Warning: This article may be offensive to some readers. This is not the objective. The article is in no way meant to defame or inflame any parties, groups or persons.
“Some black guys are going to date white girls. Attempting to beat up the white girls will not turn that tide. …You’d be better off learning to love yourself than becoming mired in bitterness and hate over that thing that’s not really about you.” From the post Sometimes the White Girl (Or Guy) Isn’t about You (Unconventional Wisdom) by The Black Snob
Just like the above excerpt suggests, there is this popular belief that black women see interracial relationships as a personal insult to them. This issue has been raised over and over again. And after reading many articles that support that belief, I can’t help but wonder why people portray black women to be the only ones who react disapprovingly to interracial relationships.
A former girlfriend of mine (black) once told me she felt that some of my white female friends and Asian women weren’t jazzed at all about our relationship. And when I asked her if they openly told her so, she told me they didn’t have to shout about their disapproval; their body language (yeah you know those stares accompanied by sneers, the sizing-up up and down look) said it all. Well, to tell you the truth, I later noticed that they were a hell lot nicer to her when she was just friend than when we started dating.
I believe she is not only black woman who gets this general bitchiness because of her involvement with a non-black man? Here is how one woman describes this whole resentment to black white relationships:
“…the reasons a black woman might object to an interracial relationship are wholly different from the reasons a white woman might. Black women worry how the black community will be affected overall if, say, the most successful black men find themselves with white women again and again. They worry about the effect interracial relationships have on low marriage rates in the black community. In contrast, when I encounter white women who cop an attitude upon discovering that my boyfriend and I are an item, their hostility comes from a very different place—a place of superiority.
It’s as if they are asking themselves, “Why on earth would he be with a black girl when I’m here?”"
Well, I have been asked a similar question by a white woman who wanted a relationship with me. I took it lightly coz I figured it was just the normal kind of jealousy anyone would feel if the object of their desire fell in love with another. So I gotta ask: Do white women feel this way when they see a non-white woman with an eligible white man?
If so, why then should black women continue to bear the responsibility for the hostility that black white couples face when we know very well that some black men, white women and Asian women (as I have heard) – are also opposed to such unions? Are black women the only foes of interracial relationships? Has anyone experienced this kind of ‘hostility’ from white men?
Fuck you you dumb as fuck n!gger! Call me cracker I’ll call you N!gger.
I am not taking myself off of here because you want me to. How in the fuck do you plan to do so? Me hiding behind a computer? What the fuck do you think you are doing you weak ass, punk black bitch?
I knew you would call me a skinhead. I appreciate that. Sometimes skinhead tendencies are needed to put weak, ghetto black scum such as yourself in their place. The more I mention white men don’t want you, the angrier and angrier you get. Because you know we don’t want filthy, decomposing scum as you are.
I have my white woman and you give me and every white man reason to stay away from diseases like you. You are completely worthless and your life is not worth a dime.
Why are you here then (demon) eyes? You must be looking for white men but your pathetic being shows you will always fail at any attempts. We don’t want you. Give it up! You are bound to the grave of heartbreak of something that will never be in grasp.
Loose some weight. Try Jenny Craig or take the path of Jared of Subway and maybe you could have your own commercial of your own…..oh…wait, the media won’t put ghetto scum on tv such as yourself.
ROTFLMFAO….get lost you weakling!
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Take your stupid ass off of this dating site since you have a white bitch you ignorant peckerwood!
Black women don’t want skinhead white trash like you that’s going to call them a monkey and then ramble on about being a victim!
I’m here to put away these typical stereotypes you skinhead peckerwoods use against black women.
Tell your fat trailer trash white whores to lose weight, the pure white woman stereotype is old and played out!
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Fat trailer white trash? Aren’t black women the fattest of all races? So the chances you contain are pretty high of being a severely obese unwanted black bitch.
And I love my white woman. She treats me with kindness and I appreciate her beauty. We get along in great harmony. What have you to say for yourself demon eyes?
Wait, no white man wants you. So you spread black panther propaganda and reveal anger and bitterness of white men not giving you a chance. You deserve it.
If you somehow lost your black panther mentality and lost a shitload of weight, maybe someday a man will come along for you. But the chances of a white man accepting your black panther ass is about impossible.
Your lame. And no the white woman stereotype is never played out. Explaining why white men stick with their own, and now black men realizing the white woman epitome of beauty as well.
Your in a lose lose situation demon eyes. Neither white nor black men wants a obese, ghetto bitch like you.
Get lost!
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White trash is the fattest of all people.
You try to hide that by making it seem like only blacks and latinos are fat in the media.
Everywhere i go i see fat old ugly rednecks looking like rush limbaugh and ruby.
Yes the pure white woman stereotype is played out, its lie and no one believes it anymore except the peckerwoods like you that use it to make themselves feel superior!
If white women were so “pure” they wouldn’t be in scat films all over the internet, eating shit and drinking piss!
