Are black women the only opponents of interracial relationships?
Warning: This article may be offensive to some readers. This is not the objective. The article is in no way meant to defame or inflame any parties, groups or persons.
"Some black guys are going to date white girls. Attempting to beat up the white girls will not turn that tide. …You’d be better off learning to love yourself than becoming mired in bitterness and hate over that thing that’s not really about you." From the post Sometimes the White Girl (Or Guy) Isn’t about You (Unconventional Wisdom) by The Black Snob
Just like the above excerpt suggests, there is this popular belief that black women see interracial relationships as a personal insult to them. This issue has been raised over and over again. And after reading many articles that support that belief, I can’t help but wonder why people portray black women to be the only ones who react disapprovingly to interracial relationships.
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A former girlfriend of mine (black) once told me she felt that some of my white female friends and Asian women weren’t jazzed at all about our relationship. And when I asked her if they openly told her so, she told me they didn't have to shout about their disapproval; their body language (yeah you know those stares accompanied by sneers, the sizing-up up and down look) said it all. Well, to tell you the truth, I later noticed that they were a hell lot nicer to her when she was just friend than when we started dating.
I believe she is not only black woman who gets this general bitchiness because of her involvement with a non-black man? Here is how one woman describes this whole resentment to black white relationships:
"…the reasons a black woman might object to an interracial relationship are wholly different from the reasons a white woman might. Black women worry how the black community will be affected overall if, say, the most successful black men find themselves with white women again and again. They worry about the effect interracial relationships have on low marriage rates in the black community. In contrast, when I encounter white women who cop an attitude upon discovering that my boyfriend and I are an item, their hostility comes from a very different place—a place of superiority.
It’s as if they are asking themselves, “Why on earth would he be with a black girl when I’m here?""
Well, I have been asked a similar question by a white woman who wanted a relationship with me. I took it lightly coz I figured it was just the normal kind of jealousy anyone would feel if the object of their desire fell in love with another. So I gotta ask: Do white women feel this way when they see a non-white woman with an eligible white man?
If so, why then should black women continue to bear the responsibility for the hostility that black white couples face when we know very well that some black men, white women and Asian women (as I have heard) - are also opposed to such unions? Are black women the only foes of interracial relationships? Has anyone experienced this kind of 'hostility' from white men?
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PassionateB says:Posted: 04 Dec 09Woe! This was crazy, I'd never really looked into the articles and blogging on here... this was a first for me and boy did it get heated. Representing the human race...I say I am flawed in my flesh no matter its color... I curse my own humanity and that of others, because it takes away from our souls true desire to be loved with no boundry. I am Peach and I like Brown...always have, always will. It was born in me... The only thing I am prejudice about is... well, honestly my own race because that's whose ignorance I have had more life experience with. So truly I am prejudice against ignorance and judgement! Forgive us Father for we Know not what we do... Just love me and I surely love you!
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jaden24 says:Posted: 04 Dec 09Azrazyel, I can respect that you own up to your faults. I have sympathy for you because I too used to be racist to a mild degree. We are products of our environments. I don’t know about you but I was raised in an environment where there wasn’t severe hate for blacks but jokes were told that were degrading. It wasn’t til about 11th grade that I started to be more of an individual and think for myself. I moved away and started to find the person that I wanted to be that felt good. It takes a lot of time and we all have our own unique circumstances that determine how long it takes to progress. Keep your head up and don’t get into fights with people that are racist because they will try to drag you down to their level and make you feel ugly. If your friends aren’t a good influence- find different friends that don’t have to degrade others for an easy laugh or to feel good about themselves. Everyone, I want to thank you for providing positive comments despite those whose futile attempts tried to bring out the worst in us. We can be beautiful people when we try to mend the hurt that history has given us and keep it behind us. We have a bright future to look forward to! We may have different colors of skin but we all bleed, we all hurt, we all laugh and we all can love! I have much love for all of you black ladies. I like your style and think you are beautiful. You have a lot of great values, morals and traits that are awesome. I appreciate that you are starting to look outside of your color and comfort zone to consider us whiteys =] I hope everyone has a great time during these holidays! Be safe and thankful! ~Jaden
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Ebonique says:Posted: 04 Dec 09Thank you Ichibod.My holiday was nice. I hope you had an enjoyable one as well.
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sanddie says:Posted: 04 Dec 09Well, I'm a white woman and frankly, I think all this racism is non-sense. I am attracted to black men and white men. I really have no preference because it's all about their character and integrity. As far as some of the comments made about how white woman have attitudes wondering why a man wouldn't be with them instead of with a black woman. I have to say that I think black woman are beautiful and I've often wondered why a black man would be interested in me because of that... Now I'm definitely not a lesbian, but appreciate everyone and can be honest about what I think about how anyone looks. It's ashame that all these years have passed, yet we still have prejudice in this world. What IF we were all blind? Hmmm, how would we love if we couldn't see who we were choosing? Take Care!
