, which was "eating a meal with a stranger is weird", but you also said that "going out to dinner is something you do after sex". Isn't she still a stranger after sex? If you just want sex, just say so. You never know she just might want only sex herself. I don't think women are on this site or any site solely to look for a husband. Having said that, I don't think that women sit around and focus solely on being single, and feeling sorry for themselves, being single is not a bad thing. I would think ending up with the wrong person would be much, much worse! Again I think it's what each of us want on a individual basis. What she's looking for might not be what you are looking for, no big deal or at least it shouldn't be. I wonder why some men are still single? I guess because for all different reasons. For what it's worth not all women are ready or want to be married and most women can go out to eat without having an escort or needing a man to pay for a meal. I make great money, so do my friends, single and married. My best friend makes more money than I do, she's single, straight, almost forty but don't talk to her about settling down and especially having kids. She wants no part in that, but that's her choice. That's what it's all about, an individual choices. If a woman doesn't want to have sex with you, you best believe it has nothing to do with your wining and dining her. Ususally when women first meet you within a few minutes she knows if she is going to sleep with you or not. It may not be that same day, or even in the same week, but trust me she knows!! If for some reason she does change her mind about not sleeping with you, it will have absolutely nothing to do with the physical and masculinity that turned her on from the first moment, it's usually has something to do with something that came out of your mouth. In other word's, sometime men need to just be quiet!! Maybe you should just stick with what you know, which seems to be just a booty call. I'm not judging you, just do what's best and easiest for you! Peace and Love To Timbo649,

You mentioned that lunch and dinner is not a good first date, is breakfast a bad first date as well? Has all your dates made you feel like you were on an interview? I think dates that don’t involve a meal is applicable. You can just have fun and laugh while you’re bowling or at a baseball game or at an amusement park. However, I do believe that a date involving a meal can be nice as well. I guess it all comes down to what you are really expecting from a date. I’m curious about something that you said, which was “eating a meal with a stranger is weird”, but you also said that “going out to dinner is something you do after sex”. Isn’t she still a stranger after sex? If you just want sex, just say so. You never know she just might want only sex herself. I don’t think women are on this site or any site solely to look for a husband. Having said that, I don’t think that women sit around and focus solely on being single, and feeling sorry for themselves, being single is not a bad thing. I would think ending up with the wrong person would be much, much worse! Again I think it’s what each of us want on a individual basis. What she’s looking for might not be what you are looking for, no big deal or at least it shouldn’t be. I wonder why some men are still single? I guess because for all different reasons. For what it’s worth not all women are ready or want to be married and most women can go out to eat without having an escort or needing a man to pay for a meal. I make great money, so do my friends, single and married. My best friend makes more money than I do, she’s single, straight, almost forty but don’t talk to her about settling down and especially having kids. She wants no part in that, but that’s her choice. That’s what it’s all about, an individual choices. If a woman doesn’t want to have sex with you, you best believe it has nothing to do with your wining and dining her. Ususally when women first meet you within a few minutes she knows if she is going to sleep with you or not. It may not be that same day, or even in the same week, but trust me she knows!! If for some reason she does change her mind about not sleeping with you, it will have absolutely nothing to do with the physical and masculinity that turned her on from the first moment, it’s usually has something to do with something that came out of your mouth. In other word’s, sometime men need to just be quiet!! Maybe you should just stick with what you know, which seems to be just a booty call. I’m not judging you, just do what’s best and easiest for you!

Peace and Love

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]]> By: godiva61 http://www.interracialdatingcentral.com/fyooz/how-to-turn-that-predictable-date-into-an-unforgettable-escapade/comment-page-1/#comment-29339 godiva61 Fri, 08 May 2009 18:39:40 +0000 /fyooz/how-to-turn-that-predictable-date-into-an-unforgettable-escapade.htm#comment-29339 To italian_6969, How did the two of you meet? How long had you known her prior to the date? Where did you go? Was this place a mutual agreement, prior to the date? What were your expectations, or did you have any? Was it a really bad date and/or was there not a physical attraction for you? How long did the date last? The one and only bad date that I ever had was when some of the above questions were not discussed prior to the date. He was very attrctive and we both were very pleased in that aspect, but there was no chemistry. He was more country, I was more rock n-roll. I love sports, he didn't. Very nice man, but no chemistry! My idea of a good date is when the man is a gentlemen and you can have a decent, intelligent conversation about anything. He can be gorgeous but if he has little to no communication skills, then I would be bored and his good looks wouldn't matter. You can tell a lot about a man by the way he speaks, especially to women and not just the woman that he happens to be on a date with, but all women. Of course you have to have something in common. Maturity and a Gentlemen is a plus for me!! To italian_6969,

How did the two of you meet? How long had you known her prior to the date? Where did you go? Was this place a mutual agreement, prior to the date? What were your expectations, or did you have any? Was it a really bad date and/or was there not a physical attraction for you? How long did the date last? The one and only bad date that I ever had was when some of the above questions were not discussed prior to the date. He was very attrctive and we both were very pleased in that aspect, but there was no chemistry. He was more country, I was more rock n-roll. I love sports, he didn’t. Very nice man, but no chemistry! My idea of a good date is when the man is a gentlemen and you can have a decent, intelligent conversation about anything. He can be gorgeous but if he has little to no communication skills, then I would be bored and his good looks wouldn’t matter. You can tell a lot about a man by the way he speaks, especially to women and not just the woman that he happens to be on a date with, but all women. Of course you have to have something in common. Maturity and a Gentlemen is a plus for me!!

