Comments on: Dating Mr. White

By: midnite

midnite — Sat, 31 Jul 2010 04:31:46 +0000

Just what does the term sellout mean anyway? Sounds like something they said in the 60′s. Ridiculouus.

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By: tatted2death

tatted2death — Sat, 03 Jul 2010 16:10:21 +0000

It amazes me as well, eshowoman……hypocritcal mess, it is.

Peace

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By: eshowoman

eshowoman — Wed, 30 Jun 2010 03:58:37 +0000

It is amazing that a post about black women out-dating. still attracts black men who put down black women. You point to a almost 20 year old movie when black men have been calling us b*thes and whores in rap music and constantly dress up like black women and act out the most egregious stereotypes for decades? Black men are outmarry at a rate 2 1/2 times the rate of black women. Please go find the non-black women of your dreams and keep you hatred of black women to yourself!

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By: fkoi

fkoi — Sat, 05 Jun 2010 16:03:01 +0000

If I’m truly looking for love it would be ridiculous to limit myself by eliminating 13% of the population based on melanin.

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By: friendly13

friendly13 — Thu, 13 May 2010 11:46:30 +0000

One of the things that I got out of watching something new was that it shows how so many of us women want a man to validate us. I feel like this, I could be missing out on a man who really loves me by limiting myself to men that fit in a round hole or a circle whole. I may be a circle but the man who will love and adore me may be a triangle. In other words, he may be exactly the opposite of what I expect. Now I am not saying that we should not have standards, that would be stupid. But, I feel that we should not look for validating attributes. For instance, my man is the CEO of some important company and he makes six figures. I want to be the damn CEO and make six figures. If he is a gardener,and he loves me that could be a good thing. What good would it do me to be married and validated by a man who has a fancy position and sleeps around and embarrasses me infront of his friends. Like the move Diary of a Mad blackwoman. The main charactrs successful husband did just those things. Then when the right man did come along she couldn’t accept it. She even stayed in a bad relationship far too long because of the validation she felt it had. But she did not have her husbands heart because he had standards too. She just sat at home all day figuring out how to spend the idiots hard earned money. See there are two sides to every story. Does that justift the meanness of what he did. No. My thoughts on the matter.

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By: Hannes72

Hannes72 — Wed, 05 May 2010 06:07:03 +0000

@mayp

But you should choose by the look, the way he is, things you have in common or whatever but not by financial matters.

I only know things like that by the nigerian golddiggers we have in Austria, not a nice thing.

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By: mayp

mayp — Sun, 02 May 2010 17:15:09 +0000

i need a good looking white man, who is financialy ok, also very romantic .

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By: mumu

mumu — Thu, 25 Mar 2010 09:31:20 +0000

i love white boys!
i only date white boys….and you know why..its because i am attracted to them, the few times am attracted to a black boy, he only wants white girls..so i guess we even out..

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By: triccinicci

triccinicci — Sun, 04 Oct 2009 21:20:30 +0000

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By: Mr Laurelton Queens

Mr Laurelton Queens — Sun, 04 Oct 2009 14:14:19 +0000

Dear Ich

Single and but unattached means sleeping with a man but “waiting for something better to come along”.

Again, my problem with her story is she met the man twice. Then it jumps to him “giving her everything” just to have her as his mistress. Then she stresses she “knew” he wasn’t leaving his white wife.

You know all this information after two meetings. This guy most be the boldest white man in America. “OR” there was some “fooling” around going on.

I just don’t see a wealthy guy being that disrespectful unless “you were down” with the arrangement. If you are supposedly so “sophisticated” how did “the mistress talk” come about?

Just another “one sided story” with holes in it.

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