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Ichibod says:Posted: 03 Dec 09I did have a wonderful holiday, Ebonique. How about yourself? It's a joy to see all of your loving and positive words being expressed here.
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AlexzandraC says:Posted: 02 Dec 09
Are we sure this is an Interracial DATING site??? Reads more like an Interracial HATING site to me. I feel violated...
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Cocoa says:Posted: 02 Dec 09
Wow! I feel sorry for some of you guys. You are so angry. Honestly, there are white men who like black women and there are some who do not. Obviously, many like them because this website exists. Nine times out of 10 when I leave the house, I am approached by white men, and I am a Black woman. It seems as though more white men find me attractive than black men.
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Ebonique says:Posted: 01 Dec 09
Hello everyone. It is such a shame to see all the hate and negative words being expressed here. This is a service that we are all paying for to meet someone positive. This is also the season for love to be shared for all. Before anyone else decides to say something negative give it some thought. It takse less muscles to smile than to frown. Be of good cheer and spread love, not hate. Hope everyone had a wonderful holiday with their loved ones.
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ErzulieRedEyes says:Posted: 01 Dec 09
Comment by godiva61 on 30 November 2009: @Redeyes, I can not nor will I comment on what Az said on another blog because if I don’t read/see it for myself, then as far as I’m concerned it’s hearsay. Now since I believe in being honest I will say to you that your behavior, in my opinion has not been very noble or ladylike. You came on here in a very confrontational and somewhat mean spirited way. I believe in free speech and you have every right to speak your mind but not everyone is, or will agree with ALL that you say, and they have a right to say so, but the name calling and the stereotyping is non-productive and inappropiate. The foul language is offensive, the graphic sexual rhetoric is very unladylike. I’m old school and this is one of my pet peeves with women of today. godiva" Godiva I don't give a shit what you think. And i don't care what you "agree with", go to the blog and read his silly comments for yourself. This ignorant freak has threatened to "beat the black off of me" and he has called other posters monkeys and niggers. It is ridiculous that this fool goes from abagond's blog calling black women ghetto and monkeys to a dating website looking for black pussy.
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ErzulieRedEyes says:Posted: 01 Dec 09
Comment by Ichibod on 1 December 2009: Azrazyel, you’re still my boy! I believe everyone is a little racist, especially in this culture, whether it be of hatred or just plain ignorance. That chick is just stupid. I can’t believe you let her push you that far. Anyway, how’s your relationship going? Glad to hear you found someone." YOU are an idiot, a black man being buddies with a skinhead white supremacist. You must be an ass-kissing uncle tom as well. That freak has no girlfriend, get it? He goes to any black website he can to harass black people and he has a sick fetish for black women. We already dealt with his ignorant ass on abagond's blog, he fucked with every black poster on there. Whining and complaining about black women, he's sick. Still gonna be buddies with him when he threatens to rip YOUR monkey face off?
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ErzulieRedEyes says:Posted: 01 Dec 09
Comment by Azrazyel on 30 November 2009: I appreciate your words godiva. I have prayed and prayed for understanding and reasoning of why I act and feel and think the way I do. Deep down inside it hurts. It hurts that I think this way about another human being or beings. I question why I have so much anger and hate. I question why I am not a stronger man and have more humanity to take the higher road. Inside I am the one who is weak. I have built my foundation on sand. I have allowed the evils to succumb to me and wipe out what is good. I am not deceiving you with these words, merely expressing my thoughts at this time. Take it for what it is. I pray to God but I hear nor see no direction. So it seems I give up. I give way to negative aspects in favor of positive. I am racist. I can admit that. I don’t understand why I am. I have not always known of my ways of thinking before until the last year. Now that I realize I embrace it for the bad in replacing the good. Maybe I have always been this way growing up without realizing what I am doing. I just don’t know…" Why are you on here? Black women ain't your personal therapists! Yes you're a racist, alreay know that, question is, why are you seeking black women since you are racist? Black women are not your playtoys or punching bags!
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ErzulieRedEyes says:Posted: 01 Dec 09
Comment by Azrazyel on 30 November 2009: Demon eyes, you are a social experiment (gone terribly wrong). That’s all your good for. Use you for sex like the good ‘ol days. But, you seem to have much experience involving white men. Why is that demon eyes? Are you obsessed with us? I think you are! Who else goes around blogs obsessing about white men? I have a white woman but you keep mentioning so. Are you jealous? Because no one will pick you? You hate the fact “white” is the standard for beauty and everyone looks up to them like a princess whilst they look down on you, trample you and laugh at you because of your jealousy and repeated attempts of failure to try and fit in. You are a joke and a laughing comedy of humanity gone terribly wrong….haha" Your ignorant ass showed up on abagond's blog again posting under different names! You fool we know its you! switching around names ain't gonna change anything! sicko! You told a black lady you would "rip her monkey face off" and then you have the nerve to show up on a dating site looking for black women? Like i said another skinhead punk going to any black oriented website you can to harass black people. If you had a girlfriend peckerwood, you wouldn't show up here hounding black women.
