Archive for August, 2010

Infidelity: Love vs respect

Tuesday, August 31st, 2010

Most people believe that when a person has an affair, they have fallen out of love. Not necessarily so. However, if both of you had signed up for a monogamous relationship, then cheating does mean one thing for sure … the cheating spouse has NO RESPECT for the relationship! If you ever found yourself in [...]

Can you love tenderly and still maintain lusty-steamy sex?

Saturday, August 28th, 2010

Couples who have been married for long find themselves resisting sexual eroticism. Its even harder when one spouse want to keep the lust alive and the other just wants to keep love making simple. For most, caring deeply about a spouse takes lust from the whole equation; its like there is a choice between tender [...]

Is marrying for wealth such a bad idea?

Friday, August 27th, 2010

Well, it all depends on how you look at it. I hate being broke. Who doesn’t anyway! Its not like I am a gold digger or something but trust me, in my relationships, I have come to realize that a drop in cash flow affects my mood, hence how I relate to my spouse, hence [...]

Is reacting to racial remarks lacking a sense of humor?

Tuesday, August 24th, 2010

Some people in interracial relationships have openly voiced their discomfort and the hurt they feel when racist comments are directed towards them. I understand where they are coming from. But when Dr. Laura Schlessinger took a call from African American woman (Jade), who voiced her dissatisfaction about racist remarks made by friends and family members [...]

Do Pigs Fly?

Tuesday, August 24th, 2010

What does your lady really want to hear?

Wednesday, August 18th, 2010

There are situations men find themselves in and wonder how they even got there. These are tricky moments that arise during difficult conversations… moments where one misplaced word can lead to a spiraling argument or the silent treatment for days on end. But what is a man to do in such situations where silence is [...]

Is multiracialism such a hard concept to grasp?

Wednesday, August 18th, 2010

When a person has parents that come from different racial backgrounds, he or she is considered multiracial. This according to Association of Multiethnic Americans and Project RACE . However, with the increase in cases of multi ancestry throughout the world, the categorization of people as multiracial seems quite puzzling these days. Looking at this Nigerian [...]

Study: Sex makes you brilliant

Thursday, August 12th, 2010

Sex boosts brain growth? This is some good news for those of us that hate reading. According to Fox News, the study done on rodents by Princeton Scientists showed an increase in brain volume of sexually active rodents. The sexually active ones were also less anxious than the virgins. The blood levels of stress were [...]

Women shouldn’t take infidelity too personally?

Tuesday, August 10th, 2010

In a book ‘Sugarbabe: Based on the Controversial, Real Story of a Woman in Search of a Sugardaddy’, Psychologist Holly Hill says women shouldn’t take fidelity too personally. (Is this even possible?) She also says “Women who cross their legs deserve to be cheated on.” Some take huh!

Do some couples regret dating interracially?

Wednesday, August 4th, 2010

There are these interracial couples that walk around arm in arm, all smiles, looking into each others eyes … so in love. Most of these couples are on celebrity red carpets beaming and proud of their interracial love, no matter how much we analyze or criticize them. Much as the above mentioned group is bold [...]