Comments for Interracial Dating Advice & Blog http://www.interracialdatingcentral.com/fyooz The community that fuses fun and romance Tue, 07 Feb 2012 21:51:22 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1.3 Comment on Why should a black man be crucified for liking his women lighter? by Anassah http://www.interracialdatingcentral.com/fyooz/why-should-a-black-man-be-crucified-for-liking-his-women-lighter/comment-page-1/#comment-39714 Anassah Tue, 07 Feb 2012 21:51:22 +0000 http://www.afroromance.com/fyooz/?p=5139#comment-39714 @ Lunaedea Your being so honest and I love it. I notice that darker skinned men seem to be very insecure with who they are and they seem to feel validated when they have a lighter skinned women on there arms, rather it be a lighter skinned black women, spanish women or a white women. Ah man and dont let them luck on an asian women they really act like they hit the jackpot.LOL! It makes me laugh every time. Funny thing is when they get there heart broke they want to point the blame at all women. but you have to look at your choice of women.Or for you color struck brother i have to say the complexion of the women you chose.. It extremely sad that to see a man of dark skin reject the women of the same complexion from which he was born. Sad! But it is there choice. what tends to make me laugh is when a black man walk up to me and tell me i need to stay with my own kind... it send me into extreme laughter... esp when you see that hipocrite with the caucasian women the next day..... hahaha! However on a better note find love where you can. I was basically make an observation on the truth.... @ Lunaedea Your being so honest and I love it. I notice that darker skinned men seem to be very insecure with who they are and they seem to feel validated when they have a lighter skinned women on there arms, rather it be a lighter skinned black women, spanish women or a white women. Ah man and dont let them luck on an asian women they really act like they hit the jackpot.LOL! It makes me laugh every time. Funny thing is when they get there heart broke they want to point the blame at all women. but you have to look at your choice of women.Or for you color struck brother i have to say the complexion of the women you chose.. It extremely sad that to see a man of dark skin reject the women of the same complexion from which he was born. Sad! But it is there choice. what tends to make me laugh is when a black man walk up to me and tell me i need to stay with my own kind… it send me into extreme laughter… esp when you see that hipocrite with the caucasian women the next day….. hahaha! However on a better note find love where you can. I was basically make an observation on the truth….

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]]> Comment on Why should a black man be crucified for liking his women lighter? by qt_pie33 http://www.interracialdatingcentral.com/fyooz/why-should-a-black-man-be-crucified-for-liking-his-women-lighter/comment-page-1/#comment-39713 qt_pie33 Tue, 07 Feb 2012 21:41:36 +0000 http://www.afroromance.com/fyooz/?p=5139#comment-39713 I can't agree with you more beautifully spoken . As a darkskin woman I guess we can relate to this more. This is part of the reason I started to date outside my race. Please don't get me wrong I have nothing against black men. However, most of them don't find darkskin women attractive. I have always been complimented by different races of men who appreciate the beauty of my skin tone ! I can’t agree with you more beautifully spoken . As a darkskin woman I guess we can relate to this more. This is part of the reason I started to date outside my race. Please don’t get me wrong I have nothing against black men. However, most of them don’t find darkskin women attractive. I have always been complimented by different races of men who appreciate the beauty of my skin tone !

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]]> Comment on Why should a black man be crucified for liking his women lighter? by Anassah http://www.interracialdatingcentral.com/fyooz/why-should-a-black-man-be-crucified-for-liking-his-women-lighter/comment-page-1/#comment-39712 Anassah Tue, 07 Feb 2012 21:35:43 +0000 http://www.afroromance.com/fyooz/?p=5139#comment-39712 Noplayer! Well said! Noplayer! Well said!

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]]> Comment on Why should a black man be crucified for liking his women lighter? by Anassah http://www.interracialdatingcentral.com/fyooz/why-should-a-black-man-be-crucified-for-liking-his-women-lighter/comment-page-1/#comment-39711 Anassah Tue, 07 Feb 2012 21:33:36 +0000 http://www.afroromance.com/fyooz/?p=5139#comment-39711 Arland your comment is just silly Arland your comment is just silly