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Azrazyel says:Posted: 01 Dec 09
It's going good bro. She is a metalhead just like me. Very short. Makes me feel better since I am short myself. Actually met her while helping my buddy D.J. He was playing a slow-dance song and she asked me to join her, so I did. I don't want to speak anymore right now because I am ashamed of myself and my head is hung low in disappointment. I am not deserving of good company right now. I have a lot to think about. In the meantime take care of yourself.
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Ichibod says:Posted: 01 Dec 09
Azrazyel, you're still my boy! I believe everyone is a little racist, especially in this culture, whether it be of hatred or just plain ignorance. That chick is just stupid. I can't believe you let her push you that far. Anyway, how's your relationship going? Glad to hear you found someone.
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sweetntender says:Posted: 01 Dec 09
wow, what's going on here??? Pls can we behave like adults?? This is very upsetting when we are treating each other like this. We are all here looking for love and not to fight.
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godiva61 says:Posted: 30 Nov 09
@Redeyes, I can not nor will I comment on what Az said on another blog because if I don't read/see it for myself, then as far as I'm concerned it's hearsay. Now since I believe in being honest I will say to you that your behavior, in my opinion has not been very noble or ladylike. You came on here in a very confrontational and somewhat mean spirited way. I believe in free speech and you have every right to speak your mind but not everyone is, or will agree with ALL that you say, and they have a right to say so, but the name calling and the stereotyping is non-productive and inappropiate. The foul language is offensive, the graphic sexual rhetoric is very unladylike. I'm old school and this is one of my pet peeves with women of today. godiva
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Azrazyel says:Posted: 30 Nov 09
I appreciate your words godiva. I have prayed and prayed for understanding and reasoning of why I act and feel and think the way I do. Deep down inside it hurts. It hurts that I think this way about another human being or beings. I question why I have so much anger and hate. I question why I am not a stronger man and have more humanity to take the higher road. Inside I am the one who is weak. I have built my foundation on sand. I have allowed the evils to succumb to me and wipe out what is good. I am not deceiving you with these words, merely expressing my thoughts at this time. Take it for what it is. I pray to God but I hear nor see no direction. So it seems I give up. I give way to negative aspects in favor of positive. I am racist. I can admit that. I don't understand why I am. I have not always known of my ways of thinking before until the last year. Now that I realize I embrace it for the bad in replacing the good. Maybe I have always been this way growing up without realizing what I am doing. I just don't know...
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godiva61 says:Posted: 30 Nov 09
@Azrazyel Any and all behavior that is demoralizing matters to me, wether the behavior is directed personally at me or to other's. Certain behavior's breed destruction, destruction destroy's and leaves in the ashes, despair and hoplesness. Not ONCE did I applaud her behavior, nor do I condone her behavior. I even made mentioned that her behavior was RUDE, CRUDE, AND OBNOXIOUS. I made NO excuses for her behavior!!! Let's get a few things straight, no White person, no Black person have that much power over my life to influence my behavior. I do not, nor have I ever used the ill's and the racism of America to keep me down or to keep me from EXCELLING at all that I do! If and when I have something to say I have enough discipline, tact and honesty to deal with the behavior of the Person and NOT the Entire Race of that person.. I'm talking to you right now, not ALL white people, and take notice, there is no racial bigotry/slurs coming from my mouth, but more importantly I am not programmed or conditioned to have much hatred and severe racist tendencies, such as yourself. I love life way too much to carry around the dead weight of racism on my shoulders. I am a individual and as an individual I have the right, the common sense to choose right from wrong, we all do, at least we should. If and when I or anyone mistreats you, then you have every right to confront them about their behavior, the racial slurs should not be a part of the dialogue when confronting such behavior!!! There's a line from the movie the Godfather, "keep your friends close, keep your enemies closer". I would like to add to this sentiment by saying "you should know the difference between your friends and your enemies"! If your friends is the cause of your behavior and your mentality, then maybe you need some new friends... True friends bring out the best in a person, true friends inspire you to do well, and most of all true friends want the very BEST for your life.. I've always believed that it is a cop out a weak excuse for a person to use their friends and upbringing to justify their racist views.. If you know in your heart that racism and the hatred of people is wrong, then DENOUCNE it, take NO part in it and don't look back! Either you agree with it or you don't and if you lose these so called friends in the process, then they weren't your TRUE friends to begin with! Everyone that smiles in your face is not necessarily your friend. You can't have it both ways, you can't be the victim and the perpetrator at the same time!!!! Sometimes in life you have to make difficult choices and that means sometimes you might have to stand alone for a little while, or for a long while, however when one door closes, there's usually a window that's open. Making sound decision's, difficult decision's can build character!! Maybe it's time that you choose the good or the evil, racism is evil and it is not of GOD or His Will for his People. Both you and I will be held accountable for every word and every deed that we committed to in our lives. You should want better for your life! You should take the necessary steps in your life to become the best Man that you can be and the Man the God want's you to be, but it will not happen if you don't want it for your life! godiva
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Azrazyel says:Posted: 30 Nov 09
Demon eyes, you are a social experiment (gone terribly wrong). That's all your good for. Use you for sex like the good 'ol days. But, you seem to have much experience involving white men. Why is that demon eyes? Are you obsessed with us? I think you are! Who else goes around blogs obsessing about white men? I have a white woman but you keep mentioning so. Are you jealous? Because no one will pick you? You hate the fact "white" is the standard for beauty and everyone looks up to them like a princess whilst they look down on you, trample you and laugh at you because of your jealousy and repeated attempts of failure to try and fit in. You are a joke and a laughing comedy of humanity gone terribly wrong....haha
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ErzulieRedEyes says:Posted: 30 Nov 09
Godiva, its the same crap from that skinhead that the posters had to deal with on abagond's blog. Azrayzel was banned for calling a black female poster a monkey on Abagond's blog. He goes around saying he loves black women and he wants one and then he calls them monkeys and says he has a white woman. he's one of the skinhead white men that wants to use black women for a social experiment. Use them for sex and that's it. There's alot of weirdos like that.