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]]> By: italian_6969 http://www.interracialdatingcentral.com/fyooz/how-to-turn-that-predictable-date-into-an-unforgettable-escapade/comment-page-1/#comment-29338 italian_6969 Thu, 07 May 2009 22:27:29 +0000 /fyooz/how-to-turn-that-predictable-date-into-an-unforgettable-escapade.htm#comment-29338 i was on one like this like a month ago man you know its bad when your counting the tiles on the floor and you keep checking your cell to see what time it is:( i was on one like this like a month ago man you know its bad when your counting the tiles on the floor and you keep checking your cell to see what time it is:(

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]]> By: Barbeeee http://www.interracialdatingcentral.com/fyooz/how-to-turn-that-predictable-date-into-an-unforgettable-escapade/comment-page-1/#comment-29337 Barbeeee Mon, 27 Apr 2009 22:33:05 +0000 /fyooz/how-to-turn-that-predictable-date-into-an-unforgettable-escapade.htm#comment-29337 I have to appreciate some of your honesty Timbo; however your last statements don't ring true at all. Making love to a woman doesn't erase her personality flaws. The moment you get over the fantasy of being with a woman sexually, all of a sudden, her flaws “reappear” and the reason why you don't want to commit is because of those flaws. Then, that woman walks away feeling used. I have to appreciate some of your honesty Timbo; however your last statements don’t ring true at all. Making love to a woman doesn’t erase her personality flaws. The moment you get over the fantasy of being with a woman sexually, all of a sudden, her flaws “reappear” and the reason why you don’t want to commit is because of those flaws. Then, that woman walks away feeling used.

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]]> By: Timbo649 http://www.interracialdatingcentral.com/fyooz/how-to-turn-that-predictable-date-into-an-unforgettable-escapade/comment-page-1/#comment-29336 Timbo649 Thu, 09 Apr 2009 21:08:06 +0000 /fyooz/how-to-turn-that-predictable-date-into-an-unforgettable-escapade.htm#comment-29336 Well Barbeee, the reason why I say that is because, adimit it, it is a woman's mission in life to get married. And it is a man's mission in life to stay single... and still be able to get laid haha! No seriously, I do not think it is a good idea to make big plans to spend alot of money on a first date off the internet, even if it's dutch, just because you should not invest time and money with someone you dont know yet. She might end up being wierd or a phony bitch or whatever. Worse, she may not ever want to have sex with you. Let's be honest, what a waste of time and money that would be. But if a woman is cool, liberated, nonpretentious, and doesn't resist her natural urge in doing what a man and woman are designed to do together (making love), then all her personality flaws are forgiven, and she actually gains respect in the eyes of the man. When a woman is willing to make love to you without you having to buy her soemthing first, that is the coolest thing. But if she coerces you to buy her dinners and stuff, and she makes you wait for sex just so she can look "respectable", that only earns her disrespect in the long term. Well Barbeee, the reason why I say that is because, adimit it, it is a woman’s mission in life to get married. And it is a man’s mission in life to stay single… and still be able to get laid haha! No seriously, I do not think it is a good idea to make big plans to spend alot of money on a first date off the internet, even if it’s dutch, just because you should not invest time and money with someone you dont know yet. She might end up being wierd or a phony bitch or whatever. Worse, she may not ever want to have sex with you. Let’s be honest, what a waste of time and money that would be. But if a woman is cool, liberated, nonpretentious, and doesn’t resist her natural urge in doing what a man and woman are designed to do together (making love), then all her personality flaws are forgiven, and she actually gains respect in the eyes of the man. When a woman is willing to make love to you without you having to buy her soemthing first, that is the coolest thing. But if she coerces you to buy her dinners and stuff, and she makes you wait for sex just so she can look “respectable”, that only earns her disrespect in the long term.