And the black panthers are dignified freedom fighters, not some toothless redneck trash wearing white hoods and burning crosses like your people are!
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This is disturbing to see such hate for another color of person
wow…just wow
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Yes she is weak. She is upset no white man wants her weak, ghetto foul mouthed ass.
She is the epitome of human failure. Look at her making a fool of herself.
Demon eyes, how is that weight loss program coming? Where is your man? Oh wait, no one wants ghetto putrid shit like you.
Get lost, you are not wanted. Shrivel up and die. I am ashamed to have to breathe the same air as you.
You are a nobody and nobody wants you. Go hide in a cave or shoot yourself in the head. Save this world mercy. Slit your wrists and bleed a slow and painful death.
In equivalence, that’s the same of having to hear human waste such as yourself.
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LOL
Oh please!
Take your ignorant redneck ass back to your klan meeting!
Abagond thinks you’re a joke and so do the other posters!
You say you are looking for a black woman while you were on his blog harassing all of them!
Tell your ugly white bitches to lose weight!
You show up on a “interracial dating” site after saying you have a white girlfriend!
Your pathetic ass has no one because no black woman wants to end up on the side of a highway with a freak like you!
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Comment by jaden24 on 30 November 2009:
This is disturbing to see such hate for another color of person
wow…just wow”
Who are you supposed to be?
Since you think are so “hot” why are you on this website begging for black pussy?
Black women are supposed to drop to their knees and praise god just because YOU think you are special?
You filthy white trash skinhead boys only show the whole world that you do nothing but use black women as temporary sex toys.
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I never implied I was hot and when I mentioned attraction- it was based upon who you are as a person…not looks
How am I begging for black pussy by posting a personal ad because I have a preference for them because uhh, ya know… I like black women(with the exception of you). furthermore, I am dating an adorable black girl that I met on this site so I guess you hit a dead end there.
you keep throwing your “facts”, stereotypes and assumptions everywhere and at everyone as if you are trying to enlighten them. do you really believe its working? you arent even self-aware…
You are easily the most racist person I have ever met. I am done wasting my time even responding to your nonsense.
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Haha! I love your humor! White guys wanting to use you for a sexual experiment? Yeah, that’s all your worth. We fuck you and dump you like a piece of waste. We don’t date you because we are ashamed to be seen with you in public. It will ruin our superiority complex.
On the other hand, you can’t get a white man nor any other man because you are a low-life ghetto piece of shit. We will use you as an experiment making you think we like you only to dispose of you after we get what we want.
Abagond’s a little bitch. And yes I have a white girlfriend. She is the standard of beauty in America and you are in the garbage dump. Go back to Africa and leave my fucking country. Whites built this country and WE make the fucking rules around here.
And go back to your poor ghetto, scum infested neighborhood and hide because no one wants to see putrid shit like you.
Your oppressed and you will suffer forevermore! Because you are weak and you have no say in MY country.
Get the fuck out of here and drown in formaldehyde. And go play in your pen and eat your own shit like the rest of you zoo inhabitants do.
You are pathetic and you are a obese, smelly loud-mouthed ghetto whore that no one wants. And close your legs because I can smell your nasty cunt from here. And clean up the maggots that crawl out of it as well you lowly piece of human waste.
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I’m with Jaden. I’m outta here because I feel like I am picking on a damn kid who is defenseless.
C.Ya!
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Comment by jaden24 on 30 November 2009:
I never implied I was hot and when I mentioned attraction- it was based upon who you are as a person…not looks
How am I begging for black pussy by posting a personal ad because I have a preference for them because uhh, ya know… I like black women(with the exception of you). furthermore, I am dating an adorable black girl that I met on this site so I guess you hit a dead end there.
you keep throwing your “facts”, stereotypes and assumptions everywhere and at everyone as if you are trying to enlighten them. do you really believe its working? you arent even self-aware…
You are easily the most racist person I have ever met. I am done wasting my time even responding to your nonsense.”
Typical, all whites call black people racit when black people don’t take any of their bullshit and call you fools out on your bigotry!
YOU are ugly, but of course, you think you are god’s gift to women just because you are white.
Take your superiority complex and choke on it.
And you don’t know who I am you idiot, i type words on a computer screen!
You didn’t inherit the so-called genius white brain did you?
You are using black women for sex and for amusement, don’t expect me to pat you on the back for that you ignorant piece of white trash.
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Comment by Azrazyel on 30 November 2009:
Haha! I love your humor! White guys wanting to use you for a sexual experiment? Yeah, that’s all your worth. We fuck you and dump you like a piece of waste. We don’t date you because we are ashamed to be seen with you in public. It will ruin our superiority complex.
On the other hand, you can’t get a white man nor any other man because you are a low-life ghetto piece of shit. We will use you as an experiment making you think we like you only to dispose of you after we get what we want.
Abagond’s a little bitch. And yes I have a white girlfriend. She is the standard of beauty in America and you are in the garbage dump. Go back to Africa and leave my fucking country. Whites built this country and WE make the fucking rules around here.