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Azrazyel says:Posted: 30 Nov 09
You figured me out. But I should not matter to you since I have no bearing on you personally. My "alcohol" is the influence of friends. I know it's wrong, but this is how I am programmed/conditioned to feel and think. I have much hatred and have severe racist tendencies. I admit to that. I have done many wrongs without making it right. I question myself quite often but when the button gets pushed too far, the demon within gets unleashed. So, I suppose you excuse black people who act like that such as demon eyes? That's fine because whites made you that way and gives you the "right" to feel and think freely without the right for white people to call you out on it.
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godiva61 says:Posted: 30 Nov 09
@Azrazyel, One of my old Army buddies was an outstanding soldier, he was on top of his game but he had one vice that most of us could not tolerate when he was not in uniform, his behavior when he was drinking. When he dranked his true feelings about everything came to surface. Most people were advised to ignore his behavior, because afterall, we were reminded, that it was the alcohol that caused him to misbehave. I thought then as I do now, the alcohol, gave him the courage to say what he really wanted to say all along. I thought about him today after reading your comments from the past 24hrs. Your alcohol was your anger so to speak, and your anger allowed you to be brutally honest about what's really in your heart. I am not surprised, hurt or shocked. It is what it is, and the more things change in this country, the more some things stay the same. In July you posed the question "how could I be racist, If I am interested in black women? White racists and white supremacists hate all blacks, not me". In October you said "I came here in hopes of communicating and possibly meeting a black female someday". Today your mentality is to, and I'm quoting you, "to go back to Africa and leave my______country... Go play in your pen and eat your own_______like the rest of YOU zoo inhabitants do. It has been in my experience that only racist white people are the ones who are quick to tell black people to go back to Africa and to leave this country!! When you you refrenced Zoo Inhabitants, who in your eyesight are the Inhabitants? Were you speaking to one person or an entire group?? Not that it really matters, because in my opinion, if you feel that way about one black person, you feel that way about all of us, it is what it is!!! Whites built this country and Whites makes the rules???? Is this your true racist mentality, or did you just speak out of anger or were you under the influence of alcohol????? This country was built and prospered on the backs, sweat, blood, lynchings, picking cotton from sun up to sun down, by black slaves, and yes the white people were their, willing and waiting to whip, strangle, de-humanize, lynch, and rape the slaves, by any means necessary!!!! The history lesson is not my focus here today. I just wanted you to know that I did NOT appreciate the WHEN you reacted, out of anger. I would have respected you more, had you been Man enough and Honest enough to say how you truly felt all along, instead of the Pretending!! There were too many people here that gave you the benefit of the doubt, who treated you for the most part in a decent manner, both the men and women and I personally think it is a slap in the face, a rope around the neck for you to now to tell any black person to go back to Africa and to leave YOUR country!!!! Her rude, crude and obnoxious behavior is in MY opinion, no just cause for the degrading comments that came from your mouth!!!!!!! My Grandmother used to always say "talk less and listen more because then and only then, will you see a person for what they really are"! In other words, you can't hide your true self!! godiva
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Dee43 says:Posted: 30 Nov 09Wow...Wow. is all I can say. Why seeking for love with whom you are comfortable with makes you racist and all this other mess. As many others have stated love has no color. I really wish we could all see it for what it is and move on with our lives. Enough said......
