Comments on: Does her earning more affect your sex life? http://www.interracialdatingcentral.com/fyooz/does-her-earning-more-affect-your-sex-life/ The community that fuses fun and romance Thu, 09 Feb 2012 23:28:25 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1.3 By: ACEBENICE http://www.interracialdatingcentral.com/fyooz/does-her-earning-more-affect-your-sex-life/comment-page-1/#comment-32286 ACEBENICE Mon, 07 Dec 2009 04:49:30 +0000 /fyooz/does-her-earning-more-affect-your-sex-life.htm#comment-32286 SEX, MONEY AND POWER has always been the American way of life for men, especially white men. Society has placed a value system on human lives based on how much money you make, skill set, blah, blah, blah. Money never made a man or a woman. Men and women make men and women. So the argument is valid, but weak when you look at the whole picture. What does money do. Money is only a means to an end...go figure..... Now the comment about sex, both positive and negative has much to do with the how the individual see themselves as a person. If a man thinks that his money makes him a real man, then he is misinformed as to what makes a man a man. The Mocha era is over, but from generation to generation, it is still taught to our sons and then our daughters are taught that a man is suppose to take care of you financially. What about the emotional needs of a woman. Money does not provide for those needs. Money keeps a roof over your head and food on the table. That does not interpret emotional fullfillment at all. Our parents provided shelter....go figure again....LOL!!! I think that if, like in one instance, the man works the bedroom, it is because if his wife is a professional women working alone side professional men, he, the husband, need to make sure that there is nothing those professional male colleagues can give his wife that he can't give her. And of course, he is a secure man as well. For the man who have the problem feeling that he is a failure, be careful because that only turns into resentment, break down of communications and then the affairs. And yes women who make more money need to not emasculate their men either. Leave work at work and communicate your love well to him. Money did not matter when you met, why would it matter now. SEX, MONEY AND POWER has always been the
American way of life for men, especially white men. Society has placed a value system on human lives based on how much money you make, skill set, blah, blah, blah. Money never made a man or a woman. Men and women make men and women. So the argument is valid, but weak when you look at the whole picture. What does money do. Money is only a means to an end…go figure…..

Now the comment about sex, both positive and negative has much to do with the how the individual see themselves as a person. If a man thinks that his money makes him a real man, then he is misinformed as to what makes a man a man. The Mocha era is over, but from generation to generation, it is still taught to our sons and then our daughters are taught that a man is suppose to take care of you financially. What about the emotional needs of a woman. Money does not provide for those needs. Money keeps a roof over your head and food on the table. That does not interpret emotional fullfillment at all. Our parents provided shelter….go figure again….LOL!!!

I think that if, like in one instance, the man works the bedroom, it is because if his wife is a professional women working alone side professional men, he, the husband, need to make sure that there is nothing those professional male colleagues can give his wife that he can’t give her. And of course, he is a secure man as well.

For the man who have the problem feeling that he is a failure, be careful because that only turns into resentment, break down of communications and then the affairs. And yes women who make more money need to not emasculate their men either. Leave work at work and communicate your love well to him. Money did not matter when you met, why would it matter now.

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