Are satisfying relationships attainable or beyond reach?

Posted by James, 29 Nov 07

Sometimes I get to the point of feeling like the whole idea of relationships is just in deep sh** … especially long term ones. Think of all the day to day pressures in the world … now imagine the stress that puts on relationships. And the problem is, some of this pressure is beyond our control.

It’s like the focus of our society isn’t to assist us with our relationships. In fact I think the system works day-in-day-out to make us fail. Not to be cynical but if you look around, you will notice that our society is based on making you feel unhappy and unsatisfied about almost everything… unsatisfied with the way you look, with what you have, with what you eat, the clothes you wear, the car you drive etc.

The thing is, satisfied people spend less so the more unsatisfied you are, the more you will dig into that pocket to spend. So if you are looking to have a satisfying relationship, then I think it’s high time you stopped looking to society to dictate to you what a perfect relationship is. You gotta decide what’s perfect for you.

Your perfect partner could be online right now...

What are you looking for?

Sometimes people tend to change for the other person … STOP fooling yourself. When you do that you simply lose yourself. Won’t you get tired of pretending to be someone you are not? So if you want a satisfying relationship, then you gotta be yourself because deceitful behavior breeds trouble.

Should you settle for less because of fear of being alone? Hell no! This will be your one-way ticket to hell on earth! Decisions based on fear are always wrong. Meeting “the one᾿ takes time and requires patience. So don’t compromise your happiness for fear of dying alone. This way you will lead a life of fulfillment and satisfaction … satisfaction defined in your own words.

So I guess satisfying relationships are attainable. Main question you have to ask is who the relationship is satisfying. Not to sound selfish but satisfaction should be defined by you. Most people say satisfying relationships are beyond reach. Well its all because they let other people bully them into seeing satisfaction through other people’s eyes and words.

So what do you focus on when you meet the one? Is it your feelings… the other persons? Quit focusing on the wrong and start focusing on the right and you will live a more satisfying and fulfilling life. What if you can’t find anything right with your partner? Maybe you just "settled" in the first place and it's probably best to end it while you still can! They say "When it's right, it's right" I believe when that's the case then you know in your mind and your heart and every time you look in their eyes.

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  2.   hiimsteph says:
    Posted: 11 Dec 07

    Well I believe that a key to having or finding a good relationship would be to have reasonable expectations and not jump into a relationship for a wrong reasons, or the relationship wont last.

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