And go back to your poor ghetto, scum infested neighborhood and hide because no one wants to see putrid shit like you.
Your oppressed and you will suffer forevermore! Because you are weak and you have no say in MY country.
Get the fuck out of here and drown in formaldehyde. And go play in your pen and eat your own shit like the rest of you zoo inhabitants do.
You are pathetic and you are a obese, smelly loud-mouthed ghetto whore that no one wants. And close your legs because I can smell your nasty cunt from here. And clean up the maggots that crawl out of it as well you lowly piece of human waste.”
Go back to europe and take your shit eating white bitches with you!
Abagond’s a smart man, not some uneducated backwoods redenck like you.
The poor ghetto would be Russia, you white trash have the largest ghetto in the world!
IF you had a white bitch you wouldn’t be on an interracial dating site and you wouldn’t show up on abagond’s blog harassing all the black women, you pathetic skinhead trash.
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Wow…Wow. is all I can say. Why seeking for love with whom you are comfortable with makes you racist and all this other mess. As many others have stated love has no color. I really wish we could all see it for what it is and move on with our lives. Enough said……
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@Azrazyel,
One of my old Army buddies was an outstanding soldier, he was on top of his game but he had one vice that most of us could not tolerate when he was not in uniform, his behavior when he was drinking.
When he dranked his true feelings about everything came to surface. Most people were advised to ignore his behavior, because afterall, we were reminded, that it was the alcohol that caused him to misbehave. I thought then as I do now, the alcohol, gave him the courage to say what he really wanted to say all along.
I thought about him today after reading your comments from the past 24hrs. Your alcohol was your anger so to speak, and your anger allowed you to be brutally honest about what’s really in your heart.
I am not surprised, hurt or shocked. It is what it is, and the more things change in this country, the more some things stay the same.
In July you posed the question “how could I be racist, If I am interested in black women? White racists and white supremacists hate all blacks, not me”.
In October you said “I came here in hopes of communicating and possibly meeting a black female someday”.
Today your mentality is to, and I’m quoting you, “to go back to Africa and leave my______country… Go play in your pen and eat your own_______like the rest of YOU zoo inhabitants do.
It has been in my experience that only racist white people are the ones who are quick to tell black people to go back to Africa and to leave this country!!
When you you refrenced Zoo Inhabitants, who in your eyesight are the Inhabitants? Were you speaking to one person or an entire group?? Not that it really matters, because in my opinion, if you feel that way about one black person, you feel that way about all of us, it is what it is!!!
Whites built this country and Whites makes the rules???? Is this your true racist mentality, or did you just speak out of anger or were you under the influence of alcohol?????
This country was built and prospered on the backs, sweat, blood, lynchings, picking cotton from sun up to sun down, by black slaves, and yes the white people were their, willing and waiting to whip, strangle, de-humanize, lynch, and rape the slaves, by any means necessary!!!!
The history lesson is not my focus here today. I just wanted you to know that I did NOT appreciate the WHEN you reacted, out of anger. I would have respected you more, had you been Man enough and Honest enough to say how you truly felt all along, instead of the Pretending!!
There were too many people here that gave you the benefit of the doubt, who treated you for the most part in a decent manner, both the men and women and I personally think it is a slap in the face, a rope around the neck for you to now to tell any black person to go back to Africa and to leave YOUR country!!!! Her rude, crude and obnoxious behavior is in MY opinion, no just cause for the degrading comments that came from your mouth!!!!!!!
My Grandmother used to always say “talk less and listen more because then and only then, will you see a person for what they really are”!
In other words, you can’t hide your true self!!
godiva
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You figured me out. But I should not matter to you since I have no bearing on you personally. My “alcohol” is the influence of friends. I know it’s wrong, but this is how I am programmed/conditioned to feel and think.
I have much hatred and have severe racist tendencies. I admit to that. I have done many wrongs without making it right. I question myself quite often but when the button gets pushed too far, the demon within gets unleashed.
So, I suppose you excuse black people who act like that such as demon eyes? That’s fine because whites made you that way and gives you the “right” to feel and think freely without the right for white people to call you out on it.
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Godiva, its the same crap from that skinhead that the posters had to deal with on abagond’s blog.
Azrayzel was banned for calling a black female poster a monkey on Abagond’s blog.
He goes around saying he loves black women and he wants one and then he calls them monkeys and says he has a white woman.
he’s one of the skinhead white men that wants to use black women for a social experiment. Use them for sex and that’s it.
There’s alot of weirdos like that.
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Demon eyes, you are a social experiment (gone terribly wrong). That’s all your good for. Use you for sex like the good ‘ol days.
But, you seem to have much experience involving white men. Why is that demon eyes? Are you obsessed with us? I think you are! Who else goes around blogs obsessing about white men?
I have a white woman but you keep mentioning so. Are you jealous? Because no one will pick you? You hate the fact “white” is the standard for beauty and everyone looks up to them like a princess whilst they look down on you, trample you and laugh at you because of your jealousy and repeated attempts of failure to try and fit in.