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]]> Comment on She was one click away from never meeting her man by citic http://www.interracialdatingcentral.com/fyooz/she-was-one-click-away-from-never-meeting-her-man/comment-page-1/#comment-39710 citic Tue, 07 Feb 2012 15:00:18 +0000 http://www.interracialdatingcentral.com/fyooz/?p=5837#comment-39710 Waw what an interesting story. Yah patience pays. Finally she got the right man of her dreams. I was also thinking of canceling my membership may be let me give it a more try. citic Waw what an interesting story. Yah patience pays. Finally she got the right man of her dreams. I was also thinking of canceling my membership may be let me give it a more try.
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]]> Comment on She was one click away from never meeting her man by waw http://www.interracialdatingcentral.com/fyooz/she-was-one-click-away-from-never-meeting-her-man/comment-page-1/#comment-39709 waw Tue, 07 Feb 2012 14:59:44 +0000 http://www.interracialdatingcentral.com/fyooz/?p=5837#comment-39709 Waw what an interesting story. Yah patience pays. Finally she got the right man of her dreams. I was also thinking of canceling my membership may be let me give it a more try. citic Waw what an interesting story. Yah patience pays. Finally she got the right man of her dreams. I was also thinking of canceling my membership may be let me give it a more try.
citic

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]]> Comment on Why should a black man be crucified for liking his women lighter? by NOPLAYER http://www.interracialdatingcentral.com/fyooz/why-should-a-black-man-be-crucified-for-liking-his-women-lighter/comment-page-1/#comment-39708 NOPLAYER Tue, 07 Feb 2012 10:26:55 +0000 http://www.afroromance.com/fyooz/?p=5139#comment-39708 @ James - We’ve all heard the saying “still water runs deep”, unfortunately amongst many AA men and women that “still water” is skin complexion. You’d have to have an understanding of the politics of skin color amongst AA particularly as it relates to BW in order to fully understand the sensitivity that some may have in regards to the preference of some BM for light-skinned women exclusively and the key word is EXCLUSIVELY. I wish it were as simple as Budweiser over Heineken but it’s deeper than that. If I were to say to you “man I just want me a good BW that will love & respect me, be devoted and faithful to me”, then I should be willing to date the woman that shows she’s willing to be that kind of woman to me regardless of her skin complexion because those characteristics can’t be determined by skin complexion alone. If I’m constantly pursing light skinned BW “exclusively” then it has to be something deeper than just preference alone because if it wasn’t, why would I over look attractive BW with darker skin complexions? I’d have to be compelled by something to continuously go after light skinned BW. It’s not promised that I’d hit it off with every light skinned woman I’d pursue, I’d face rejection, the relationship could fail, she could cheat on me or something else negative that could cause the relationship to end and with all that, I’d still continue to go after light skinned women exclusively???? I’m sorry but this would be more than just a preference. Some belief, some idea or inclination about light skinned women would be driving me to keep going after them, if not why wouldn’t it dawn on me to broaden my scope???? Someone looking in from the outside would be right to think I’m color struck, I’m not attracted to dark skinned women or I feel light skinned women must have something that dark skinned women don’t. For some it's deeper than preference but some just wont admit to it! @ James – We’ve all heard the saying “still water runs deep”, unfortunately amongst many AA men and women that “still water” is skin complexion. You’d have to have an understanding of the politics of skin color amongst AA particularly as it relates to BW in order to fully understand the sensitivity that some may have in regards to the preference of some BM for light-skinned women exclusively and the key word is EXCLUSIVELY.

I wish it were as simple as Budweiser over Heineken but it’s deeper than that.

If I were to say to you “man I just want me a good BW that will love & respect me, be devoted and faithful to me”, then I should be willing to date the woman that shows she’s willing to be that kind of woman to me regardless of her skin complexion because those characteristics can’t be determined by skin complexion alone. If I’m constantly pursing light skinned BW “exclusively” then it has to be something deeper than just preference alone because if it wasn’t, why would I over look attractive BW with darker skin complexions? I’d have to be compelled by something to continuously go after light skinned BW.

It’s not promised that I’d hit it off with every light skinned woman I’d pursue, I’d face rejection, the relationship could fail, she could cheat on me or something else negative that could cause the relationship to end and with all that, I’d still continue to go after light skinned women exclusively????

I’m sorry but this would be more than just a preference. Some belief, some idea or inclination about light skinned women would be driving me to keep going after them, if not why wouldn’t it dawn on me to broaden my scope???? Someone looking in from the outside would be right to think I’m color struck, I’m not attracted to dark skinned women or I feel light skinned women must have something that dark skinned women don’t.

For some it’s deeper than preference but some just wont admit to it!

