Bashing your husband slowly kills marriages
Some habits that destroy marriages have got nothing to do with infidelity, partying, staying out late or the typical bad behavior. And bad-mouthing your husband is one of them.
This habit is like bacteria that are resistant to medication; it can slowly infect a marriage to its sudden death. The thing is; it usually starts as an innocent avenue of venting out. Then your friends start fueling the bashing by bad-mouthing their husbands too and before you know it, husband bashing becomes your favorite past time – taking over every shopping spree - basically every conversation you have with your friends.
The thing with bad-mouthing husbands is there is always someone who is going through the same things you are and sooner than later the husband-dissatisfaction club gets bigger and bigger.
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This habit is very infectious both to you and your friends. And if you think about it, as the law of attraction implies; you attract what you put your attention on. In this case, bad-mouthing the hubby plays this law out to your detriment, and before you know it, you end up getting more of what you don’t like about that husband of yours on your hands than you can handle.
Words are very powerful creators. You get what you speak. You get what you focus on. Being in a husband bashing club won’t make things better. In fact, the advice you will get by being in these clubs might alienate your husband further. Not all relationships are the same. So how your fellow basher deals with her dissatisfaction might kill your marriage. Plus not everyone wishes the best for you.
Beware of what you speak of your husband and the advice you get out of it.
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