You are a joke and a laughing comedy of humanity gone terribly wrong….haha
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@Azrazyel
Any and all behavior that is demoralizing matters to me, wether the behavior is directed personally at me or to other’s. Certain behavior’s breed destruction, destruction destroy’s and leaves in the ashes, despair and hoplesness.
Not ONCE did I applaud her behavior, nor do I condone her behavior. I even made mentioned that her behavior was RUDE, CRUDE, AND OBNOXIOUS. I made NO excuses for her behavior!!!
Let’s get a few things straight, no White person, no Black person have that much power over my life to influence my behavior. I do not, nor have I ever used the ill’s and the racism of America to keep me down or to keep me from EXCELLING at all that I do!
If and when I have something to say I have enough discipline, tact and honesty to deal with the behavior of the Person and NOT the Entire Race of that person.. I’m talking to you right now, not ALL white people, and take notice, there is no racial bigotry/slurs coming from my mouth, but more importantly I am not programmed or conditioned to have much hatred and severe racist tendencies, such as yourself. I love life way too much to carry around the dead weight of racism on my shoulders.
I am a individual and as an individual I have the right, the common sense to choose right from wrong, we all do, at least we should. If and when I or anyone mistreats you, then you have every right to confront them about their behavior, the racial slurs should not be a part of the dialogue when confronting such behavior!!!
There’s a line from the movie the Godfather, “keep your friends close, keep your enemies closer”. I would like to add to this sentiment by saying “you should know the difference between your friends and your enemies”!
If your friends is the cause of your behavior and your mentality, then maybe you need some new friends… True friends bring out the best in a person, true friends inspire you to do well, and most of all true friends want the very BEST for your life..
I’ve always believed that it is a cop out a weak excuse for a person to use their friends and upbringing to justify their racist views.. If you know in your heart that racism and the hatred of people is wrong, then DENOUCNE it, take NO part in it and don’t look back! Either you agree with it or you don’t and if you lose these so called friends in the process, then they weren’t your TRUE friends to begin with! Everyone that smiles in your face is not necessarily your friend.
You can’t have it both ways, you can’t be the victim and the perpetrator at the same time!!!! Sometimes in life you have to make difficult choices and that means sometimes you might have to stand alone for a little while, or for a long while, however when one door closes, there’s usually a window that’s open. Making sound decision’s, difficult decision’s can build character!! Maybe it’s time that you choose the good or the evil, racism is evil and it is not of GOD or His Will for his People.
Both you and I will be held accountable for every word and every deed that we committed to in our lives.
You should want better for your life! You should take the necessary steps in your life to become the best Man that you can be and the Man the God want’s you to be, but it will not happen if you don’t want it for your life!
godiva
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I appreciate your words godiva. I have prayed and prayed for understanding and reasoning of why I act and feel and think the way I do. Deep down inside it hurts. It hurts that I think this way about another human being or beings. I question why I have so much anger and hate. I question why I am not a stronger man and have more humanity to take the higher road. Inside I am the one who is weak. I have built my foundation on sand. I have allowed the evils to succumb to me and wipe out what is good.
I am not deceiving you with these words, merely expressing my thoughts at this time. Take it for what it is. I pray to God but I hear nor see no direction. So it seems I give up. I give way to negative aspects in favor of positive.
I am racist. I can admit that. I don’t understand why I am. I have not always known of my ways of thinking before until the last year. Now that I realize I embrace it for the bad in replacing the good. Maybe I have always been this way growing up without realizing what I am doing.
I just don’t know…
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@Redeyes,
I can not nor will I comment on what Az said on another blog because if I don’t read/see it for myself, then as far as I’m concerned it’s hearsay.
Now since I believe in being honest I will say to you that your behavior, in my opinion has not been very noble or ladylike. You came on here in a very confrontational and somewhat mean spirited way.
I believe in free speech and you have every right to speak your mind but not everyone is, or will agree with ALL that you say, and they have a right to say so, but the name calling and the stereotyping is non-productive and inappropiate.
The foul language is offensive, the graphic sexual rhetoric is very unladylike. I’m old school and this is one of my pet peeves with women of today.
godiva
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wow, what’s going on here??? Pls can we behave like adults?? This is very upsetting when we are treating each other like this. We are all here looking for love and not to fight.
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Azrazyel, you’re still my boy! I believe everyone is a little racist, especially in this culture, whether it be of hatred or just plain ignorance. That chick is just stupid. I can’t believe you let her push you that far. Anyway, how’s your relationship going? Glad to hear you found someone.
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It’s going good bro. She is a metalhead just like me. Very short. Makes me feel better since I am short myself. Actually met her while helping my buddy D.J. He was playing a slow-dance song and she asked me to join her, so I did.
I don’t want to speak anymore right now because I am ashamed of myself and my head is hung low in disappointment. I am not deserving of good company right now. I have a lot to think about.