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]]> Comment on Robin Thicke’s take on Black women being urged to date White by ourside81 http://www.interracialdatingcentral.com/fyooz/robin-thickes-take-on-black-women-being-urged-to-date-white/comment-page-1/#comment-39707 ourside81 Tue, 07 Feb 2012 04:24:11 +0000 http://www.afroromance.com/fyooz/?p=5722#comment-39707 Read my comments below. I would like to have a discussion with you about your views Read my comments below. I would like to have a discussion with you about your views

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]]> Comment on Robin Thicke’s take on Black women being urged to date White by ourside81 http://www.interracialdatingcentral.com/fyooz/robin-thickes-take-on-black-women-being-urged-to-date-white/comment-page-1/#comment-39706 ourside81 Tue, 07 Feb 2012 04:21:54 +0000 http://www.afroromance.com/fyooz/?p=5722#comment-39706 Some black people are so damn sensitive! I will break it down for you and reply to what EVERYONE has had to say in just three paragraphs :p. 1st it is no secret people of African decent have had a tough break in the last 500-600 years especially with the slave trade, however not EVERY BLACK PERSON ON EARTH had has this mistreatment. if you look at history all throughout Africa there have been great kingdoms that were well known for technology, advancement, and knowledge. Having said that black people are not the only people who have been slaves/mistreated. In most cases people who were enslaved either were ethnically similar or the same race as the en slaver's, so for that reason those people do not 'stick out' as much as an African slave (How did these black people get in Turkey!?) In fact the Arab and European slave trade included Indians (from India) eastern Europeans as well as Turks (Look up Mamluks) I believe that sometimes black people need to realize that we have a lot of issues. Stereotypes of missing fathers is a real issue as well as drugs, high crime ( most crimes committed by blacks warrant very long prison sentences hence the reason why so many are in jail for no long). Don't let anyone tell you that you're life is hard or cursed because you're black. Blacks have accepted a lower standard of life that people would have lost their minds about three generations ago. As far as interracial dating is concerned, this will change in time. There are whole races of people who are inner-ethnic (east and north Africans, most southeast and Central Asians etc) I will stop there but I will be here to debunk any attempts to suggest that interracial dating or the black experience is new or some kind of 'ploy'. I am saying all this as an African American btw. Have a good night everyone! Some black people are so damn sensitive! I will break it down for you and reply to what EVERYONE has had to say in just three paragraphs :p. 1st it is no secret people of African decent have had a tough break in the last 500-600 years especially with the slave trade, however not EVERY BLACK PERSON ON EARTH had has this mistreatment. if you look at history all throughout Africa there have been great kingdoms that were well known for technology, advancement, and knowledge. Having said that black people are not the only people who have been slaves/mistreated. In most cases people who were enslaved either were ethnically similar or the same race as the en slaver’s, so for that reason those people do not ‘stick out’ as much as an African slave (How did these black people get in Turkey!?) In fact the Arab and European slave trade included Indians (from India) eastern Europeans as well as Turks (Look up Mamluks)

I believe that sometimes black people need to realize that we have a lot of issues. Stereotypes of missing fathers is a real issue as well as drugs, high crime ( most crimes committed by blacks warrant very long prison sentences hence the reason why so many are in jail for no long). Don’t let anyone tell you that you’re life is hard or cursed because you’re black. Blacks have accepted a lower standard of life that people would have lost their minds about three generations ago.

As far as interracial dating is concerned, this will change in time. There are whole races of people who are inner-ethnic (east and north Africans, most southeast and Central Asians etc)

I will stop there but I will be here to debunk any attempts to suggest that interracial dating or the black experience is new or some kind of ‘ploy’. I am saying all this as an African American btw. Have a good night everyone!

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]]> Comment on Why white men love the black woman by Anna http://www.interracialdatingcentral.com/fyooz/why-white-men-love-the-black-woman/comment-page-132/#comment-39705 Anna Tue, 07 Feb 2012 02:06:28 +0000 /fyooz/why-white-men-love-the-black-woman.htm#comment-39705 I personally feel that White Men have always been attracted to Black Women. One may want to take a look at history for better enlightenment of the dating scenes and marrying practices of White Men to Black Women. It's been going on long before now. I believe that most people are not aware because of where they generally seek information. The media had not been as open and more covert in publicizing, in my opinion the relationships between White Men and Black Women. Most often you readily see Black Men with White Women because it seems to be common practice with most black athletes. It is common place to hear and see in the media what the Black athletes are doing, who they marry and how much money the make. I personally feel that White Men have always been attracted to Black Women. One may want to take a look at history for better enlightenment of the dating scenes and marrying practices of White Men to Black Women. It’s been going on long before now. I believe that most people are not aware because of where they generally seek information. The media had not been as open and more covert in publicizing, in my opinion the relationships between White Men and Black Women. Most often you readily see Black Men with White Women because it seems to be common practice with most black athletes. It is common place to hear and see in the media what the Black athletes are doing, who they marry and how much money the make.

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