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ErzulieRedEyes says:Posted: 30 Nov 09
Comment by Azrazyel on 30 November 2009: Haha! I love your humor! White guys wanting to use you for a sexual experiment? Yeah, that’s all your worth. We fuck you and dump you like a piece of waste. We don’t date you because we are ashamed to be seen with you in public. It will ruin our superiority complex. On the other hand, you can’t get a white man nor any other man because you are a low-life ghetto piece of shit. We will use you as an experiment making you think we like you only to dispose of you after we get what we want. Abagond’s a little bitch. And yes I have a white girlfriend. She is the standard of beauty in America and you are in the garbage dump. Go back to Africa and leave my fucking country. Whites built this country and WE make the fucking rules around here. And go back to your poor ghetto, scum infested neighborhood and hide because no one wants to see putrid shit like you. Your oppressed and you will suffer forevermore! Because you are weak and you have no say in MY country. Get the fuck out of here and drown in formaldehyde. And go play in your pen and eat your own shit like the rest of you zoo inhabitants do. You are pathetic and you are a obese, smelly loud-mouthed ghetto whore that no one wants. And close your legs because I can smell your nasty cunt from here. And clean up the maggots that crawl out of it as well you lowly piece of human waste." Go back to europe and take your shit eating white bitches with you! Abagond's a smart man, not some uneducated backwoods redenck like you. The poor ghetto would be Russia, you white trash have the largest ghetto in the world! IF you had a white bitch you wouldn't be on an interracial dating site and you wouldn't show up on abagond's blog harassing all the black women, you pathetic skinhead trash.
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ErzulieRedEyes says:Posted: 30 Nov 09
Comment by jaden24 on 30 November 2009: I never implied I was hot and when I mentioned attraction- it was based upon who you are as a person…not looks How am I begging for black pussy by posting a personal ad because I have a preference for them because uhh, ya know… I like black women(with the exception of you). furthermore, I am dating an adorable black girl that I met on this site so I guess you hit a dead end there. you keep throwing your “facts”, stereotypes and assumptions everywhere and at everyone as if you are trying to enlighten them. do you really believe its working? you arent even self-aware… You are easily the most racist person I have ever met. I am done wasting my time even responding to your nonsense." Typical, all whites call black people racit when black people don't take any of their bullshit and call you fools out on your bigotry! YOU are ugly, but of course, you think you are god's gift to women just because you are white. Take your superiority complex and choke on it. And you don't know who I am you idiot, i type words on a computer screen! You didn't inherit the so-called genius white brain did you? You are using black women for sex and for amusement, don't expect me to pat you on the back for that you ignorant piece of white trash.
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Azrazyel says:Posted: 30 Nov 09
I'm with Jaden. I'm outta here because I feel like I am picking on a damn kid who is defenseless. C.Ya!
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Azrazyel says:Posted: 30 Nov 09
Haha! I love your humor! White guys wanting to use you for a sexual experiment? Yeah, that's all your worth. We fuck you and dump you like a piece of waste. We don't date you because we are ashamed to be seen with you in public. It will ruin our superiority complex. On the other hand, you can't get a white man nor any other man because you are a low-life ghetto piece of shit. We will use you as an experiment making you think we like you only to dispose of you after we get what we want. Abagond's a little bitch. And yes I have a white girlfriend. She is the standard of beauty in America and you are in the garbage dump. Go back to Africa and leave my fucking country. Whites built this country and WE make the fucking rules around here. And go back to your poor ghetto, scum infested neighborhood and hide because no one wants to see putrid shit like you. Your oppressed and you will suffer forevermore! Because you are weak and you have no say in MY country. Get the fuck out of here and drown in formaldehyde. And go play in your pen and eat your own shit like the rest of you zoo inhabitants do. You are pathetic and you are a obese, smelly loud-mouthed ghetto whore that no one wants. And close your legs because I can smell your nasty cunt from here. And clean up the maggots that crawl out of it as well you lowly piece of human waste.
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jaden24 says:Posted: 30 Nov 09
I never implied I was hot and when I mentioned attraction- it was based upon who you are as a person...not looks How am I begging for black pussy by posting a personal ad because I have a preference for them because uhh, ya know... I like black women(with the exception of you). furthermore, I am dating an adorable black girl that I met on this site so I guess you hit a dead end there. you keep throwing your "facts", stereotypes and assumptions everywhere and at everyone as if you are trying to enlighten them. do you really believe its working? you arent even self-aware... You are easily the most racist person I have ever met. I am done wasting my time even responding to your nonsense.
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ErzulieRedEyes says:Posted: 30 Nov 09
Comment by jaden24 on 30 November 2009: This is disturbing to see such hate for another color of person wow…just wow" Who are you supposed to be? Since you think are so "hot" why are you on this website begging for black pussy? Black women are supposed to drop to their knees and praise god just because YOU think you are special? You filthy white trash skinhead boys only show the whole world that you do nothing but use black women as temporary sex toys.
