Can dating more than one person be ok? Tell me about it
Is there a particular time when dating multiple people is excusable? Did I just hear a “HELL NO!᾿? Well, according to some people there are times when you can be excused.
One lady said that since she has always been the type of girl that gets into serious relationships a little too soon, she figured it was time to try NOT to jump into anything that quickly… taking it slow you know. So apparently, she found herself into a situation I dare not call a love triangle… This one is a love quadruple. She is dating three guys, all of whom she enjoys spending time with. Of course guilt has started catching up with her. And her main worry now is; dating multiple people may deter her from developing stronger feelings for any of them.
Considering this woman is suddenly feeling guilty, shows that she has realized that there is no excuse for multi-dating. Well I remember once having two girlfriends. I and the official one were having problems and the other one was like an escape for me. For a while there, I justified my actions but what we fear most happened… guilt, happened.
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So since that didn’t work for me, does the decision to take things slow warrant having multiple partners so you can have a whole array of people to choose from, or should this be replaced with not dating at all? When did you multi-date and didn’t feel guilty about it? When is it excusable?
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