In the meantime take care of yourself.
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Comment by Azrazyel on 30 November 2009:
Demon eyes, you are a social experiment (gone terribly wrong). That’s all your good for. Use you for sex like the good ‘ol days.
But, you seem to have much experience involving white men. Why is that demon eyes? Are you obsessed with us? I think you are! Who else goes around blogs obsessing about white men?
I have a white woman but you keep mentioning so. Are you jealous? Because no one will pick you? You hate the fact “white” is the standard for beauty and everyone looks up to them like a princess whilst they look down on you, trample you and laugh at you because of your jealousy and repeated attempts of failure to try and fit in.
You are a joke and a laughing comedy of humanity gone terribly wrong….haha”
Your ignorant ass showed up on abagond’s blog again posting under different names! You fool we know its you! switching around names ain’t gonna change anything! sicko!
You told a black lady you would “rip her monkey face off” and then you have the nerve to show up on a dating site looking for black women?
Like i said another skinhead punk going to any black oriented website you can to harass black people.
If you had a girlfriend peckerwood, you wouldn’t show up here hounding black women.
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Comment by Azrazyel on 30 November 2009:
I appreciate your words godiva. I have prayed and prayed for understanding and reasoning of why I act and feel and think the way I do. Deep down inside it hurts. It hurts that I think this way about another human being or beings. I question why I have so much anger and hate. I question why I am not a stronger man and have more humanity to take the higher road. Inside I am the one who is weak. I have built my foundation on sand. I have allowed the evils to succumb to me and wipe out what is good.
I am not deceiving you with these words, merely expressing my thoughts at this time. Take it for what it is. I pray to God but I hear nor see no direction. So it seems I give up. I give way to negative aspects in favor of positive.
I am racist. I can admit that. I don’t understand why I am. I have not always known of my ways of thinking before until the last year. Now that I realize I embrace it for the bad in replacing the good. Maybe I have always been this way growing up without realizing what I am doing.
I just don’t know…”
Why are you on here?
Black women ain’t your personal therapists!
Yes you’re a racist, alreay know that, question is, why are you seeking black women since you are racist?
Black women are not your playtoys or punching bags!
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Comment by Ichibod on 1 December 2009:
Azrazyel, you’re still my boy! I believe everyone is a little racist, especially in this culture, whether it be of hatred or just plain ignorance. That chick is just stupid. I can’t believe you let her push you that far. Anyway, how’s your relationship going? Glad to hear you found someone.”
YOU are an idiot, a black man being buddies with a skinhead white supremacist.
You must be an ass-kissing uncle tom as well.
That freak has no girlfriend, get it?
He goes to any black website he can to harass black people and he has a sick fetish for black women.
We already dealt with his ignorant ass on abagond’s blog, he fucked with every black poster on there.
Whining and complaining about black women, he’s sick.
Still gonna be buddies with him when he threatens to rip YOUR monkey face off?
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Comment by godiva61 on 30 November 2009:
@Redeyes,
I can not nor will I comment on what Az said on another blog because if I don’t read/see it for myself, then as far as I’m concerned it’s hearsay.
Now since I believe in being honest I will say to you that your behavior, in my opinion has not been very noble or ladylike. You came on here in a very confrontational and somewhat mean spirited way.
I believe in free speech and you have every right to speak your mind but not everyone is, or will agree with ALL that you say, and they have a right to say so, but the name calling and the stereotyping is non-productive and inappropiate.
The foul language is offensive, the graphic sexual rhetoric is very unladylike. I’m old school and this is one of my pet peeves with women of today.
godiva”
Godiva I don’t give a shit what you think.
And i don’t care what you “agree with”, go to the blog and read his silly comments for yourself.
This ignorant freak has threatened to “beat the black off of me” and he has called other posters monkeys and niggers.
It is ridiculous that this fool goes from abagond’s blog calling black women ghetto and monkeys to a dating website looking for black pussy.
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Hello everyone. It is such a shame to see all the hate and negative words being expressed here. This is a service that we are all paying for to meet someone positive. This is also the season for love to be shared for all. Before anyone else decides to say something negative give it some thought. It takse less muscles to smile than to frown. Be of good cheer and spread love, not hate. Hope everyone had a wonderful holiday with their loved ones.
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Wow! I feel sorry for some of you guys. You are so angry. Honestly, there are white men who like black women and there are some who do not. Obviously, many like them because this website exists. Nine times out of 10 when I leave the house, I am approached by white men, and I am a Black woman. It seems as though more white men find me attractive than black men.
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Are we sure this is an Interracial DATING site??? Reads more like an Interracial HATING site to me. I feel violated…
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I did have a wonderful holiday, Ebonique. How about yourself? It’s a joy to see all of your loving and positive words being expressed here.
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Well, I’m a white woman and frankly, I think all this racism is non-sense. I am attracted to black men and white men. I really have no preference because it’s all about their character and integrity.