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ErzulieRedEyes says:Posted: 30 Nov 09
LOL Oh please! Take your ignorant redneck ass back to your klan meeting! Abagond thinks you're a joke and so do the other posters! You say you are looking for a black woman while you were on his blog harassing all of them! Tell your ugly white bitches to lose weight! You show up on a "interracial dating" site after saying you have a white girlfriend! Your pathetic ass has no one because no black woman wants to end up on the side of a highway with a freak like you!
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Azrazyel says:Posted: 30 Nov 09
Yes she is weak. She is upset no white man wants her weak, ghetto foul mouthed ass. She is the epitome of human failure. Look at her making a fool of herself. Demon eyes, how is that weight loss program coming? Where is your man? Oh wait, no one wants ghetto putrid shit like you. Get lost, you are not wanted. Shrivel up and die. I am ashamed to have to breathe the same air as you. You are a nobody and nobody wants you. Go hide in a cave or shoot yourself in the head. Save this world mercy. Slit your wrists and bleed a slow and painful death. In equivalence, that's the same of having to hear human waste such as yourself.
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jaden24 says:Posted: 30 Nov 09
This is disturbing to see such hate for another color of person wow...just wow
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ErzulieRedEyes says:Posted: 30 Nov 09
White trash is the fattest of all people. You try to hide that by making it seem like only blacks and latinos are fat in the media. Everywhere i go i see fat old ugly rednecks looking like rush limbaugh and ruby. Yes the pure white woman stereotype is played out, its lie and no one believes it anymore except the peckerwoods like you that use it to make themselves feel superior! If white women were so "pure" they wouldn't be in scat films all over the internet, eating shit and drinking piss! And the black panthers are dignified freedom fighters, not some toothless redneck trash wearing white hoods and burning crosses like your people are!
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Azrazyel says:Posted: 29 Nov 09
Fat trailer white trash? Aren't black women the fattest of all races? So the chances you contain are pretty high of being a severely obese unwanted black bitch. And I love my white woman. She treats me with kindness and I appreciate her beauty. We get along in great harmony. What have you to say for yourself demon eyes? Wait, no white man wants you. So you spread black panther propaganda and reveal anger and bitterness of white men not giving you a chance. You deserve it. If you somehow lost your black panther mentality and lost a shitload of weight, maybe someday a man will come along for you. But the chances of a white man accepting your black panther ass is about impossible. Your lame. And no the white woman stereotype is never played out. Explaining why white men stick with their own, and now black men realizing the white woman epitome of beauty as well. Your in a lose lose situation demon eyes. Neither white nor black men wants a obese, ghetto bitch like you. Get lost!
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ErzulieRedEyes says:Posted: 29 Nov 09
Take your stupid ass off of this dating site since you have a white bitch you ignorant peckerwood! Black women don't want skinhead white trash like you that's going to call them a monkey and then ramble on about being a victim! I'm here to put away these typical stereotypes you skinhead peckerwoods use against black women. Tell your fat trailer trash white whores to lose weight, the pure white woman stereotype is old and played out!
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Azrazyel says:Posted: 29 Nov 09
Fuck you you dumb as fuck n!gger! Call me cracker I'll call you N!gger. I am not taking myself off of here because you want me to. How in the fuck do you plan to do so? Me hiding behind a computer? What the fuck do you think you are doing you weak ass, punk black bitch? I knew you would call me a skinhead. I appreciate that. Sometimes skinhead tendencies are needed to put weak, ghetto black scum such as yourself in their place. The more I mention white men don't want you, the angrier and angrier you get. Because you know we don't want filthy, decomposing scum as you are. I have my white woman and you give me and every white man reason to stay away from diseases like you. You are completely worthless and your life is not worth a dime. Why are you here then (demon) eyes? You must be looking for white men but your pathetic being shows you will always fail at any attempts. We don't want you. Give it up! You are bound to the grave of heartbreak of something that will never be in grasp. Loose some weight. Try Jenny Craig or take the path of Jared of Subway and maybe you could have your own commercial of your own.....oh...wait, the media won't put ghetto scum on tv such as yourself. ROTFLMFAO....get lost you weakling!
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ErzulieRedEyes says:Posted: 29 Nov 09
YOU are the coward, claiming you would "beat the black off of me" please! You are a sissy like the white trash on stormfront saying they're going to kill all blacks and jews when all you peckerwoods can do is hide behind a computer screen! And since you say you don't want black women take your ignorant ass off of the dating site then cracker! You showed up everyday to harass the black women on abagond's blog and the nclaim you want a black lady! You're nothing but a psycopathic skinhead looking to use black women as a sex toy and social experiment! I'm glad no woman has come in contact with a creep like you!
