Do men believe in inner beauty? I don't!
What do men really think about this elusive concept
Lemme paint a tiny picture for you: There is a girl this guy has a crush on in college. He thinks she is hot. Can’t take his eyes off of her whenever he sees her. Would do anything to go out with her. After college, she disappears. He cant wait to meet her one more time so that he can ask her out. 2 years later this guy, still single, bumps into her; she has gained weight, she has stopped caring about fashion – in a nutshell, she is no longer beautiful, he is no longer interested!
People always tell us to look at inner beauty when looking for long term relationships. Does inner beauty mean a cute heart? The thing is much as we may want to hide under the façade of inner beauty, we gotta admit that beauty is touchable… its sensory… its outward. You may call me shallow but try taking a walk down the streets with a beautiful woman. Trust me, the men who stumble as they gawk don’t give a rats a** about her personality (even the women who stare in awe and envy don’t care).
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Then there is this other one: 'Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder' - Much as you are beautiful, some people think you are ugly. Does this mean objective beauty doesn’t exist? I think this one was coined by some superficial people trying to answer the "why the hell is this hot dude/chick doing with with her/him?" question... People trying to justify why some ugly men score the hottest chicks. And I think that's where inner beauty came about too.
But if you ask me, if I am this hot guy who looks at an ugly woman and sees perfection (going by the 'beauty is in the eye of the beholder' adage), where is inner beauty there. Point still remains, this guy finds this woman attractive in the physical sense. 90% of the time physical attraction comes before personality.... unless you are co-workers or something close to that.
One thing I must admit though, someone’s personality can have an effect on their external beauty. A woman who laughs and smiles a lot will definitely be more beautiful 10 years from now than one who wears a frowny face all the time.
What do you think?
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