Help: Husband wont initiate sex except on Sundays!
When my friend approached me about her sex problem with her husband, much as I am a man, I have never been married so I really didn’t know what to tell her. I figured, most people on the site have been through marriage hence better placed to assist. Well, she went:
"Everything was great before; until the day I moved in with him. Four years down the line, a wedding and a baby, things have become worse. We used to have sex very often and then it never seemed like any of us was initiating it. Its like we just knew: NOW!!! But once I moved in, all that synchrony just vanished.
Suddenly, I started feeling as if I was the one who was doing most of the initiating. When I brought it up, things got better for a couple of weeks then they would just slip back in the mud. Only problem is: as years went by, it got worse. And much as the once a week Sunday sex is great, it feels like he only makes a move because its Sunday; like its become an obligation -"Oh! Another Sunday! Let's be done with it." It’s like I am the only one who initiates sex on other days of the week. I end up feeling like he no longer wants and desires me that way.
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I know things have changed; our circumstances have changed. But when I ask him if they are affecting our sex life, he claims I am as sexy as I used to be when we met and that I still turn him on as much as I used to. We love each other dearly; that I don't doubt. But much as sex aint the main ingredient in a marriage, I believe marriage should be more than love and friendship. I don’t expect us to go back to the humping-every-minute days but do want things to change for the better.
Do I have to live with the fact that I want more sex with him and he just wants it and gets turned on on Sundays? Am I being petty for not appreciating the Sunday sex?"
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