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Azrazyel says:Posted: 29 Nov 09
And google my name....nowhere you will you see the name Azrazyel linked to a demonic name....use some common sense. This name has a personal meaning to me for phrases stranded together. Now scurry back to your lowlife, unwanted, black panther ways of living. You are my laughing stalk that makes my day. The views you retain of white men (of which you will never have) are the same views white men have of you in real life. Why? Because your weak presence shines itself in here and your character gives just cause to judge you as you are....a pestilence of massive disease. Oh btw, I have a girlfriend now of which she is white, explaining no need to have an active account here anymore. But I thank you for helping me realize what white men already knew about ghetto bitches like you. You are unattractive in your demented ways of thinking. You are a turnoff of black women in general. I have no need to converse with you any longer because I have already won this battle....you will never have what you want and will never get what you desire. Take care, and hopefully an exorcism one day will drive out the demonic red eyes in you....as well as your putrid thinking towards whites....Erzulie (demon)eyes. Haha...what a coward....
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Azrazyel says:Posted: 29 Nov 09
You indulge me with your ignorance. You say white women don't want me? And you would know how? Probably because your black panther, ghetto, loud stereotypical pathetic ass tells you so. No white man wants you. No black man wants you. I am sure you are a fat, booty clappin', finger snappin, head rollin black bitch that is out there. You are truly pathetic and I laugh at you knowing you will never endear what you want but cannot have...a white man! ROFL I have shown my face and people know what I look like. Why don't you? Are you too ignorant or just a fat, severely obese ghetto bitch that no one wants? You won't because you will show how ugly I am sure you are. You have failed before at attempts with white men but they don't want a Black Panther such as yourself. I can hear you from a mile away. And your ghetto attitude is exactly what keeps us away from stereotypical bitches such as yourself. Maybe your anger and frustration has led you to who you are. Your life is worthless and white men have proven over and over to you that you are unwanted. So you lash back at something you can never have...
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ErzulieRedEyes says:Posted: 29 Nov 09
The only fool here is YOU! Your stupid ass got banned for calling a black lady on abagond's blog a monkey and now you are on here looking for a black woman to date! PITIFUL. You call black women nasty names and then you show up to try to date one! Your ignorant screen name comes from the name of a demon, alot of you silly white boys glorify demons and vampires. And your stupid ass changed your name on abagond's blog to Maximus thinking that would somehow erase your racist comments towards black people. White women don't want you and black women don't want you! Its funny to see desperate ugly white trash on dating websties looking for black pussy. Sad. LOL
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Azrazyel says:Posted: 29 Nov 09
And Erzulie (demon) eyes: You can call me ugly. I respect that. But my experiences here while active has proven otherwise. Not just from black women but from white women as well. Too bad none of them we're available in my area. Not trying to brag here but since you want to paint me in a negative light (evidently driven through hate towards whites and you having not a clue of who I am) I decided to place my side of the story. Yes I know you will come back saying I belong on Stormfromt, I am a racist redneck, I am crusty, a skinhead and white trash...rofl too funny. Since I belong on Stormfront (according to you) I suggest you continue along with your Black Panther propaganda against whites. You could pass for a NS movement if no one knew you we're black. You sound silly and void of sense. White men don't want you so you attack back with BP propaganda against white men. We know better than that....and you keep shunning yourself away from realization you are a BP. Keep hating us. We don't want you nor will we ever. You are transparent in your thoughts and your BP propaganda movement. I am sure you cringe at every moment you see a white man with a black woman because you know inside they don't want you. It eats you alive like sulfuric acid. Lay to rest my little one, lay to rest.
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Azrazyel says:Posted: 29 Nov 09
Erzulie: You are pathetic! How are you going to call me a skinhead when you are anti-white? Why do you constantly complain about white men? Because they don't want your loud-mouthed, ghetto ass? You can't get no black men? You give white men the same EXACT reason to stay away from black women. You ruin it for everyone else. You have failed at life, Erzulie (demon) eyes. You can't get white men so instead you bitch and complain about them. You are one sorry and very pathetic human individual. Hey you know what they say. "If you can't beat 'em, join 'em." In this case....If you can't get a white man hate 'em. You are every stereotype a white man hates about black women. You set the example every white male has about black women. You ruin it for everyone else who is truly down to earth. The more you type here the more chances a white male may stumble upon this site with interest, read your pathetic propaganda and lose all interest. Quit making a fool of yourself. Your only hurting your own race. And no I don't want black pussy, never have. You want white dick but you won't admit to it. So, since no white man wants a loud-mouthed, ghetto bitch like yourself you might as well hate us. Hey, you ain't hurting us. We have many options of women to choose from and know to stay away from booty clappin' ghetto bitches such as yourself. And no white man with self respect would ever have the decency to assimilate with a ghetto bitch like you. Wait, white men already know this explaining the small marriage numbers between white men and black women. You are an epitome of reasoning behind it. Give it up, no white man wants your sorry ass. Hate all you want because you are only fueling the negative image even further white men have about black women.