As far as some of the comments made about how white woman have attitudes wondering why a man wouldn’t be with them instead of with a black woman. I have to say that I think black woman are beautiful and I’ve often wondered why a black man would be interested in me because of that… Now I’m definitely not a lesbian, but appreciate everyone and can be honest about what I think about how anyone looks.
It’s ashame that all these years have passed, yet we still have prejudice in this world. What IF we were all blind? Hmmm, how would we love if we couldn’t see who we were choosing?
Take Care!
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Thank you Ichibod.My holiday was nice. I hope you had an enjoyable one as well.
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Azrazyel,
I can respect that you own up to your faults. I have sympathy for you because I too used to be racist to a mild degree. We are products of our environments. I don’t know about you but I was raised in an environment where there wasn’t severe hate for blacks but jokes were told that were degrading. It wasn’t til about 11th grade that I started to be more of an individual and think for myself. I moved away and started to find the person that I wanted to be that felt good. It takes a lot of time and we all have our own unique circumstances that determine how long it takes to progress. Keep your head up and don’t get into fights with people that are racist because they will try to drag you down to their level and make you feel ugly. If your friends aren’t a good influence- find different friends that don’t have to degrade others for an easy laugh or to feel good about themselves.
Everyone,
I want to thank you for providing positive comments despite those whose futile attempts tried to bring out the worst in us. We can be beautiful people when we try to mend the hurt that history has given us and keep it behind us. We have a bright future to look forward to! We may have different colors of skin but we all bleed, we all hurt, we all laugh and we all can love!
I have much love for all of you black ladies. I like your style and think you are beautiful. You have a lot of great values, morals and traits that are awesome. I appreciate that you are starting to look outside of your color and comfort zone to consider us whiteys =]
I hope everyone has a great time during these holidays! Be safe and thankful!
~Jaden
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Woe! This was crazy, I’d never really looked into the articles and blogging on here… this was a first for me and boy did it get heated.
Representing the human race…I say I am flawed in my flesh no matter its color… I curse my own humanity and that of others, because it takes away from our souls true desire to be loved with no boundry.
I am Peach and I like Brown…always have, always will. It was born in me… The only thing I am prejudice about is… well, honestly my own race because that’s whose ignorance I have had more life experience with. So truly I am prejudice against ignorance and judgement!
Forgive us Father for we Know not what we do…
Just love me and I surely love you!
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Thank you for your comments Jaden. I really appreciate that. I’m in the process of soul-searching and healing. I have a distance to go but only through God (with whom I trust) is where I can find complete understanding and solace. As unclean in my transgressions that I be only gives me a stronger sense and understanding as well as will to improve and drive the poison within my mind. I know inside I am a good and non-hateful human being, but I have failed into an abnormal extremity of anger driven through hatred.
My process is to find and understand the reasoning why I have the poor mentality of a good man I so claim. I believe when I can release this poison that plagues me only then can my true colors of good character shine.
I am extremely apologetic to everyone I may have offended and feel deep regret for my unsolicited actions.
Here is a Christmas poem I dug up.
“Twas The Night Before Jesus Came”
Twas the night before Jesus came and all through the house,
Not a creature was praying, not one in the house.
Their bibles were lain on the shelf without care,
In hopes that Jesus would not come there.
The children were dressing to crawl into bed,
Not once ever kneeling or bowing a head.
And mom in her rocker with baby on her lap,
Was watching the Late Show while I took a nap.
When out of the East there arose such a clatter,
I sprang to my feet to see what was the matter.
Away to the window I flew like a flash,
Tore open the shutters and threw up the sash.
When what to my wondering eyes should appear,
But angels proclaiming Jesus was here!
With a light like the sun sending forth a bright ray,
I knew in a moment this must be THE DAY!
The light of His face made me cover my head,
It was Jesus! returning just like he had said.
And though I possessed worldly wisdom and wealth,
I cried when I saw Him in spite of myself.
In the book of life which He held in his hand,
Was written the name of every saved man.
He spoke not a word as He searched for my name,
When he said “it’s not here” my head hung in shame.
The people whose names had been written with love,
He gathered to take to His Father above.
With those who were ready He rose without a sound,
While all the rest were left standing around.
I fell to my knees. But it was too late,
I had waited too long and thus sealed my fate.
I stood and cried as they rose out of sight,
Oh, if only I had been ready tonight.
In the words of this poem the meaning is clear,
The coming of Jesus is drawing near.
There’s only one life and when comes the last call,
We’ll find that the Bible was true after all!
Happy Holidays everyone and have a Blessed and safe Christmas.
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I have been reading some of the comments,and wow.This is not the way to be with each other.We are all beautiful people in different ways.Was Adam WHITE,EveBLACK,come on people we are one just different culture.CHECK this out,lived back east,now in AZ. MY SKIN IS DARK NOW,aim i black or aim i white? It”s were we come from,and how we were brought up. That’s what needs to be taught in our homes today.We can live together,schooltogether,war,sports,and so on,but we can’t love together.No blackwomen do not look like monkeys,they are very beautiful people,just like the rest of the world.