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]]> By: Barbeeee http://www.interracialdatingcentral.com/fyooz/how-to-turn-that-predictable-date-into-an-unforgettable-escapade/comment-page-1/#comment-29335 Barbeeee Thu, 09 Apr 2009 07:43:43 +0000 /fyooz/how-to-turn-that-predictable-date-into-an-unforgettable-escapade.htm#comment-29335 I'm adventurous so an activity date sounds like a lot of fun to me. Things like bowling, amusement parks, rock climbing, Dave and Busters, target practice, paintball, skiing, etc would be an ideal first date for me. However, it's very difficult to talk to someone or get to know someone if you're busy doing these things. Timbo649, I would have to disagree with your statements. Dinner after sex sounds a bit fishy to me. Of course, this suits YOUR sexual needs but does little for a woman who wants to get to know you on a deeper level. In order for a woman to determine whether or not she should have sex with a man, she has to talk to him and see if they share a connection and the same interests. It's impossible to do that when you're in the middle of a nonstop activity. Honestly Timbo, it sounds like you want to just hookup for sex for as cheap as possible. You should just be upfront about it and stop trying to pretend you want more. As far as women on here being single because they refuse to go on activity date with you, I think that was an unnecessary low blow. Last time I checked, you are almost 40, single with no children. Obviously, you're in the same boat as the women you are criticizing!! Maybe your attitude is why you are still single. BTW, most people are single for two specific reasons: 1) They haven't met the right person YET!! 2) They are considered "undesirable" in society. I’m adventurous so an activity date sounds like a lot of fun to me. Things like bowling, amusement parks, rock climbing, Dave and Busters, target practice, paintball, skiing, etc would be an ideal first date for me. However, it’s very difficult to talk to someone or get to know someone if you’re busy doing these things.

Timbo649, I would have to disagree with your statements. Dinner after sex sounds a bit fishy to me. Of course, this suits YOUR sexual needs but does little for a woman who wants to get to know you on a deeper level. In order for a woman to determine whether or not she should have sex with a man, she has to talk to him and see if they share a connection and the same interests. It’s impossible to do that when you’re in the middle of a nonstop activity. Honestly Timbo, it sounds like you want to just hookup for sex for as cheap as possible. You should just be upfront about it and stop trying to pretend you want more. As far as women on here being single because they refuse to go on activity date with you, I think that was an unnecessary low blow. Last time I checked, you are almost 40, single with no children. Obviously, you’re in the same boat as the women you are criticizing!! Maybe your attitude is why you are still single. BTW, most people are single for two specific reasons: 1) They haven’t met the right person YET!! 2) They are considered “undesirable” in society.

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]]> By: Timbo649 http://www.interracialdatingcentral.com/fyooz/how-to-turn-that-predictable-date-into-an-unforgettable-escapade/comment-page-1/#comment-29334 Timbo649 Wed, 08 Apr 2009 20:16:49 +0000 /fyooz/how-to-turn-that-predictable-date-into-an-unforgettable-escapade.htm#comment-29334 Dinner or lunch is the worst first date in the world. Going out to dinner is something you do AFTER sex. This way, the both of you can actually relax and enjoy your meal. Also, a meal with a total stranger right off the bat is not a good bonding experience and typically devolves into a stifled interview rather than a bonding experience. In fact, eating with a stranger is plain wierd. Whoever got to know their best friend by eating with them first and asking them interview questions and trying to impress them with jokes? Nobody. It doesnt work that way. Why would anyone eat dinner or lunch with a total stranger? I think going for a walk or some other cheap activity is the best first date and the best way to get to know anybody. Yet... I've met alot of women on here who REFUSE to go on an activity date, and feel that the best way to get to know a total stranger is over DINNER or LUNCH. And then they wonder why they are still single. haha! Dinner or lunch is the worst first date in the world. Going out to dinner is something you do AFTER sex. This way, the both of you can actually relax and enjoy your meal. Also, a meal with a total stranger right off the bat is not a good bonding experience and typically devolves into a stifled interview rather than a bonding experience. In fact, eating with a stranger is plain wierd. Whoever got to know their best friend by eating with them first and asking them interview questions and trying to impress them with jokes? Nobody. It doesnt work that way. Why would anyone eat dinner or lunch with a total stranger? I think going for a walk or some other cheap activity is the best first date and the best way to get to know anybody. Yet… I’ve met alot of women on here who REFUSE to go on an activity date, and feel that the best way to get to know a total stranger is over DINNER or LUNCH. And then they wonder why they are still single. haha!

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]]> By: X Boyfriend http://www.interracialdatingcentral.com/fyooz/how-to-turn-that-predictable-date-into-an-unforgettable-escapade/comment-page-1/#comment-29333 X Boyfriend Fri, 13 Mar 2009 03:42:16 +0000 /fyooz/how-to-turn-that-predictable-date-into-an-unforgettable-escapade.htm#comment-29333 I agree with the topic here, you convinced me of a few things I was on the fence about. I agree with the topic here, you convinced me of a few things I was on the fence about.

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]]> By: jaden24 http://www.interracialdatingcentral.com/fyooz/how-to-turn-that-predictable-date-into-an-unforgettable-escapade/comment-page-1/#comment-29332 jaden24 Sat, 27 Dec 2008 05:50:08 +0000 /fyooz/how-to-turn-that-predictable-date-into-an-unforgettable-escapade.htm#comment-29332 well, i guess i am a bit oldschool myself then because i would never even suggest trapshooting for a first date and i grew up with guns looking at a future home? you are still getting to know them... there are other activities to bring out a person's traits and personality well, i guess i am a bit oldschool myself then because i would never even suggest trapshooting for a first date and i grew up with guns

looking at a future home? you are still getting to know them…

there are other activities to bring out a person’s traits and personality

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