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ErzulieRedEyes says:Posted: 28 Nov 09
omment by Azrazyel on 28 November 2009: Erzulie: I have been on here far longer than you. You can throw any degrading racist propaganda towards me and you will not phase me. You have come from abagond’s blog to here to spread your hate towards whites. Why did you come here? No one wanted to listen to your bullshit on abagond’s site? You drove all whites away from there and your attempt here will result in utter failure. You are far outnumbered. People will see you for what you are. Call me a Stormfront member or whatever you will. Maybe you could pass as such a member promoting white hate. Do you not realize you are playing the very game that has held you down for so long? Listen, I don’t know what your life situation has caused such hatred. But it seems your chances of being shown a different light is the same chances of a person blind to their own racism…. That is exactly what you are." Oh you been on here long? LOL that's because you are ugly and no black woman is going to pick up a piece of white trash like you. You look like a fool! Sounds like you are seeking out black women to hurt them! All you did on abagond's blog was call black women ghetto and monkeys. Glad your stupid ass is banned from there so we don't have to hear your ignorant mouth! I told them your pathetic behind was on here and they laughed! No black woman with self-respect and good sense is going to be with a skinhead psychopath like you! You're just another desperate redneck looking for black pussy cause white women don't even want your crusty ass!
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Azrazyel says:Posted: 28 Nov 09
Erzulie: I have been on here far longer than you. You can throw any degrading racist propaganda towards me and you will not phase me. You have come from abagond's blog to here to spread your hate towards whites. Why did you come here? No one wanted to listen to your bullshit on abagond's site? You drove all whites away from there and your attempt here will result in utter failure. You are far outnumbered. People will see you for what you are. Call me a Stormfront member or whatever you will. Maybe you could pass as such a member promoting white hate. Do you not realize you are playing the very game that has held you down for so long? Listen, I don't know what your life situation has caused such hatred. But it seems your chances of being shown a different light is the same chances of a person blind to their own racism.... That is exactly what you are.
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ErzulieRedEyes says:Posted: 28 Nov 09
Comment by Mr Laurelton Queens on 28 November 2009: Let me jump into the argument here. AZ is not racist or he wouldn’t be on an interracial blog. Abagond’s blog happens to be a good read in my opinion. The author asks the tough questions unlike other sellout black women blogs. I respect that. At the end of the day you have to consider why a majority of white men shy away from black women. AZ is one of the few that tells you the truth. Would you rather be lied to? I think when you have to say this person is racist or hates black women. You are on the losing end of an argument. This shows you the difficulty of interracial relationships. People give you the impression it is “all good”. When it is more difficult than people think." YOU must be a fool, YOU were not on abagond's blog dealing with this fool while he harassed every black poster on his blog. He is racist, every comment he made about black women was about attacking them and calling them names which is why he was banned by abagond. Then that freak turns around and shows up on a dating site looking for black women! I don't kiss ass to stormfront white trash like him and he looks weird showing up on a dating site looking for black women when he is nothing but a loud mouthed skinhead.
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Member says:Posted: 28 Nov 09
Let me jump into the argument here. AZ is not racist or he wouldn't be on an interracial blog. Abagond’s blog happens to be a good read in my opinion. The author asks the tough questions unlike other sellout black women blogs. I respect that. At the end of the day you have to consider why a majority of white men shy away from black women. AZ is one of the few that tells you the truth. Would you rather be lied to? I think when you have to say this person is racist or hates black women. You are on the losing end of an argument. This shows you the difficulty of interracial relationships. People give you the impression it is "all good". When it is more difficult than people think.
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Tiro says:Posted: 28 Nov 09
Black men are no better than white men and white men are no better then black men, same to white women and black men. meet someone you get along with and move on
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ErzulieRedEyes says:Posted: 28 Nov 09
Comment by Azrazyel on 28 November 2009: Oh and one more thing. Why are certain black women here bitching and complaining that white…excuse me…ALL white men are evil and racist? What is the purpose of being on an interracial dating site. You hate white men, you complain they won’t date you…then you complain and waste your energy of all the derogatory names they call you. What is it your looking for. If you already know white men hate you and don’t want you, why are you still complaining??? Quit wasting your energy on white men and find someone else. There is no point….like beating a dead horse." YOU were banned from Abagond's blog for calling posters typical names white people use for black people, take your stupid ass back to Stormfront! Glad your dumb ass is gone so we can have a decent conversation without hearing david duke's bitch talking in the background. No good reason you should be on here when all you do is go to any black-oriented website you can find to harass black people!
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ErzulieRedEyes says:Posted: 28 Nov 09
Comment by Azrazyel on 28 November 2009: Bah Humbug! I am letting you all know to disregard erzulieredeyes. She is racist and spreads propaganda against whites. Check her out a abagond.wordpress.com This is a fair warning." LOL I know that's a joke! YOU were finally banned from abagond's blog because you called one of his regular blog posters a monkey and other racial slurs used against black women. Your pathetric ignorant white trash behind is on HERE trying to get a black woman when you showed up there harassing the black posters. Black women are human beings, they are not some social experiment for skinhead white trash with sick fetishes like yourself.
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