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Comment by Azrazyel on 4 December 2009:
Thank you for your comments Jaden. I really appreciate that. I’m in the process of soul-searching and healing. I have a distance to go but only through God (with whom I trust) is where I can find complete understanding and solace. As unclean in my transgressions that I be only gives me a stronger sense and understanding as well as will to improve and drive the poison within my mind. I know inside I am a good and non-hateful human being, but I have failed into an abnormal extremity of anger driven through hatred.
My process is to find and understand the reasoning why I have the poor mentality of a good man I so claim. I believe when I can release this poison that plagues me only then can my true colors of good character shine.
I am extremely apologetic to everyone I may have offended and feel deep regret for my unsolicited actions.”
BULLSHIT. You did the same thing on abagond’s blog, “oh poor me, i’m sorry” and then you went right back to calling the black women nasty names.
Typical white trash with a fetish for black women.
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mixing of the races is wrong…but beneficial to whites…there is a push for whites to breed w/ blk caus of their melanin…as the hole in the ozone gets bigger…so does the rate for their skin cancer. All blk skin does is manufacture MORE melanin to protect them…but this isnt beneficial to the blk race cause it weakens their immune systems and creates gentic mutations which leads to pancreas cancers, breast cancer, diabetes along w/ their diets this is disaster to their race…all the above are not issues in africa where there is less mixing of the white races.
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Very awesome poem Azrazyel. Thanks for sharing.
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Your welcome sanddie. It’s not mine though, I dug that up that my grandmother gave me before she passed away.
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@Azrazyel,
I just read your poem and I thouroughly ejoyed it!
Grandmother’s and our Elders are awesome!!!!!! Also good job for tuning out the EVIL comments. Give EVIL NO POWER!!!
Thanks for sharing!
jaden24,
You have such a endearing and gentle spirit.. Great advice you gave to Az, and yes we ALL can love, even through the difficulties, and for those who are hell bent on being EVIL leave them to their own misery, they will soon self destruct, it’s just a matter of time.
godiva
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Azrazyel how are you on here talking about black women. This is an interracial website. I am not understanding or seeing were any hate should be on here. You call black women monkeys and niggers. That is unacceptable just like this article that was used to bring the hate toward the black female. The devil uses man well. He is so able to be used for that kind of spiritual nonsense. This is dead and if you are racist you shouldn’t be on here. You don’t know what that lady looks like and she doesn’t know what you look like really. This article is a one sided angry starter. Some of you got played to show who you really are and what you really think. I actually hope no woman will go with such an easily angry man. I feel for any race that would fall into your web. The both of you need to grow up and talk like grown-ups and not tiny tots from the playground that the teachers have to separate from fighting. Stereotyping any race isn’t good. There are skinny and thin black women out there but TV doesn’t want to show those to anyone because they know the mind activates by sight. So hopefully all black women will become fat so they will be on the other side of the dating pool. I am not sure what black women did in this country but I do know she was in the same boat with the black male. The black male can not be here without his female and visa versa. I also notice that there is huge slant toward the black woman not to date outside her race. If she does it starts a lot of hate. She is suppose to behave and do as she is told. She is the last female to break from male chauvinism, although she is the head of the house due to racial profiling. She has allow a lot of pain to sit on her shoulders without saying a word which was her biggest mistake. She has also allowed her black male to speak bad about her to control her dating habits. You really think a black man doesn’t want a black woman…you will never understand then the ill-effects of slavery. My mum is a women of colour, Jewish and English, so I have different thought process than most of you on here. I am looking at the house and I see the windows clearly. My dad is true American Indian. My mum’s mum had red hair do you know how much flack I get for having red hair in the states, a lot, so there is some real issues here that really need to be solved and it starts with everyone looking inside themselves. All of this anger and name calling, tell me that not too many people should be on here or in a relationship. What is Azrazyel on here for in the first place? Why does the interracial website allow mud-slinging on the black female when this should be a site to express love toward relationships. NOW HEAR THIS NOW HEAR THIS!!! BLACK WOMEN ARE USE TO INTERRACIAL DATING. IT IS NOT NEW. FREDERICK DOUGLAS WAS MARRIED TO A WHITE WOMAN. BIG DEAL. PEOPLE NEED TO GET OVER THEMSELVES. G-d meant for all women to be loved. Black women have never enslaved, started a war, burned down a church or lynched anyone so why the hate…you guys need to work your hostilities out in the right place. Men fight; men stop picking on women. White men and Black men need to talk and stop putting it out on the black female. There are beautiful black women like any other races of women. It’s a good thing you can’t have her too. G-d does not have respect of persons. You think telling someone they are unattractive is healthy so you can lower the self-esteem so they can be used and abused. Small minded people believe a beautiful black woman is a slut just because she is beautiful. When they find out she is not and won’t bend to their desire they spew a lot of hate out toward the beautiful black woman. Believe me I have seen it in action. NOW HEAR THIS, NOW HEAR THIS BLACK WOMEN EVERYWHERE GET A REAL MAN. NOT ONE WHO THINKS WITH HIS GENITALIA BUT WITH HIS MIND AND HEART, YOU SEE G-D DID CREATE THOSE MEN, REGARDLESS OF WHAT RACE. AND THEY DON’T SPEW HATE NO MATTER WHO TURNS THEM DOWN OR REGARDLESS OF A PAST, PRESENT, OR FUTURE RELATIONSHIP. azrazyel, yes I put you under my foot, as I AM instructed me to do, you have been rebuked.
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Sorry but I had to say it. I have seen nothing but evil articles directed to black women on this site and I don’t know why. There are no articles on here in regards to much else. It is a real shame. I hope the haters really lose the hate because it has been hurting and killing people for a very long time.
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I can honestly say that I can understand where some black women come from. It’s not they really disappprove of the relationship they just wish they could have it. I from the south and for the most part you will more then likely find a black man with a white woman. For the black women this is hard to take sometimes because we know that there aren’t many white men or men of other races who actually date black women. Whether its because they are just not attracted to black women or they are and just don’t want to “disappoint” their family. This is what we have to deal with. A very dwindling pool of men for the black women to choose from. It gets very frustrating after awhile and it does contribute to less marriages in the black community. I have friends who are black and want to date black men but mostly when black men become more affluent they date and marry white women. Which is why I think you find more single affluent black women then black men.
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Hmmmm, I must be the exception to the rule, bc I don’t see what the issue is of interracial dating. What’s wrong with enjoying the company of somebody who is of a different colour, quite frankly I only date white guys, bc it’s what I’m attracted to and I have no qualms or issues when I see mixed couples. I want to go tell them,they rock for breaking the norm and being with somebody they care about who just happens to be a different colour. When is the rest of the world going to catch up and realize that mixed couples are awesome, and their kids are the cutest,lol! Sigh, guess until then I’ll continue to deal with the stares of being an amazingly beautiful black gal with the really cute white guys. Mixed couples are a great way to learn about another culture anyways, sheesh. I’ll shut up now and go back to getting grief from the black community, hmm I wonder if I’m even still considered a member,lol. ( I swear the way black people treat me when is horrible.) Oreo over and out..
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I have dated black women since I was 43 years old and met someone who found me attractive. I remember when black women would absolutely run the other way as if I was insane for even looking at her. Finally, things started changing, but the people I get the most problems with are black people, male and female. I did, one night have some drunk white guy, cowboy type, walked up behind me and my date and called me a “nigger lover”. Now, I get white people who will see me with my lady friend and while she is in the bathroom tell me that my white wife at home doesn’t deserve this. The biggest problem is OLDER people (black and white) can’t get it through their head that interracial relationships are here, they need to get over it, get on with their life and quit whining about things changing. That is the biggest problem for them, they are used to things being a certain way and anything different scares them. There are black ministers telling black women to stay away from us white devils, we just want to use them for sex and throw them away. The fact is that I hear black women talking about BLACK MEN having done that same thing for centuries. There are all kinds of people so why do we have to get stuck in one mode. The statistics now are that 49 % of black women are going to go unmarried if they don’t look outside of their race. Why should they be alone for their whole lives? Black women talk about men being afraid of commitment, but then are afraid of being in a commitment to a white man. No matter how you slice it, you can’t want a man and not want him completely and not expect him to be confused. Your family is going to give you crap about it, but you have to ignore them until they come to understand that he DOES prefer and love you over anyone else.
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I believe the reason white men stay away from black women is because they are constantly finding excuses to date out. Always complaining about what black men are doing. Never do you see a black woman saying she dates out of her race without involving the words “black men/man”. It runs off as desperate and no man (regardless of race) wants a desperate woman.
Black women talk about white men using them as a fetish then at the same time using the “black man” example as an excuse. I am telling you it is an utter turnoff. Maybe if you weren’t “forced” to look out people would except you more. And stop using excuses to date other races, it’s rather lame and lackluster and shows your intentions.
This blog is infested with excuses, just look around and you will see it reeks of desperation. I know some of you will get offended but deep down inside you know it has some validity to it. Everyone needs to make it easier for themselves and stop making pathetic excuses to date a white or non-black man.
Until that day arrives all things remain laughable and everything void of legitimacy. Only a few black women are real and finding that is the same as seeking out a needle in a haystack. Everything else is fruition in vain.
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Dear AZ
I am glad you addressed that. Instead of looking at white men as ATM machines. Look at them as relationship prospects.
It really doesn’t matter. These sellout black women get “used” back and they don’t like it very much.
I figure you will see more white me being dragged on “Maury” by desperate black women very soon.
They are going to say “Maury he is my baby father you see the ears”.
Right stupid bitch, turns out he is not the father.
Have a nice day.
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